Is it a dealbreaker if a girl is asexual...

Asexuality doesn't exist. It's just an excuse for girls to not put out for guys they don't like.

i mean
as long as i could masturbate while kissing her

To anyone who is not themselves asexual, yes, that is going to be a deal breaker before long. If you're asexual because you have negative feelings associated with sex then I'd suggest therapy.

I dumped my first bf for being asexual due to depression meds. Nothing is worse than dating someone that makes you feel guilty or wrong for having sexual needs. I'm an adult, you don't want to fuck me, I'm finding somebody else to fuck.

No such thing as an asexual girl. I've known plenty of girls who think they aren't "sexual people" only to get them craving to get fucked. You need someone to get you properly aroused.

Asexual until chad is around

So a female friend? Yeah, no thanks.

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If she's willing to have sex maybe once a month and of course to have kids then that would be great, but if it's no sex ever, that'd suck.

My gf likes sex rather quite a bit more than I do and she would like it several times a day where as I am more comfortable having sex just a few times a week.
An asexual gf would be better so long as she's willing to endure a little bit of sex from time to time.

there was a time I wanted a relationship like that just romance and nothing else but now ive been completely crushed down my life and I just want to be the most degrading filthy slut ever

be my filthy slut gf that lets me breed her in public

>ive been completely crushed down my life
What did you do? You got what you wanted and ruined it?

I feel like degrading someone. Give me your contact.

You do realize that you can still fuck someone, even if they are asexual, right?

It might be really unpleasant and weird to them, they'll seem kind of autistic... maybe even in pain during sex. The best way to keep her doing it consistently is to pamper her after it's done. Reward her since she is doing something she has zero interest in, yet is still willing to please you.

Women are like dogs. Train them as such.

I'm not Hannibal Lecter, I want the person I'm fucking to actually want to fuck me. Might as well masturbate if sex would be unpleasant, weird, or painful for them. Actually no I wouldn't date them in the fucking first place, mental cases

Same poster commenting....

To people who say 'asexual' doesn't exist, you're absolutely wrong. I've known people who cannot stand sex, or even the idea of it. Some of them are autistic, some are trauma victims, etc.

Some of the traumatized women have something called 'vaginismus' and any sort of penetration causes them extreme discomfort (they won't even use tampons during the cycle). Some associated sex with exceedingly unpleasant thoughts.

etc. But you can still fuck them anyway.

Fucking a warm body is far more enjoyable then fucking your hand or a flesh light... at least I think so.

Seeing them cry or struggle is pretty arousing. Knowing that they are sacrificing their comfort to please you is another turn on. Sure, it's kind of annoying to give a girl a treat after she is done being your distraught fuck toy.... but she'll end up offering herself to you (and still crying about it) if she knows you'll get her an ice cream after.

Absolutely repugnant.
This.

You're a coward.

You probably respect roasties too. Why are you on this board?

I'm a coward because I wouldn't derive pleasure from the suffering of a woman that cares about me. Sure.

Yeah yeah good for you, you like to feel powerful during sex because of lack of self esteem, nobody cares

If you care about her, you could train her to enjoy sexual intercourse with you. Pavlov's Dog. I am not telling you to rape her. Coward.

Yes, when I am fucking women I feel power over them, because I'm a man. That's how it works. Self esteem has nothing to do with it, she was made to pleasure me, I'll pleasure her in other ways. It's symbiosis.

Relax, one day you'll learn that women don't want beta orbiters, they want men.

You're a coward because you wouldn't rape a roastie. Yes. Betas like you are the reason why Chads are winning.

>you'll learn that women don't want beta orbiters, they want men
Idk my bf hasn't needed to act like you write in your posts, ever, and we've been fucking for 5 years. He's hot and treats me well so I actually want to fuck him

I was not describing rape though, I was describing how you could train an asexual woman to enjoy or at least be willing to tolerate and eventually offer sex.

I don't support rape.

Then you're a beta too. You two should fucking die. We're at war and you're making us lose.

You were describing an autistic and stupid method to "train" someone out of something that should be addressed by a doctor and therapist.

First off, you're not a woman. You're larping.

And if you happen to actually be a woman with a boyfriend, you have absolutely no place here.

So my original question stands:

Why are you on this board?

Because I'm probably older and smarter than you and I was here first. Any other questions, little boy?

If a real man actually gave you a good fucking you would understand the difference, roastie. You can get my disc if you ask for it.
t. A real man

His cock is probably bigger than yours, no thanks

You never touched a woman before.

It's not autistic, nor is it stupid because it works. Women want things, but you don't want to give them too much because they'll take advantage of it, never spoil them.

I want things, and if she is unable to give me what I want due to her asexuality, I'll work with her / train her to enjoy the it through a very simple method.

It's almost as if you guys don't know how to groom an adult woman lol.

Seven inches and a half, baby, and thick as fuck. You know you want it, bitch. Give me your disc and let's show these betas ITT how to treat a roastie.

So now you're claiming to be an old, used up whore?

This board isn't meant for washed up aging roasties, nor is it meant for them to try and demean men who are barely able to tolerate their presence, let alone their lack of cognitive skills or personality.

