What's the best way to lose feelings for a girl?
What's the best way to lose feelings for a girl?
Try real hard to love another.
get to actually now her, and not just the idea you have built up in your head.
This is also a good one.
Try to combine with this
If you're emotionally stable, exhaust the feeling. Look at pictures of her, try to get to know her from what she has posted online, listen to music she likes, see her political views etc. Mild internet stalking basically, but no interaction. If she turns out to be extreme left/right, basic pleb or tryhard hispter, in general something you don't like, you'll get over it pretty fast
OK but what if I already know her but the idea of what she used to be like is too good to forget
don't worry about it, those memories will vanish when you meet someone else you connect with.
just don't close yourself off to meeting someone else, and you will be good.
Imagine her taking a shit or puking.
Nigger I've been trying to forget and move on but I'm literally being constantly reminded of her
Until he realizes he's madly in love with her for good reasons
Id say talk to others. By talk I mean that in the literal sense. Shit sucked at first but it ended up working for me.
Good
Bad if you actually like this person
>Fixating on their negative attributes
Stalking part isnt necessary if you know the person. Crude but effective.
F if true
>Nigger I've been trying to forget and move on but I'm literally being constantly reminded of her.
I understand believe me I do, but it's the loneliness getting the better of you, if and when you meet someone new you fill not even notice when you suddenly stop thinking about them.
I been on both sides of the coin.
You must hate her
I like to dive deep on feeling bad, really torture myself with regret and shame and anger, for a few days. When you face it really bluntly that way you just get sick of feeling bad and so mad at the girl that you tend to cut them off instinctively. It really sucks for those couple of days but if you just get it all out of the way early it's pretty easy after that.
I think there's just a fixed amount of mourning you have to do after getting rejected or just realizing deeply that it'll never happen. You can either do like 5 minutes of it a day and take months and months to get through that mourning, or you can do nothing but for 3 or 4 days and get it done right away.
She was so cute and perfect, we had almost everything in common and have known each other for a quite a while, how am I supposed to get over me fucking up, making her hate me, and her becoming a whore? Which in turn makes me hate her too for the most part.
OP here, the girl in question wants to be my friend even if we don't date, but the more I am friends with her the more it hurts, but I don't want to hurt her by not being friends with her
Boy, I miss highschool.
What if that makes me like her more?
Get drunk at a party and Brett Kavanaughmaxx
Time.
Time kills everything, the good and the bad.
Then stop being friends?
She won't give you what you want, she wants something that's less than what you want. This is a transaction you're clearly being fucked on, and not the way you wish.
>not mentally categorizing them in the same far-off fictional place as dragons or o'neill cylinders or dyson spheres
by tripping balls on acid!
Beat your meat to her non-stop. Go on a fap fest. Only then will you get over her!
True enough. Closest I got to fucking my HS crush was when I was on adderall + weed. Good times.
>how am I supposed to get over me fucking up
that is something you will have to live with for the rest of your life.
it's obvious you want more than friendship with her, so I recommend against the idea of being friends.