New femdom obsession discussion thread

What sorta guy are you sexually compatible w?

how are you built o.o?

oh oops.. silly me that was already asked

i-i wish someone like you would notice me sometimes,,

it wasnt a response, just telling height and cup isnt enough to describe a body type.

if i only were chubby and not mr skeletal.

i mean eitherway i wouldn't be able to look at a femdom in the eye, i'd just stare at the floor

well i posted this in a gfd thread for a reason
these are the aspects of my body that make me unappealing to most men who like gfd
yk what i meant user come on

skellingtons rule though,i can make my bones rattle by tapdancing

It's super hot when a guy does this. So what's the problem? Better not be looking me in the eyes. Just indicates you know your place like a good boy.

i'm literally too shy and scared to do anything more than that though, other than say "yes" and acknowledge orders, literally talking about it makes me nervous.

As a girl into femdom the most annoying thing about submissive guys is how passive they are. If you want humiliation you have to get me started by telling me what you think is wrong with you. Guy's can't get into their 'character' though they just expect you to do all the work and just want to sit there and look pretty and take it. I'm into role reversal where I treat the guy like a girl but I want a sub as well not just some spoiled princess who needs a new mommy because being spoiled is all they know.

Good, I hope you are getting nervous. >:P

Basically I want someone to get into a desperate pathetic mind-state before I'm able to insult them; especially with how spoiled and entitled guys are around here though it never happens. It's just ironic they are always asking where all the dom girls are at in threads like this but don't know how to attract them or bring them out of the woodwork.

.///.' well i'm shaking

I'm a brainlet I guess but I don't understand. What is the problem with this? Most guys are into shorter girls.

yeah i had a gf 9 inches shorter than me (four foot six inches) a-and no one dommed like her

Stop lying to me, nerd. Lol. How old are you? Who shakes just posting on r9k? I guess since we are trapped in hell it makes sense.

most guys in general do like shorter girls

but most guys who are specifically into femdom prefer someone taller than them

I get what you are saying. I understood right away when you said you were 5 foot. BUT I think what the guys in the thread are really trying to say is they are so desperate they would accept any woman even if they didn't perfectly appeal to his oedipus complex. I'm petite too not as short as you but only 4 inches taller. Being big or small is a mindstate.

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if anything, i think is hot when a girl dominates you while being way shorter than you, specially if she does it being gentle.

>but don't know how to attract them or bring them out of the woodwork

I understand it's a case that you need to give them something to work with and br more than just a guy who likes being treated badly, but I have no idea where I'd even find a dom. My last girlfriend occasionally got really into tease and denial sort of stuff (wearing a nurse outfit, wanking me off, talking dirty to me, telling me to moan for her, giving me instructions to suck her tits and play with her but stop when told and not play with myself, stopping when I feel like I'm about to cum, making me beg to cum etc) but it's not something I exactly knew about until it just came up.

it made me feel so aroused, so helpless, i was always too nervous and she would hold my face straight so that i'd be looking at her

is this the right thread for this?

>I squirt a lot.
t. i enjoy pissing on people tehee

You just need to spend more time studying the psychological side then. It's not enough for someone to just say:
>Because my other girl friend did it I want it
You actually have to attract the dom women with thoughts, ideas, and psychology. If you don't know why you are even into it to start with you prob don't know how to do that either. Just makes you seem like you wouldn't be fun to try to train or play with because you aren't pliable enough mentally or intelligent enough to anticipate my needs either.

It's the right thread user.

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I'm the user who posted this yesterday, if the thread stays alive long enough I can elaborate some more later today.

