Have you tried online dating? What is it like?

She wants to become a dentist. Can't compete with that work ethic.

It's fucking great, honestly. But draining. It's a bit of a grind to pin down these girls and fuck them, and might as well throw any hopes of a solid relationship out the window.

>swiped 1000 women in one day.

You're so full of shit your eyes must be brown.

i guess, because I actually had a girl message me on bumble. and i suppose no swipe limit helps.

You ever just want to unread something because of how abyssmally relatable it is? I mean yeah I look ok but girls don't want ok. They want the best,even though they aren't even the best. They are average just like us but they demand the finer things. Women never should've gotten this kind of power.

do you realize how fast it adds up when you're sitting on your ass all day, shit posting and watching netflix, just swiping your phone without looking at it? im unemployed fuck face.

I had a relationship with a Swedish woman I met on a Christian dating site. I thought she was very innocent and pure, she seemed like someone from an earlier time. When I went to visit her for the first time, I discovered that she was mentally still a child. She was a literal shut in, and her mother admitted to me that she has severe autism. She almost certainly was also a schizophrenic (talked a lot about all the demons that tried to take her, drew many pictures about it), and threatened to kill herself a few times when I was there. She would break down and scream/sob uncontrollably whenever we went in public. I had to end it with her, because she assumed I would marry her, leave everything, and move to Sweden. She was crushed. I still feel terrible about the whole thing, I feel like I ruined her life. I pray for her every day and can't stop feeling guilty.

I met my girlfriend of 4 months on Tinder after no luck swiping for a year and a half, so nothing ventured I guess.

I don't like it because guys use it to ghost and lie to women (yes, ALL guys, not just Chad) and women use it for validation. It brings out the worst in both genders and the good, lonely girls like my gf fall by the wayside. I found the diamond in the rough personality-wise who actually wanted to use it for a relationship and is so devoted to me, and even she has baggage from all the ghostings.

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Dude girls always have to message first on Bumble

>Christian dating site
Was it Christian Mingle?

IT FUCKING SUCKS ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE BEING CATFISHED FUCK

>IT FUCKING SUCKS ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE BEING CATFISHED FUCK
How do you avoid being catfished when online dating?

No, it was something like christiandatingforfree.com

but now you know it is never free, there is always a price

I know, and I have sworn off all online dating since. That was my only experience and it was too much, I let my loneliness get the best of me in a moment of weakness, and an innocent person paid the price. Now I just put my faith in God; if He wants me to be with someone then she'll find me, if He doesn't then so be it.

reverse search their images, avoid profiles with especially shitty grammar and usernames with a lot of numbers.

Well maybe don't sit on your ass all day, shitposting and watching TV? and maybe you shouldn't just be swiping like a mindless fuck.

You deserve better for yourself.

and women aren't nearly as stupid as you think. They have bullshit detectors, just like us... Chad gets to bypass it. We don't.

I have 2 but the one I chose is because she's too demanding, met her on vidya, she's like 5 years older than me, I was 20 at that time. She's basically 9/10 Dutch cosplayer girl (don't worry she's real). Few months into dating like 3 months I guess, she wants me to live with her on Netherlands with her parents, my spaghetti drops due to her wanting me to. I got not enough money to travel, plus I'm scared if I won't get a job at Netherlands for having no degree at all. She was gonna buy me a ticket so I can go to her but I feel bad for that. She was sad thinking that I didn't want to be there for her, I feel bad even more, so I had to let go, feelsbad but I don't want her to suffer anymore.

i tried, i don't got anything. well fuck my life

>christiandatingforfree.com
Kek the name is lame as fuck

what about finding a girl in church

I went nuts and tried extremely hard on tinder, paid for superlikes and unlimited swipes, swiped thousands of girls and eventually got a few dates. I slept with two of them, fingered a third (lol) who was on her period, and made out with another one. Two of the girls were extremely good looking, and way out of my league. I didn't see any of them again, and a couple of them were extremely cruel when I started getting a little clingy. I'm a not very good looking, dark middle eastern looking black guy living in the US. I was able to get laid a couple times over the course of a year but probably spent hundreds of dollars to do it and none of the girls stuck around. Worth it, I guess, since I am basically an incel otherwise, but if I could get laid any other way it would definitely not be worth the money and effort and heart break. I'd say don't bother.

I used Okcupid a couple years ago and actually met a girl who I hooked up with for a couple months. I thought she was my girlfriend but it turns out that wasn't the case-tho she wasn't sleeping with other guys at the time. I also met another girl who I made out with a few times and could have slept with if I hadn't been too drunk and passed on it. She told me she was a lesbian afterwards. We're still friends, though she lives on the other side of the country. Better than tinder, overall. Tinder girls were better looking but I almost got a real relationship through Okcupid, and anyway I got to sleep with her several times, as opposed to once and then never seeing them again.

Lol like 30% of the time I go for the kiss I end up rejected, they always let me kiss them after though. Don't take shit so seriously man

It's my new year's resolution to start attending a church again. If I met someone there that would be great, but I want to go to church with the intention of worship and hearing the word, not just to meet girls.

I've had sex with strangers from the internet but it's harder to arrange a date. Not even joking

That's not what online dating means. Also, why would a 9/10 Dutch girl want a long term relationship with some loser off the internet? You were def getting cucked.

well do you want a girl that shares your faith? you could always join a church group. im in the same boat and im gonna try it and i hope it works

This. Just go to church.

Proverbs 18:22 says "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing." God made males to be the "hunter" so to speak. Definitely find a home church that you get involved in. Show your face and serve in church. That at least gets your name and face out there. Get involved in outreaches or events where other churches come together. Most importantly, know that your worth isn't determined by a relationship status. Your value to God is the same whether you're married or single, so see yourself in that same light. Loneliness sucks, but having friends fixes that. IMO, the best way to start a relationship is to actually be good friends first, building that friendship through mutual serving others. You learn a lot about a person by how they treat others. God bless user, He got this bro!

>tfw melancholic christian

im afraid to go to church desu. not him btw

>dentist
wow such ambition

It was nice, he trusted me with somethings that are too intimate to share. It sounds generic i know.

I made a generic bad choice and lost it, it doesn't matter since only the start was smooth and after we had to break up.

>Meet girl on pof
>Cute like really cute
>Has a kid but I don't give a fuck
>Talk none stop for a few days
>Tells me she won't have sex before marriage
>Has a kid
>Won't have sex till marriage
>also live an hour away
>Today she happens to be in my city
>Tells me after shes leaving
>Kinda pissed about that as well
I'm not about to enter into a sexless relationship with a fucking single mom I don't give a fuck about how cute she is. That's absolutely retarded and she's an idiot to assume I would. Also she's 18 and I'm 26, I work two jobs and for some reason she thinks that's fucking amazing. I'm really fucking pissed guys, I thought I had found something and right now in my life i need someone by my side. Fuck this shit.

would you enter a relationship with a virgin who won;t have sex before marriage?

That's a little different but no. Im not going to sign fucking state papers for anyone an that's my reason for saying no. Now if they wanted to wait till they knew I was the one they wanted to spend their life with then yes.

Hey man i don't know why im saying this, and Lord knows i haven't been the greatest Christian but God helps those who help themselves, you know. I say this to you because i know a guy with your mentality, church guy who waits for a gf. Meet him when he was 17. Dude is like 30 now and still has no gf and its clear that it depresses him really bad but he acts like its nothing, but it's just obvious how much it hurts him. So you know, I think you should try and not just wait for a women to appear in your front door, dude.

not him but what exactly do you reccomend doing?

>>Has a kid but I don't give a fuck
cuck user, you're a cuck