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You didn't mention anything about attempting to meet women, tho.
Brayden Wilson
You can't make people like you. Moreover, think about every person you talk to, day to day, and ask yourself "wow, I really found that person interesting, Im going to break my daily routine just to spend more time with them" and you'll realize just how difficult it is for anyone to give other people the time of day. Unless you are extremely, EXTREMELY exceptional, noone will care about you.
Colton Diaz
The reality is that love isn't meant for everyone. Same goes for wealth, success, status, etc. It's nothing wrong with you personally, but you weren't raised to experience love.
Andrew Sullivan
Love is mostly built by proximity and time spent around another person.
Lucas Russell
I'm not exactly sure how to meet women, I go out and drink with my colleagues on the weekends sometimes, I've tried tinder and bumble but that doesn't really work. It's just kind of a weird situation where I don't know how to meet women because I've never and any previous experience doing so.
Easton Allen
>25 >lots of debt >didn't have a good paying job until last year >3/10 >weird/boring as shit according to 99% of people i meet >don't drive my car >stay indoors as much as possible >fucked 8 different girls since high school, been in long relationships for most of the time or would have hooked up with way more girls
by the way OP your answer is that you prefer men. how much of your time every day is spent on talking to guys or doing "guy things"? come out of the closet.
Logan Wood
You can get a hobby. It didn't work for me but might for you.
Aaron Reyes
i'm pretty happy that there are so many retarded kids who literally don't understand the concept of trial and error. how pathetically easy was your childhood that you're not dead yet?
Isaiah Hall
I don't know if this counts as hobbies, but I do things like playing piano, reading, basketball
Okay senpai, what doesn't count as "guy things"? I work in a job that is 99% men, all of my friends are men, so obviously 99.9% of my contact is with men.
Like obviously it's not intentional, but what am I going to do to meet women, attend a feminist rally?
I don't even know what to try? Like obviously if I had some ideas I would try them but I keep drawing blanks, if you have any suggestions I will try them.
Hudson Garcia
>99.9% of my contact is with men. i just gave you your answer. cock up your boypussi
Owen Flores
Reading's not a good one unless you find a book club or something, too solitary. Piano could work, but you might have to do it obliquely, like start performing somewhere or with some group. Basketball also isn't good unless you're in some weird co-ed beer league which I don't think exists...but still worth thinking about, some might spectate.
Anyway, the point I'm making is that you can meet girls through hobbies if they share your hobby. I can almost guarantee that Tinder/Bumble are utter wastes of time if you post here. What you should do is make female contacts through those activities if you can, then use them to get their friends or date them directly. Let women know you're looking and they will often help out if they think you're high-value.
I've met plenty, it just hasn't gone anywhere because I'm still me. But I think you should try it.
Michael Scott
Dumbfuck go outside more do activities go jog for your cities and meet girls. This post is basically saying I won a billion dollar lottery but I am too lazy to redeem it.
Liam Evans
>I don't think I'm a bad guy All humans are evil under the right circumstances. Never forget that. >le nice guy
Joseph Collins
Oh yeah, that's another big thing; don't think of yourself as a nice person. Try to do what you think is right, not what is nice, and even if people say you're nice don't make it part of your identity. You must accept being an asshole to some people sometimes in order to be human.
Brandon Harris
"just go and meet women bro" is this generations "just take a shower bro"
Hudson Walker
Honestly this but most people in this places won't accept it.
Ryder Peterson
So basically just go out and jog and talk to people I don't know?
Isaiah Bennett
both wrong, most women decide within a microsecond if they'd fuck a man or not the only reason they'd change their mind is if his social status was reevaluated
Jeremiah Wright
How is that hard? Are you fucking disabled on a wheelchair anybody can go up to any girl
Ian Wood
never said it was hard you actually illiterate retard, just that it was stupid fucking advice
Liam Nelson
thats just horniness, and one reason why someone might be interested in you, but not real love
Isaac Lee
Do you have friends? If so, ask them if they can set you up with women they know. Do they have a sister or two. Obviously don't ask to be set up with their sister, but do try to meet them. When you are in a social network (real life, not facebook) you are introduced to women. That's the best way to meet the opposite sex in a way that has a chance of leading to romance. Even then, if you don't know what you are doing you are in real trouble. My advice would be to be real up front and straight forward with any women you meet. Tell them right out that you are looking for romance, and that who knows, it may be with them.
Michael Reed
>it's stupid advice to say go meet women if you want a relationship with a women if it works for 100% of cases it's not stupid advice. OP literally doesn't talk to girls and is asking what he's doing wrong.
Daniel Reyes
real love doesnt exist its just women finding a moneychad and sticking to him
Nicholas Diaz
it doesn't work for 100% cases, only if you're already good looking. In ops case, if he was good looking, he'd know. its already over for him
Thomas Howard
real love does exist between two boys.
Nathaniel Ross
the truth is, taht a relationship is built around love. If you are not capable of loving some1 u wont be in a relationship with some1
Nathan Gomez
no you literally need to take that step in 100% of all cases
Jaxson Jackson
i never said you didn't, learn to read mong, just that it only works if youre good looking, and OP is not or else someone would ahve pushed him to tkae it already
Robert Price
Wow, you really know a lot about women and how the choose parters.
Samuel Morris
Base Lmfao
Jeremiah Gray
it is precisely the best thing that OP needs to hear as advice. there's nothing smarter you can say to someone who wants to reach point B but hasn't left point A yet.
Austin Bailey
Love is just sexual attraction. You must be really ugly. Wrong. It's built on our inherent drive to seek out good genes and pass them on. Simple as that.
Jaxson Watson
Yeah that's a dumb idea. Jogging is a bad hobby, too solitary. Same thing with the gym, every woman has headphones in. You're looking for things that force social interaction through a shared activity. That is how social bonds are formed.
Kayden Allen
My summarization of my friends is people spilling beer on my walls to cause me to embarrassingly freak out
I wish i could understand people less now, all i feel is disgust
Wyatt Wood
All i can see is that everyone knew my girlfriend was actively having trains ran on her at uni
All i can see are people ive given dozens upon dozens of rides to return that with abject disrespect so they can be above the retard
Eli Morgan
WOW WHY ARENT RETARDS SUPER SEXUALLY AGGRESSIVE?
I THINK ITS GOOD TO SHAME PEOPLE THAT ARE INTRINSICALLY BAD AT SOCIAL INTERACTIONS FOR NOT BEING SEXUAL AGGRESIVE ENOUGH
Ryan Sanchez
>6/10 You are experiencing one of two scenarios. You're not 6/10 or 6/10 is no longer enough to get gf. Read up, observe, go with your gut and decide which one is the truth. Then act accordingly.
Zachary Fisher
Get a mostly female oriented hobby such as cooking (goI to cooking classes). Otherwise, make friends with a gay guy and have him introduce you to his fag hags
