How do I become aromantic and asexual without completely destroying my endocrine system?
I will likely never find a woman and even if I did she very likely wouldn't be compatible with me. Going gay and taking the 2D/Tulpapill both require delusion or complete mental overhaul on my part, and nofap and porn both only make things worse.
I saw a post like a month or two ago about an asexual medication and everything goes back to normal after you've taken it. Not sure what it was though.
You can't really ever become completely aromantic and asexual, but you can change your outlook in such a way as to no longer see lack of a romantic or sexual partner as a bad thing. It's what I did.
Just fap twice a week and nothing more. I can tell you from personal experience that I really don't give a fuck about love or sex mostly because nothing really matters. Probably not asexual but pretty close I guess. If you want to get to this point just lose all hope in humanity. Simple really.
>Not sure what it was though.
Blakpil.
>no longer see lack of a romantic or sexual partner as a bad thing
>don't give a fuck about love or sex
>nothing really matters
>lost all hope in humanity
success stories right here, these anons get it.
How'd you manage that?
Stop bullying posters in my thread.
read anything by Buddha
also, try meditating with the Nine Thoughts
Blackpill is a half-measure. It's when you've illuded yourself into thinking you don't care, but have simply repressed the feelings you had about not being able to get gf. What you have to do is eliminate the ideas that make you think you ought to even have a gf. Realise that societal expectations are bullshit impositions on your individual will, that getting a gf would not give you as many advantages as you think (just look at all the normies complaining about their gfs, but staying together with them anyway, no matter how bad it gets. They're like drug addicts), and build your worth as a person on things that you yourself value (in my case it's knowledge and intelligence).
What I said above.
There's more that goes into this, but you would have to ask specific questions so I could respond.
i wasn't bullying anyone, those anons literally get it. you don't.
you are not your base primal desires and urges.
"lonely" is a projection of a feeling onto a state of being alone.
the trick to being content with being alone is to be content with being alone.
our semantics don't match up but yes.
To add some stuff to what I said before:
Just the name "black pill" reveals an underlying feeling of despair that stems from inability to fix feelings of inadequacy. This leads an individual into seeking forms of anti-social behaviour, like hating women or people of other races, in order to feel better. The underlying problem is still there.
What I propose would be something like a whitepill: you go to the fundamental origin of your bad feelings, and you overcome the ideology that forces the feelings of inadequacy upon you. This way, there is no despair. You can see all your friends getting gfs, or getting married, or getting laid a lot, and it will not faze you whatsoever. You will be free from the constraints of social imposition, and from hatred of women. You will fix the problem, rather than hide it.
I recommend reading Stirner's The Unique and its Property.
i recommend you not tell me what to think and how.
That's the spirit. Now you've got to do the same to society as a whole. Eliminate the ideologies that try to control you, and struggle for your own interests instead.
>Now you've got to do
if you can climb out of your own ass for a second you'd remember that i just said to not do that.
you're either assuming too much or projecting too much, maybe both, but knock it off.
based, nirvanapilled and checked
You've also got to follow the advice I already gave you in the other thread and tell your psychiatrist about your outbursts so that you can change meds.
for the third time now
>You've also got to
no, i don't, because
>the advice I already gave you in the other thread
is you assuming again. i haven't posted in any other thread today.
please stop acting as if you know everything.
ya can't, even cutting your balls off wouldn't do it
Why are you so emotional, user?
if you're same user:
why are you so assuming and commanding?
more to the point, what makes you think i'm being emotional?
you've told me what to do, assumed things about me that aren't true, you were convinced i was someone else.
i've just said don't do that, but in an unnecessary amount of words.
and you keep doing it.
the odds of you doing it again, in response to this post even, feel like greater than zero so i'm gonna leave now.
no need to reply, i won't be reading it.
>no need to reply, i won't be reading it
I'll reply to it anyway.
>why are you so assuming
I have assumed nothing about you. If you think I did, then that is due to mental problems on your part.
>commanding
I have given advice. If you don't want to follow it, that's your problem. If you feel like me telling you that you have to do something is some sort of order that you must follow in a compulsory fashion, then that, again, is due to mental problems on your part.
>what makes you think i'm being emotional
You are not addressing the logic of anything I said and instead are focussing on the fact that my post made you FEEL like I was assuming something about you and commanding you.
>you were convinced i was someone else
Because you acted the exact same way as other user.
>the odds of you doing it again, in response to this post even, feel like greater than zero
Yeah. I command you to fucking end yourself.
>you overcome the ideology that forces the feelings of inadequacy upon you
I get that these things are an addiction but just realizing that doesn't really make me not want them. How do I achieve that?
just go 100% noporn and 100% nofap.
Good way to have a fucking bonkers libido that gets in the way of day to day shit.
Yeah, I want to be celibate but fucking hell it's annoying.