>waaaah I hate my existence because some kids bullied me years ago and the girl I liked was mean to me
are robots self-aware of how petty their problems are?
Waaaah I hate my existence because some kids bullied me years ago and the girl I liked was mean to me
Elijah Campbell
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Camden Nguyen
No. There are kids out there who lost a leg to land mine and who live on the edge of starvation that can smile while robots can only frown and cry.
The difference isn't money, it's the fact that those kids have people who love them and robots are rejected by all other human life.
Michael Price
Kill yourself you worthless fagtard
Nathaniel Garcia
When you put it like that, it does seem trivial, yeah...
Shut up.
Gabriel Adams
Imagine feeling bad just because you've been abused since childhood. So petty.
Jacob Gonzalez
>some kids bullied me years ago
this triggers the fuck out of Jow Forums
Dominic Flores
lots of people grow up lonely and ostracized, they don't always become self-pitying defeatists
Austin Cook
Imagine feeling bad over something that happened 10 years ago
Matthew Foster
Nobody bullied me OP. Get the fuck out
Ethan Lopez
Throughout human history, neglect and abuse from other people (yes childhood bullying counts as abuse) has always been a common factor in depression, resentment, suicide, misery, you name it. In fact, many awful people, and history's villains, including serial killers, had similar upbringings.
Angel Martinez
What is this weirdly specific imaginary scenario, and why are you projecting it onto the world?
Henry Robinson
i don't blame anyone else for my shitty life
i created this hell in my head all by myself
Kevin Collins
everyone gets bullied at some point during their childhood, it's an almost necessary experience that teaches kids how to overcome adversary
Zachary Reed
I don't know, my dad still feels like shit for fighting in Vietnam. And I still feel horrendous about my friend's suicide 11 years ago.
Joshua Diaz
>are robots self-aware of how petty their problems are?
You know nothing of human psychology.
At the very least read up on negative thought loops and learn what neuroplasticity is.
People are so fucking uneducated
Julian Nelson
>something that happened 10 years ago
What about this is specific? Why did you reply to my post?
Michael Perry
In the grand scheme of things, is there a single problem that isn't petty as fuck?
Asher Perez
maybe the real bully, was the friends we made along the way.
Jeremiah Myers
Thing is for robots that's pretty much all that ever happened to them in life and they know things only go downhill after school. Most robots are early 20 year olds that are just now realizing this about themselves and it's hitting them like a truck. I do agree they need more perspective in life and should realize that their stubborn complaining is disrespectful but they have no way of knowing this and no reason to give a shit.
Ryan Young
So is experiencing child abuse and rape.
Gabriel Stewart
>Shut up.
Make me.
And? What does that have to do with anything? Those people had some other factor in their lives that either distracted them from loneliness or else served to mitigate the pain somehow. Ostracizing someone used to be called "banishment" and it used to be a cruel and terrible form of execution. So I'm sympathetic when the robot brain thinks the sky is falling - they may be wrong but their brain is hard-wired to think that in their situation. If you're a friendless loser who someone broke out of that, go ahead and lecture robots. Until then, stay here in the designated normie area.
Bentley Cruz
beta mentality, it runs in the family and will probably die out when you get cucked by tyrone
Charles Jenkins
Some do, some never get over it, some live life normally, some become worse people, some commit suicide, some go on to kill people as a result.
Nathaniel Murphy
Actual trauma is different from shit that everyone goes through like bullying. Robots are the way they are because they got kicked down and refused to get back up.
Henry Adams
>Actual trauma is different from shit that everyone goes through like bullying.
Childhood bullying has been repeatedly studied and link to PTSD in the likes of rape and war. And some of the traits you see in robots are common symptoms of trauma, not just in the PTSD category.
>Robots are the way they are because they got kicked down and refused to get back up.
They're that way because they had a traumatising, abusive life.
Easton Brooks
everybody gets bullied in childhood so I don't trust such studies
Oliver Adams
you have a myopic and bigoted standard for 'actual trauma' that I often see used against sexual assault survivors.
Kevin Garcia
Sure is NPC in here
Colton Hill
>everybody gets bullied in childhood
nope
Oliver Gray
>Thing is for robots that's pretty much all that ever happened to them in life and they know things only go downhill after school.
I am in my 30s and happier than ever, never understood the meme that school is the best time of your life I hated it
I am a NEET too so not even a successful person
Jace Brown
>I don't understand how human needs work
Andrew Bennett
>So I'm sympathetic when the robot brain thinks the sky is falling - they may be wrong but their brain is hard-wired to think that in their situation.
not quite, but toxic websites such as Jow Forums program people to have a victim mentality if they don't have a perfect life
Alexander Walker
what do human needs have to to with events that happened years ago?
