I'm going to vent. I met my boyfriend on the Internet about two years ago. >seemed great at first, listened to everything I said, cared about me >stayed up at night to be able to always reply to my messages >went skiing together >met his family >flew over from another country to meet me Fast forward a year >we move in together Well I did not expect this.jpg >goes on the computer at 10am >gets off the computer at 9pm >hasnt gotten a job because makes money from stocks and isn't bothered enough to get one >always home, no hobbies apart from programming >tried getting him out of the house to get him started >always ends up with my dragging him outside >he doesn't invite me anywhere >thinks sitting inside all day is fine >doesn't talk unless I start the conversation >says he doesn't have what to talk about because we live together now >meanwhile I met anther guy at my uni >talks all the time, bubbly and happy >a month later, tells me he loves me > I'm so unhappy living with my boyfriend but I am loyal >reject the other guy but still talk sometimes because I see him around >now I get sad every day because I sit in silence at home and do nothing unless it's alone >and this uni guy constantly does things to improve and tells me about books he's written and places he's going to >imagine life together whilst I'm stuck in a loveless relationship that makes me unhappy
>doesn't need a job because he gets money from stocks >why won't you get a job >what for >just get a job ffs what the fuck is your problem, nigger
Hunter Johnson
>I met my boyfriend on the Internet about two years ago. Stopped reading there, shut the fuck up you manipulating cunt and get off our board
Owen Lee
Sounds like you already know what you need to do. Make sure you arent making the same exact mistake you made when you moved in. Plus, a nigga who confessed to you despite knowing you're in a relationship is a piece of shit. If you dont break up clean with your bf either you should kys desu. Remember that its your fault for pretending to love someone without realizing who they actually were.
dump your bf so i can date him you dumb slut, he sounds /ideal/
Sebastian Wood
>bait I am obligated to bump this thread due to retardation. OP's faggotry is THAT undeniable.
Jayden Hughes
Your boyfriend sounds exactly like me exact I don't know how to do stocks. Anyways kill yourself roastie
Luis Gutierrez
You're a bad person. Not only because you're a larping troll, but because It sounds like your boyfriend gave you happiness and has added onto your life significantly while you've just being unaware and drained from him. He probably suffers from depression and even though he may very well be an introvert you've done nothing to successfully help HIM(which in turn would make you happy) nor have you made any successful attempts at going out and doing things while making him feel comfortable and enjoying life. Go for it, drop your shit and get into a new relationship instead of improving what you already have, see how it works out for you long term, it's not even like your odds are that bad in this situation to have it work out.
But you criticize your boyfriend for being stagnant and not improving but meanwhile that's what you're doing and you're probably too fucking ignorant to understand that.
Colton Smith
>your hand will always be more loyal than any girl and doesn't have the mental nightmare baggage.
Michael Martinez
This. Roasties fuck off, no matter what hand life has delt you
Matthew Rodriguez
Stocks is actually a good way to make money desu, I don't know why op is complaining
Grayson Lee
Checked, fpbp.
Also how the fuck are you with him for 2 years and you still don't know what goes on with his day to day activities. You two aren't compatible, that is all. Stop venting. This isn't a scenario where you just release your emotions and the problem is gone. Either invest in him and push him to be a better man or find someone else.
Jace Perez
Congrats, you're a whore. Now go kill yourself, you slimy degenerate. Also, friendly reminder that men and women can't be friends.
Nicholas Bailey
What's wrong? The uni guy won't pay for your ass with his money?
Angel Reed
Jesus. Tell him you are unhappy. It is not like he is married. Just ditch your bf he sounds like trash (your average robot)
Nicholas Brooks
>>goes on the computer at 10am >>gets off the computer at 9pm
He needs to make time for you. Start going out to breakfast together.
Or break up. Sounds like you want to and your bf doesn't care enough to make a compromise.
Blake Cooper
>Just get him to spend more money on you She needs to either stop speaking to other men in general and maybe take interest in what he's doing since she's along for the ride or just leave. She's a fucking whore.
Carson Wright
god I fucking despise everything about you break up with him if you do not enjoy being with him, but please put a fucking bullet through your head first
Dylan Rivera
have stockmarket boy pay for you when you go out to enjoy yourself while he plays vidya
Owen Anderson
Loyalty is one thing, like not cheating, but staying in a dissatisfying relationship is just senseless. It's time to move on.
Evan Bailey
>is it wrong to blame the girl for being retarded since you're the one who decided to chase her in the first place?