>my normally socially anxious self is some bitch's fetish

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>It's not enough for someone to just say:
>Because my other girl friend did it I want it

I wasn't saying that, I more meant that with my experiance so far I just fell into it and I wouldn't know how to really seek dom women. I've been into femdom from waaaay before then.

squirt is not completely piss, it has some piss, but not too much, i had drinked both and there is certianly a diference in taste, color and texture.

i-i mean personally, it's not a sexual thing for me either, i just really am so nervous. what if i mess up? what if they get mad at me? jeeze,,

I'll just give some examples so what I'm saying is more clear. I've had interactions that go a lot like I ask the sub guy what he's into first without telling him much about myself. He will say literally anything, imagine whatever stuff you want: feet, chastity, cucking, sissies, anything; but later always always says something along the lines of "I'm not really into it I want to be forced by someone else to get into it" This is a major brainlet cop; so hard to maintain play with someone like that. If a guy is honest from the get go and just starts telling me how much of a worm he really is deep down, admitting it up front that turns me on like crazy. It happens when they are in that very lowest mind state and have broken through because of it, lost hope, and therefore have infinite courage to admit every 'flaw'. It's so hot when a guy can degrade himself but then cope with it existentially at the same time.

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Intelligence is knowing the difference between squirt and piss. Wisdom is being happy to drink a pint of either.

does it have to be all sexual?? i like flowers..

*cope
not cop
fuck the pigs :3

Ok, I guess what I mean is if I'm talking to say 5 girls I can't tell which ones would make me her faggot piss slave and which aren't dominant at all. Are there some big tell tale signs that I'm just missing? Are there places to specifically find doms?

I love this. I love whoever wrote this.

>tfw virgin sub
>tfw want a virgin girl
>No domme girls are virgins because they just ask boys out and men being men will go along with it for the sex

I also have a sadistic streak so I just get off on your displeasure at my fetish.

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I remember how much it turned me on when she said I was a good boy for keeping my virginity, it took so much strength to resist and tell her that I'd rather save it for someone else.

Stop obsessing with virginity you fucking virgin.

I'm a virgin domme. asl?

At some point you have to show your true self to them. Whoever rejects you is not the dom. My logic is show it as early as possible to find out.

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t. dom girl who got rejected by the sub boy of her dreams because she was used goods

Makes sense, thanks. Idk what I really wanted from that question, "yeah user pink laces means she wants to make you cry" or something? Probably just need to get out there and find it.

This is one of those larps where you have to question which aspect is the larp... Is it the being female or being a virgin?

I live in Australia so I guess it's over before it began

I'm a male sub, try again weird lad

I used to literally catfish as my ideal sub boy because I was so irritated at never finding what I wanted I felt I had to be what I wanted to see how others would respond to even get that level of fulfillment. I would say the most devastatingly disturbingly grotesquely pathetic shit to just sometimes regular girls (who appeared on the outside to have a lot of power because of how beautiful they were) & they would often (surprisingly) respond so kindly to it. I was able to get off on that. It led to me eventually admitting to a girl that I was talking to that I was actually a girl and just pretending to be the type of guy I wanted because I had a fetish for them. We were still friends after that she just accepted the real me who was even more insane than who I was pretending to be. My point is you might be surprised about what results you get when you are as upfront as possible, to an extent that you thought previously would make you uncomfortable but it turns out to be very freeing actually.

To add to all that: there will always be loooots of people who reject you but it doesn't matter because all the signals you put forth you are looking for the good ones who don't reject you.

I'm both female (female) and a virgin. And a domme. In theory. Not a larp. I have issues, obviously. No sane women post here.
You're literally on the other side of the planet from me. Boo. I hope you meet someone nice, virgin-kun.

Thanks, you've done wonders for my quest to have somebody call me pathetic while I gargle their piss with three fingers in my arse.

I've only spoken to one girl from here. She was the most sane and reasonable person I'd ever met. She was just a bit of a neet. You're probably similar.

Thanks and I wish the same for you. Make sure you make them wait to ensure they're a real virgin.

I meant pathetic shit about thoughts not about sexuality. Those can be separate even if they don't have to be.

>t. male sub who got rejected for not being good enough

i swear, even when typing to you i-i dont want to look at the post im replying to, im just nervous

I used to talk to a guy online who couldn't even look into the camera when he was on cam. That shit made me wetter than hurricane katrina.

im sorry you sound l-like you're flirting .///.'

to be honest, that's kind of hot.
Looks like I'm moving up in the chad world, see ya later, virgins.

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>but later always always says something along the lines of "I'm not really into it I want to be forced by someone else to get into it"
Maybe I'm just fucking dumb but why pretend to be into stuff like that?