Oliver Fisher
I'll eventually solve their problems, with force!
John Miller
>Childhood bullying comes close to rape and mass murder
Link me those studies. Most robots don't even have ptsd.
Sexual assault is different.
Adrian Lopez
>not overcoming loneliness after years
Some of you have probably been complaining about how you'll never get a girlfriend and have pretended to be blackpilled for years yet still whine. You truly are pathetic.
Adrian Perry
OP every one is different you don't know any of these people and you have no idea not even the slightest of the shit some people go threw that they end up being fucked for life. People like OP need to shut up robots aren't this "one thing and one thing only" they come in all shapes and sizes with different problems sometimes. Some are legit and some are not.
Caleb Hill
1). Confirmation bias + false consensus bias.
2). Experiences differ to different people. What seems like nothing more than snowfalling to some villages, can be an avalanche to another. Example: my brother fought in Iraq and came back with PTSD so severe, he can't so much as hear loud banging, like a champagne cork, without putting him in a pyschotic meltdown. He's currently in jail for killing someone in a bar fight because of this. While his combat buddies, on the other hand, are relatively fine, and have been able to go on with their lives. Another example: I've been raped by two ex-boyfriends, and have managed to move on and keep my life together, while other women obviously struggle. People don't respond to the same things the same way. And to treat it all the same is simple bigotry.
3). "I don't trust such studies." I gather you voted Trump.
Your lack of empathy is appalling.
Elijah Jenkins
>Boohoo
Neck yourself faggot.
Juan Cook
Victim mentalities are always common responses to shit people can't control or do anything about. Everyone thinks of themselves as the victim. And in some way, everyone is a victim.
Wyatt Smith
>no argument
try again sweetie
Jacob Allen
bullying can cause way more damage than people will at first notice, even the victim. it has a huge knock on effect and people will either realise the effect or just blame it because that's all they can do. it's especially bad in people who think they got over it or suppress it for years consciously or not. can't really defend anyone who gets rejected or whatever because that's so temporary and i've never experienced it.
Thomas Morgan
I don't consider myself a victim
David Collins
>victim mentality
If you're a conservative, no one cares when you say this because it's what you say to every objection to perceived injustice. If you're liberal, it's nth level ironic.
What I'm saying is, there is no level on which this is meaningful or valid.
John Smith
>my problems are somehow more important or more real than someone else's problems
kek at all of you.
Noah Scott
why do you bring politics into it?
Isaac Cox
>Sexual assault is different.
it's dismissing someone's trauma because it doesn't qualify by your standards of 'actual trauma.' much like how sexual assault survivors have their experiences dismissed, because it doesn't qualify to some people's standards of 'actual trauma.' whether or not it's sexual assault, simple bullying, or other types of abuse mean absolutely nothing.
Jaxon Carter
I'm sure you THINK you don't consider yourself one.
Easton Hughes
take your medication buddy
John Baker
Sexual assault is much worse than simple bullying you retard. Not everything is considered "abuse" just because you didn't like it at the time and want a shitty excuse 10 years later so people feel bad for you.
Hunter Miller
>bully people who have been abused their entire lives
>gaslight them by telling them you're not bullying them and simultaneously tell them that it's their fault
Consider my noggin jogged
Aaron Roberts
- criminaljusticeschoolinfo.com
- psychologytoday.com
- aura.antioch.edu
It's also a common trope that mass shooters were bullied kids.
- counseling.org
- forbes.com
- cnn.com
>Most robots don't even have ptsd.
A lot of the traits you see in robots are common symptoms of PTSD. :/
Enjoy your ablism there, bud.
Zachary Young
>Sexual assault is much worse than simple bullying you retard.
not true, depends entirely on the person. and even then, that's an arbitrary and unreliable method of standard.
>Not everything is considered "abuse"
any mistreatment and torment done unto another is abuse.
>just because you didn't like it at the time and want a shitty excuse 10 years later so people feel bad for you.
you sound like a stereotypical rapist.
Jack Torres
>Sexual assault is much worse than simple bullying you retard.
So? Not all abuses are the same. Some are objectively worse than others, but the experiences, still have traumatic and immense impacts on whoever had the misfortune of going through it.