Anyway, still doubt you're a woman, this larp probably arouses you.

Imagine that, a 'female' who is valuing men based off of their cock size. Sophistication at its finest.

If someone is asexual it's either a medical issue that can be treated or a mental issue they need to work through with a therapist. Manipulative armchair-American Psycho roleplay shit would be a bandaid solution at best

Why would I marry a cum dumpster I cant cum into? Thats like buying s car without an engine.

This isn't roleplay, nor is it psychopathy.

If she's asexual and I want sex from her, I'll obviously find a way to have sex with her without the act of rape, obviously.

She gets rewarded after the act. How is this an issue for anyone?

Relax kiddo, stop the tantrum, you'll get to please a real woman one day. Don't be so concerned with cock size, it's just one of the most important things for a woman's sexual satisfaction..

Why do women use the same tactics?

It's almost daunting, how 2 dimensional your attempts to belittle others who disagree with you are.

Also, I'm into men.

It wouldn't fix the root of the issues. You are talking about treating the symptoms instead of really trying to help somebody. A reward system and coercion won't help much if she physically isn't into it or even deeply psychologically averse. I'm one of those people that don't think we should try and fix shit like this alone, though. I'm sick, I take medicine. I'm really ill, I talk to the doctor. If I had mental issues, I'd see a therapist. If I was having trouble feeling arousal or even having sex I'd get help from a trained professional and I'd want that for my bf if this suddenly happened to him. It would suck if you were trying to work through it and did more damage or made them more averse.

2 girls told me they are asexual. One of them is my sister, who also said that she doesn't like dirt and being with other people, yet she has slept with dozens of guys including a 45 year old unwashed disgusting guy. The other one is an internet friend who said she is asexual, yet she has a crush on every single fictional (and many rl) guy and listens to erotic cds all day long. I dunno if I can believe that asexuality exists in girls anymore.

Can't tell if you are really this blind to obvious shitposting or if you're just playing into it

How does she feel about having kids?

Oh, if you're a woman then you wouldn't understand.

I just want to train her to take the cock and accept that it will, in fact, be a regular part of our relationship. Of course I'd wish for her to get any professional help necessary, but I don't see what's wrong with giving her rewards after doing something she originally found so upsetting.

Would you train a lesbian into accepting dick?

If she wanted to be with me, definitely so.

Due to a lower spine injury when I was a kid, I feel no pleasure from my vagoo or clit.
I don't know if I'm asexual, but it's made me completely uninterested in sex.
If any mythological future partner wants to have sex, I'm fine with it, because I still view sex as intimate and romantic, and would enjoy it in that capacity. But I can't imagine I'd be in the mood to have sex frequently. Makes me feel kind of sad realizing I'll probably be a disappointment. Like an user said, not much point in fucking if the partner doesn't really feel anything. I'd basically just be a fleshlight.
Odd feels, friends.

That doesn't seem like it would make for a very comfortable and open sexual dynamic, which is critical in creating&maintaining intimacy. If anything that seems like it would make sex a chore to get through and accomplish for your sake when sex should be a mutually pleasurable bonding activity. Could even ruin it by creating a permanent negative association on top of the asexuality. I just couldn't be ok with using this method on a loved one, but I generally hate seeing people I love uncomfortable or in pain especially for my sake. I'd want to use a method that makes them comfortable with themselves sexually, not based on me. That is where we are different. We will just have to disagree

You probably can still get aroused in the right context. You will be fine if you find the right guy.

Yes, I don't see women as people anyway. So I am okay with making her a little upset.

My pet dog is upset when I take her to the vet, or clip her nails. Sometimes a bitch needs to accept that there will be a little bit of pain in her life.

>ends on typical misogynist babble
Aww I thought you were going for the "well-meaning guy with too much sexual dominance" angle, boring

Hey, I edited the chin of that femjak to make it look more feminine

glad to see im getting the recognition i deserve

I still don't understand why people come to this board expecting a hugbox full of orbiters.

Sorry Stacy, I'm not here to please and be subservient to your kind.

Yes, she would be a perfect waste of time and money. No need for that.

>thinks his only options are misogynist tantrums or beta bootlicking

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This board contains a genuinely high amount of misogyny, that's the way it is.

Why are you here and not on /soc/?

No, not for me anyway.
I'm not a very sexual person.
We could have intimacy without sex.

Asexual doesn't mean aromantic, though, your internet friend probably uses fictional "relationships" to cope with her absence of a real relationship. It's similar to having a waifu

she's not asexual when Chand comes knocking, I guaran-fucking-tee you

I don't really mind and I'm not going to force anything uncomfortable but if she's not comfortable blowing me I reserve the right to relieve myself with another and it's not cheating

Asexuality is a meme. I forced myself into believing I was asexual and im almost 25 years old and still a virgin and I have never been kissed on the lips. Please stop wasting your life.

yeah no thats definitely not okay to be asexual in fact no one should be like that it's not okay and I won't allow it

I've been with a woman who claimed to be almost asexual but once she got attached to me, she confessed that I was keeping her panties wet every day and that she was fantasizing about doing lewd things with me.

Anyone who isn't a teenager can be "asexual" with people they aren't attracted to.