Also to whoever said so in the last thread, I'm very aware that dead or not there's no chance of her coming back after this long either way. I guess it's just the abrupt leaving and no real closure that has me still pathetically going back when I think about it.

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i know the feel, ex left me because she realized girls make cuter subs.

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>Maybe I'm just fucking dumb but why pretend to be into stuff like that?
Lol, my thoughts exactly. I always ask before I tell them what I'm into too so I know they aren't lying. Guys will say literally anything when they want to fuck you. This:
>"I'm not really into it I want to be forced by someone else to get into it"
Is just a shitty cope brainlets use when their insecurity overwhelms their horniness. Extremely low IQ behavior.

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sorry that im such a brainlet

Awwww.... Most guys are. I'm looking for the rare ones who are smart.

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i dont know.. im not as dumb or innocent as i make myself out to be to others it just feels intimidating to be smarter than others and i dont want to seem like that. my text being all lowercase is on purpose for that reason.

I just want to know what kind emotional meth she used to get me to still cling to some shred of hope that's in there after this long.

I'm still working through whatever issues I might have myself, but a pattern I've noticed was me just being irrationally angry about certain humiliating things before realizing something other than anger was reacting too. I don't get working that in reverse.

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hmmm very interesting stuff user. thank you for sharing. im going to try to start using that method now. i went full brainlet like you.

teehee, we can be dumb together user!

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>I'm still working through whatever issues I might have myself, but a pattern I've noticed was me just being irrationally angry about certain humiliating things before realizing something other than anger was reacting too. I don't get working that in reverse.
What is it that you are reacting to?

it's not meth, it's just oneitis.

but sometimes you meet a person who's like, oneitis oneitis. those people are literally so unique you think they came out of one of those famous books.

and don't get me started on triple oneitis....

>those people are literally so unique you think they came out of one of those famous books.
I like imagining someone is saying this about me...
Wtf is triple oneitis? Please explain?

um, triple oneitis is when someone is literally what you consider a 'best friend forever' in a sense that you knew them since childhood, and you always talk to them.

you crush on them, and they might like you back, or might not. but the truth is that no matter what they always show themself as understanding and relatable and they also worry about you, etc, and never, EVER even THINK about hurting you.

and then suddenly, one day, they won't be there anymore. either because you messed up, or because of some other external reason, and it ends up like triple the effect of aforementioned 'emotional meth'

God please be my girlfriend

although she sounds really lovely i wouldn't say GOD..

I'm willing to bet most guys are into femdom, especially the guys you wouldn't think, they just don't show it.

Ok maybe not most, but like 30-40%.

Do fat domme girls exist? Asking as a tall skelly

I guess I just got hit hard with it then. I've never really crushed on anybody in my school years so I guess finally meeting a femanon who (at least appeared like) she got me stuck hard.

Latest one is sph. For the longest time it was the one fetish I got actually angry at other people for having since it usually came with the whole "I wish I was smaller" bit. I came across one of those pics with captions and noticed I was going through a weird mix of shame, anger at myself and arousal. By now, my faps to that stuff are very few, but I just hate myself afterwards.
Might be related but I never could even envision myself actually using my dick for anything if I did ever get with someone. Just using my mouth, hands whatever else then finally going somewhere to finish myself off.

tfw no gamer gf who likes to use my face as her seat

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That guy is so fucking lucky.

You seem like you might be really cute and sweet.

Do not tease me like that user, I would love to sit on your face while playing TwT

I'd rather eat her out between her legs than have her sit on my face but that works too

t-thanks.. ^///^

i can confirm this from my friends!

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Guys you should get a discord for comfy gentle femdom stories links and media like manga and anime :3

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maybe femanons could meet anons in there or vice versa :oc

I'm a sucker for this stuff too, but that ain't happening.

ahhhh yas! xD
let's do that, let's make all the mods girls so it's true femaledom

I got cheated on once when I was a teen. In a way that wasn't even that big of a deal. Now I have a massive netorare, cucking, and slut fetish.

oh ive been in many chats related,, i never lasted long in those because sub boys tend to outnumber dom fems and so the person with standards is obvious...

are you the one who's doing my brainlet thing too :3c

>tfw lesser even among the subs