Angel Young
>Robots: yes I'm 30 and yes I still cry and im terrified of human interaction because 5 year olds called me poopee head 25 years ago
This is what happens when you've been coddled your whole life and surround yourself with likeminded losers on the internet
Leo Lewis
>This and then they attempt suicide by slitting their wrists, you have to clean it up, they rehab then restart all over again until they attack a family member and get sent to prison
Levi Cox
You spout the same shit the rape survivors I work with have to go through.
Henry Wood
He's spouting the same shit people gave me when I was raped.
Hudson Richardson
It's objectively worse. The ones that were abused sexually are more likely to be traumatised in a life-changing way. Use your common sense.
>any mistreatment and torment done unto another is abuse
I guess everyone is a victim of abuse, then.
>you sound like a stereotypical rapist
You sound like the stereotypical feminist. >agitation, irritability, hostility, hypervigilance, self-destructive behavior, or social isolation
They're common symptoms but most have never experienced it. Most robots are like this for relatively unknown reasons, probably to do with genetics and how well you can cope.
You just admitted that some abuse is objectively worse than others. Lol.
Leo Wilson
>sexual assault is much worse than simple bullying you retard
I was referring to getting beat up in school, yelled at by your parents, shit like that
Dylan Gonzalez
lads, ignore the attention whore crying about rape, stop giving it the attention it craves
Colton Garcia
>It's objectively worse.
Means absolutely nothing.
>The ones that were abused sexually are more likely to be traumatised in a life-changing way.
Not only so can bullying as a kid, but it has been reported and studied for years.
>Use your common sense.
Tu quoque.
>I guess everyone is a victim of abuse, then.
Abuse is a lot more widespread than people give it credit for. Have you not paid attention to the #MeToo movement?
>Most robots are like this for relatively unknown reasons
They're like this because of shitty childhood/life.
>probably to do with genetics and how well you can cope.
Not at all.
Grayson Sullivan
>my bully is in jail for murder
>my mother cheated on my father multiple times
>mother has psychotic episodes any time you upset her or she doesn't get her way
>my ex cheated on my with multiple guys
>another ex contacted the police twice saying I threatened to shoot her, second time she made up this huge story about how this made up person and me assaulted her in the car I was driving.
Ryan Lewis
>I was referring to getting beat up in school, yelled at by your parents, shit like that
That can still be as traumatising to people as being raped. As well, sexual assault has been reported as another form of bullying.
Jaxon Long
no they dont, because everyone on this fucking board is a weakling faggot blaming everything/everyone else for their failures. like the weaklings they are
>i got bullied this
>i have no friends that
>my girlfriend broke up with me the other
Shut the fuck up
Jose Evans
>You just admitted that some abuse is objectively worse than others. Lol.
Again, so? That's true in the sense that some allergies are worse than others. But it's how people respond to it that counts. And just because something is better/worse for some people is not a good model to use on others. If an experience has such a dramatic impact on a person, even if it does seem like much, that's all that counts.
Liam Ward
>sexual assault is much worse than simple bullying you retard
>I was referring to getting beat up in school, yelled at by your parents, shit like that
you're still describing common forms of abuse. just variations on it.
Henry Collins
Again, you're still parroting the same crap I got when I was raped.
Levi Cooper
>Have you not paid attention to the #MeToo movement?
Nope. You consider everyone's problems to be equal when they clearly aren't. I've spoken to plenty of robots who claimed they had a shitty childhood yet had everything they could ask for yet somehow found something trivial to complain about.
>Genetics and vulnerability don't factor in
You yourself said that some people can handle it better than others.
Jackson Russell
>You consider everyone's problems to be equal when they clearly aren't.
Tu quoque.
>I've spoken to plenty of robots
Confirmation bias.
>who claimed they had a shitty childhood
Which is true, otherwise places like Jow Forums wouldn't exist.
>yet had everything they could ask for yet somehow found something trivial to complain about.
Because even having what they had still doesn't fix their problems. You can give a man with MDD and financial security for the rest of his life, and he'll still have MDD.
>You yourself said that some people can handle it better than others.
That's not a genetics thing.
Caleb Ramirez
Jason Butler
>That's not a genetics thing
It plays a part
>Confirmation bias
I'm speaking from experience. Keep thinking everyone's problems are equal and deserve your pity, then. Makes no difference to me.
>Which is true, otherwise places like Jow Forums wouldn't exist
r9k isn't a mental illness forum
This isn't about you.
Oh boo hoo. My brother had an awful childhood, worse than me and everyone I know and he turned out extremely successful.
>inb4 projecting
How you respond to it counts, sure. Some people are just weak.