I don't know who's more ignorant in this situation, the guy or the girl? Maybe both are just naive?
Benjamin Lewis
why is he trash? not like he did anything wrong, the situation changed, and OP is complaining like an entitled brat.
Jace Lewis
Does he likes forests and nature? I'm a future NEET but mainly because I hate life in the city. It would be comfy if I could go for a walk in the forest or by some lake with a qt girl. Never gonna happen for me, anyways.
Ethan Harris
Honestly you sound like the steriotypical woman who doesnt even know what she really wants out of a relationship or a man You should learn to grow up before life teaches you the hard way Heres a hint >its already starting to
Ayden Turner
Bro you are the younger version of me in a sense. Move outta the city before you become a neet and it rots your brain. I came to this conclusion late, went forest walking with girl acquaintances recently but didn't have anything to talk about with them. Just 2 people walking next to each other minding their own business. I actually felt more miserable than if I was going alone. Long as you have the passion of youth and longing to connect with other people you definitely should do hikes with them. They can be fun.
Liam Jenkins
correct, this ho is just as damaged by evidently being incapable of commitment. why would you entertain thoughts of this exciting new boy if you really loved your boyfriend? tell him what you NEED and be straight about it. say there have to be some changes for you to be compatible. and if you weren't this compatible in the first place, why the hell did you move in with him? should've at least had a trial run.
bad decisions all-around
Brayden Cruz
>written a book while in uni Sounds like a cunt.
Christian Lewis
have you talked to him? maybe you can start sharing some hobbies together but anyway, if you both have different live's view and aspirations is OK to leave. You ended up the love phase and now you realice you don't have that much in common...
Easton White
This is why some people hate women. When you already saw a decline in attraction to him you should have told him. You fucked this relationship up, causing pain to yourself and him by not intervening sooner.
Women are irrational and mindless and causes harm to others unless treated like they should, you proved this.
>start fucking a guy before knowing him >now that you know him you don't like him >lol I'm loyal
No. You're a whore.
Alexander Nelson
fuck off, we all know how this ends. you fuck uni guy for a while, find out he isn't nearly as awesome as you thought, get fed up and break up with bf while keeping uni guy on a string and eventually cascading into some other retarded roast conundrum.
Ayden Parker
Just break up with bf and date university guy? I don't understand what is so difficult here
Brayden Barnes
>Bro you are the younger version of me in a sense. Move outta the city before you become a neet and it rots your brain. Well I don't even live in the city, user. I just have to go there everyday for uni, the sole idea of having to go there everyday for work or things like that literally crushes my soul. I feel like in a post-futurist dystopia every time I step into that place, especially shopping malls I consider them horrible places. I cannot imagine myself going to the movies with a girlfriend feeling anxious in such a crowded place full of noise and maddening beeps coming from the checkouts in the shops.
>went forest walking with girl acquaintances recently but didn't have anything to talk about with them. Just 2 people walking next to each other minding their own business. I actually felt more miserable than if I was going alone That's sad, user. I mean, if I ever would be able to go with a girl through the forest I wouldn't like to feel that we are just wandering casually together. Normally I go there walking with my binoculars to spot all kinds of rare birds in my area, also spotting plants or fungi growing on the undergrowth. I don't know if a girl who enjoys those things exists, because I would not be able to go with a girl who's there thinking about fashion clothing or texting on her phone. That would be fine at home maybe, but not while taking a walk.
>Long as you have the passion of youth and longing to connect with other people you definitely should do hikes with them. They can be fun. I'm a 21 khv, how fucked am I in your opinion?
Ethan King
What you're failing to see is the woman mentality that makes her think she can change him or that he will change for her because she's just that special. Women want to be what a guy will change himself over. It's a weird validation thing they have that if they don't alter someone's lifestyle to suit what they think it should be, then they're unhappy.
Andrew Reyes
>waahh chad doesn't pay enough attention to me and now I want to cheat on him. my life is so hard ): kill yourself roastie
Joseph Gray
Leave your bf, easy answer.
Kevin Cox
she mentioned he didnt really have any hobbies and you cant stay stuck doing the same thing forever
Landon Gutierrez
Is this picture original? I can't find it on reverse image search, and those boobies are nice.
Nathaniel Gomez
her name is shiftymine on instagram. I think she streams too.
William Ross
but then she'd lose his money and a roof over head ate you crazy?!? She's going to leech off what she has until a better match comes along