>gf of nearly two years suddenly wants us to be in an "open relationship"
But I don't want ten other fucking dudes poking their dicks in my cherished relationship. thought relationships were supposed to a be a private, enclosed thing....I don't know what to fucking do. I'm so scared of going back to being a one man show but I want my girlfriend to be....y'know...MY girlfriend. Fuck this shit.
i don't know the feel but i do feel very bad for you OP
probably for the best to break it off if she seems like it's and idea she's committed to
Dump her. She's basically saying to you that she wants to be an unfaithful whore.
relationship's dead, you just haven't realised it. whether you agree and grow bitter and lose self-esteem seeing other dudes fuck her, or disagree and grow suspicious and paranoid as she does it behind your back, it's going to fall apart. just break it off while you've yet to be humiliated.
Get the fuck away from her OP, she's just asking permission to cheat, say no and she'll jut go behind your back.
if you didn't immediately dump her and cut her out of your life you're a cuck. She basically just gave you a red flag she's going to cheat on you. She's just asking permission to cheat so she doesn't feel as guilty about it.
sad user
Makes you wonder if she ever really loved you doesnt ir? Breaking up that is.
Because thats what she's done with you: broken up.
Shit sucks man.
Don't talk yourself into it. You'll sure as shit try, but don't. Now you have to worry about:
>Sti's (you'll never know if her partners are being safe)
>Pregnancy (If she accidentally gets pregnant, guess who's 'the father')
>Taking a backseat in the relationship (Her going out with 'friends' and cutting you out)
>Resentment and burning anger ( will fucking KILL you inside. It will KILL your soul. This is a fate worse than death.)
You're in for terror, heartbreak, disappointment, resentment, anger, low self-esteem, low feelings of self worth.
OR
You can be sad for 6-7 months.
Listen, the break up is coming. You can either deal with both, or you can take the BETTER long term option and just be sad- Or you can have it ALL-- and live a nightmare and be sad on top of that.
You gotta leave her, man. You owe it to yourself to limit the damage... losing her will be painful enough.
She broke up with you dude. Leave asap it's unsalvageable
No idea if OP is still here, but please listen to the guys ITT. For once guys on Jow Forums are actually giving solid advice and you should definitely take it
Either be depressed and with low self-esteem for however long you and her last, which could be years, or break off with her now and be sad for just a few weeks then find a new gf who isn't a cheating unfaithful whore. She never deserved you OP
If she suggested an open relationship then she already has someone in mind she wants to fuck.
I hope you're out of that relationship by now, OP, because if you're not you're going to hate yourself every minute you spend with her
>already has someone in mind
I'd go further than that and say she's probably already cheated
Op tell her to invite the guy shes fucking to your place.
Be sure to take a hot bath for an hour beforehand and jelq a bit. Abstain from jerking off for a couple days.
When the bitch comes home with her new dude have a dick contest. Yours will be larger due to the preparations and your bitch will remain loyal for life.
Another thing is you should surprise punch the guy in the throat as a christmas gift. Bitch will get aroused then you can revenge fuck her. That fuck will be the best in her life. Guaranteed loyalty.
She is already fucking someone or will be doing that immediately.
>....I don't know what to fucking do.
You kinda fucked up already by not just getting extremely pissed and shutting it down right away.
Then again, these two
are probably right so maybe it didn't matter.
You should have that argument if you think you need to, then dump her.
Fucking end it. This is the only way to make these fucking people realize they belong with shitty people who have aids and not in loving relationships.
Just dump her and cut your losses dude, if she wants to fuck other guys she's trash anyways. There will be another.
You should whore her out to random dudes on backpage without her knowledge.
Treat a hoe like a hoe bruh, real talk.
>I want my girlfriend to be....y'know...MY girlfriend
Well that makes one of you. She's done with the relationship and doesn't even have the courtesy to break it off instead of leeching emotional support off you while she fucks other dudes. So now you get to be the one who drops the axe on this shitshow.
Hate to be that guy but I think its over... Open relationships usually mean she is done. Unless you guys work something out, even then she may just go behind your back.
If she wants to be in an open relationship now she already has cheated on you.
Just a friendly warning. Get out
Make it a points system where she has to help you fuck as many chicks as she does guys
and then OP left a thread full of good advice and entered and open relationship where his gf gets different dick every weekend, and he sits at home jerking off
Leave. Now. I know it fucking sucks but take it like a man and dump that bitch and don't look back, she doesn't deserve you.
Dump her she wants other dick and if you want a legit relationship you need to look for someone who wants that too. Otherwise it'll just be torture and a waste of time for you
she cheated on you already but wants to come clean with an open relationship. also she is probably looking to replace but wants to keep you around just in case she fails.