Parker Morgan
>It plays a part
It does not.
>I'm speaking from experience.
That's the epitome of confirmation bias AND anecdotal evidence.
>Keep thinking everyone's problems are equal and deserve your pity, then.
Tu quoque.
>Makes no difference to me.
This, class, is what a lie looks like.
>r9k isn't a mental illness forum
You haven't been here long.
Jordan Turner
Success doesn't mean a person isn't broken inside. A lot of outwardly very successful people are inwardly utterly miserable.
Cameron Nelson
>This isn't about you.
You're still giving people here the same treatment I got when I was raped. And you're still just as wrong for it.
Nathaniel Thompson
genes playing a role in how someone turns out has been repeatedly debunked and often carried racist connotations
sincerely, /sci/
Ryan Bennett
>Oh boo hoo. My brother had an awful childhood, worse than me and everyone I know and he turned out extremely successful.
Yeah? And a lot of people who suffered more, OR less, end up in worse places like homelessness or suicide.
Kevin Turner
tabula rasa is inarguably NOT /sci/
Henry Adams
>genes playing a role in how someone turns out has been repeatedly debunked
this is sarcasm right? No way anyone would actually believe this right?
Jayden Taylor
He's not one of them.
t. butthurt moralfag, you're not even part of this conversation
>You haven't been here long.
Hurr. I've been here long enough to know people claiming "robot" complain about useless shit that undermines people struggling with legit trauma.
Jacob Garcia
Like I said, some people are weaker than others when it comes to that sort of thing. Surely you don't believe that genetics has NOTHING to do with a person's mental fortitude?
Connor Gomez
>I've been here long enough to know people claiming "robot" complain about useless shit that undermines people struggling with legit trauma.
Again, I've had people say the same to me. Someone who was raped by an ex-boyfriend.
Gabriel Martinez
That's a pretty confident statement. I don't think I could ever presume to comment on someone's internal state with that level of confidence. W/e though, I hope you're right.
Andrew Perez
>some people are weaker than others when it comes to that sort of thing.
Victim blaming logic.
>Surely you don't believe that genetics has NOTHING to do with a person's mental fortitude?
It does not. Most of it is developmental and through external influences.
Charles Ross
I'm ugly. It's nothing I can ever fix because I'm a 0/10. People are disgusted and repulsed by me. How am I supposed to smile.
Ryan White
Please stop making everything about you. It's embarrassing. You don't speak for everyone else. Obligatory
>woman/tranny thinks she's a robot
Kayden Robinson
>useless shit
Useless by YOUR standards. By some people's standards, being raped is something "useless" to complain about.
>that undermines people struggling with legit trauma
It does not. And it's only legit trauma if it LEGITIMATELY TRAUMATISES them. Even being barked at by a dog can cause LEGITIMATE TRAUMA to some people.
Noah Rogers
I'm ugly too man but I don't hate myself for it, sometimes people treat me like shit because of how I look but it's not really important. I don't need shallow toxic people like that around me
Leo Howard
Once again, same shit I've had thrown at me, and so are a lot of other friends of mine who've been raped.
Justin Fisher
I warned you earlier in thread to stop responding to it, you retards never take the hint when it comes to the tranny attention whores
Hudson Lee
How generalizing
>dad is a violent schizophrenic paedophile from a rough city
>my mum was also violent
>parents moved from Manchester to Taunton in 1981 because racist
>had my sister in '89 and me in '92
>used to beat me, lock me in cupboards and wash mouth out with soap when I was as young as 3
>had to watch and sometimes get caught inbetween parents physical fighting
>mum and dad divorced in '95
>mum took me and sister to Manchester women and childrens home
>met a guy called Frank
>he used to beat me and my sister, swung us by our ears until they bled
>dad found us and took us to Exeter
>sexually abused me, physically abused me, mentally abused me and verbally abused me
>used to go crazy a lot, heavy drinker. extremely violent
>dropped sister off at cop station in June of '97
>I'm with this crazy bastard until late '98
>go into care
>am withdrawn
>I molested kids when I was a kid (even living with my dad)
>my foster dad cheated on my foster mum so there were a lot of fights there
>foster dad has punched me on occasion
>I tried to fuck foster sister
>killed her hamsters and a dog
>pyromaniac
>thought about mass murder a lot
>thief
>vandal
>I attempted burglary once
>zoophillia
>foster dad rinsed my mum out of 30,000 quid last October and the resulting animosity between them made me fucking worried
>but they renewed their vows for 25th anniversary so whatever
And you know what my only worries are? Lack of money and love. But nobody could love someone with such a bad hand at life
Ayden Smith
bullying is actually a very important aspect of character traits that are developed as an adult. Bullying targets the essential essence of an individual at its earliest inception. To be made fun of about what makes you YOU, of course its going to have an impact on your own perception of yourself and that can linger for years down the line. Its the very same reason that how you are raised by your parents, or what sort of environment you grow up in changes how you view the world as an adult. Some things that we experience in critical points in life alter everything from self image, thoughts, and actions. Its why people compensate for things they lack or want to gain.
