Why do I tear up/feel like crying so easily in a confrontational situation...

Why do I tear up/feel like crying so easily in a confrontational situation? If someone yells at me or if I'm in a tense situation with someone I immediately get on the verge of tears and am seconds away from bawling.

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People like you need to take the pink pill

What is the pink pill?

Fight or flight kicking in

I see people who brush off confrontations like it's nothing, getting friendly with the guy they almost just got in a fight with. Meanwhile I hold a petty grudge and feeling of resentment for a while after even a minor altercation.

bumperino--

im the same, user. i'll try to argue back only to burst into tears midway through. i think it stems back to when i was a kid trying to argue back to my narcissistic prick mother who would always just shout me down and call herself right, even if she just fucking wasnt.

seconded

fight or flight you are choosing flight

>i'll try to argue back only to burst into tears midway through
that's actually hilarious

i mean yeah, its kinda funny but im at a point where i dont wanna look like a fucking pussy who cant stick up for themselves anymore. i dont even know why i cry, its not like i get sad from arguing.

Your estrogen might be too high or you might have a psychiatric disorder.

that's weird most men can't even cry unless they want to cry. It's probably a defense mechanism you learned and never grew out of

It probably conditioned your brain to respond that way if it was a repeated experience. It may be hard but not impossible to undo.

Almost certainly hormonal imbalance. This is a characteristic female reaction which men do not normally exhibit.

I suggest you stop eating s-o-y, avoid plastics, lose weight, drink less alcohol, lift weights, maybe see your doctor and get your T levels tested.

>psychiatric disorder.
What sort? I've always been the odd one out so I think it's possible.

I've been like this since I was a kid, overreacting to any negative stimulus. Used to throw tantrums when other kids tried to play with me. What the fuck is wrong with me?

That user was saying take the pink pill or transition or become a sissy bottom because you are emotional like a girl

How big is your cock OP? also you would make a good bottom and most likely you could easily be raped.

How old are you?
Did your father or parents shout at you a lot as a child? When I was younger I was the same because my dad would shout and hit me sometimes for no reason but i got over it

Take estrogen (HRT) and become a trap senpai

>Did your father or parents shout at you a lot as a child?

not him but i'm the same way and this is why

This is good though it means he could transition easily and let real men fuck his boiholes

>this happens to me as well
>Learnt to stop it and also learnt to avoid conflict
I fucking hate it and I can't fight even when I'm angry because I go all jelly legged and brainless.

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In that case it could just be something you are stuck with. Genetic differences mean too much of a certain neurotransmitter or inability to clear it can lead to behavioural and emotional problems.

I have seen others who were the same, they start showing it at a very young age and are like it their whole lives. Best you can do is find coping strategies like mindfulness or maybe experiment with nootropics to hack your brain.

>burst into tears
>not "burst into treats"

Jow Forums is officially dead

its ok user i get that too, if somone so much as raises their voice at my i want to run away and cry

I'm 18. My mom shouted at me a lot and I had what could be called a bad relationship with her growing up (although there were good times) but I'm on good terms with her now. Don't really see her that much anymore though.

It could be genetic. My mom is quite neurotic and a little bit bipolar. She has quite the temper too, when she gets mad she goes all out. I've isolated myself because I can't deal with the regular banter required of male social interaction and the inevitable confrontations that arise. Like you I also avoid confrontations, often calculating the optimal decisions to make and demeanor to have to keep the other person in a non-confrontational state. Confrontations inevitably arise, so I've learned to quell my emotions to a certain extent, but I'm not really good at it. The main thing is to avoid escalation.