Its not even about bullying at this point. There are multiple facets of what problems are present in a persons life. Bullying is one aspect of many, but what does bullying cause? Trauma. And trauma is what causes people to recall their experience as problematic in their current circumstances. These problems can be petty, as you say, or more significant. To the one that suffers them there can be no rating system to make an objective conclusion about how important the problems are. Each person perceives, interprets, and reacts to these problems based on previous experiences.
And on a side note, that same concept applies to even you OP. Why did you make this thread? Have you lived the perfect life to come here and tell others that their problems are meaningless? How many problems do you have in your life? Are they greater than ours? every action, word, shitpost you make is influenced by some external and internal force. we might be the influence that is the cause of your post, but we didnt make you post it.
Parker Green
>Most of it
>MOST
>Genetics has NOTHING to do with a person's mental fortitude
Can you even read? The genetics vs environment debate isn't even relevant here.
>victim blaming
Not everyone that claims to be a victim in regards to anything really is one. I won't blindly accept that, I'll make the judgement myself.
Christopher Cook
>Even being barked at by a dog can cause LEGITIMATE TRAUMA to some people.
I don't appreciate you baiting me, user. I might victimize myself if you continue.
Good for you.
Didn't see. Meh.
Angel Gutierrez
Pedantry. Genetics has nothing to do with mental fortitude or how one handles and copes. That's developmental.
>Not everyone that claims to be a victim in regards to anything really is one.
There isn't an objective or unifying standard of victimhood. That's mostly up to the victim.
>I won't blindly accept that, I'll make the judgement myself.
Entitlement complex.
Samuel Morris
>Genetics has NOTHING to do with a person's mental fortitude
fortitude of any kind isn't genetic
Joshua Baker
>Entitlement complex
You're just naive and too accepting of others.
>Pedantry. Genetics has nothing to do with mental fortitude or how one handles copes.
Now I know you're baiting or just exceedingly stubborn since you keep repeating the same nonsense arguments that even you know don't make sense.
Jayden Allen
Damn bro, you got it figured out, that's why people are sad. Phew if only I wasn't bullied or had a gf I'm sure those millions of other things that eat at me while I try to sleep wouldn't bother me. Phew some people complain about no gf so that's what everybodies problems boil down to I wish I was so wise. Since we are denigrating peoples problems here. So what if your parents are dead or you were abused there is somebody on the brink of death right fucking now. So uh your problems seem pretty miniscule now right haha. We should all be happy we are bags of flesh walking around waiting for our parents to die, and slave wage for 40 years. How dare you feel emotions for these things that make you sad.... Oh but yeah according to us faggots you should only be feeling happy no matter how minor haha because you see you aren't allowed to feel sadness no matter how minor so it should work both ways right? Just feel happy for no reason, yeah that's what crazy people do, real people have balanced emotions and rightfully complain when they want to. Yeah just feel mindlessly happy all the time duh how do emotions work, pet just died, why are you not happy there are people on the other side of the globe who are happy! It's funny how people who complain about other people being sad use words like "self-aware". Cause they clearly aren't. People clearly don't know how childhood trauma works >wahhh my dad beat up my mom 10 years ago boo hooo BOO HOO
That's what you sound liek faggot, let's just all bully kids now because it's not that big of a deal, make them feel powerless and crush their spirits and then punish them the same as the bully yeah, obviously have no idea how that stuff lingers with people and shapes their psyche. Funny how people are so ready to defend bullies, they just harrass kids for years and fuck them up and then years down the line faggot ass frog niggers are making excuses for them and victim blaming lol.
Chase Perry
>You're just naive and too accepting of others.
You're myopic and completely bigoted.
>Now I know you're baiting or just exceedingly stubborn since you keep repeating the same nonsense arguments
Tu quoque.
>don't make sense
To you, maybe.
Jeremiah Turner
>Everyone is equal at birth
>Some people aren't born more sensitive or tolerant to pain than others
Life doesn't work that way, buddy.