what is a "personality" that the normies constantly speak of? I just don't get how I'm suppose to have one because apparently I'm really boring to be around with
it makes no sense to me and no one can objectively explain to me what it actually is, is it just the be yourself kind of thing? well how am I not myself then? I've never tried to pretend to be someone else just to fit in, what the fuck am I suppose to do to have a fun persona? If I try to act differently then it won't be me
Pick up hobbies fgt. Having attributes about yourself such as playing an instrument, dancing, illistration, crafting, cooking ,smithing , fishing, collecting. They all make for interesting conversational points and provide dimensions to you as a person thus creating a personaility. If all you provide to a conversation is work, school or staring at a wall its pretty boring and lifeless.
If you have to "pretend" to fit in then you need to grow the fk up and find a new circle of friends. Only children do that shit.
>playing an instrument, dancing, illistration, crafting, cooking ,smithing , fishing, collecting
>implying you do any of these generic boring ass activities
there are plenty of losers who don't do shit but smoke weed and get drunk but still somehow have a personality, you don't need to have a hobby to be social if you're a normie
This is what normalshit society is based around, you just convinced yourself that's not what you're doing. The reason robots don't fit is because they just do w/e they want instead of what gets them social approval.
The fact that you even ask tells me that you're more interested in expressing misguided scorn, than an actual answer. Personality as a concept has been around for a looooong time, my friend.
>Personality refers to individual differences in characteristic patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving.
There's an objective explanation. Now pose your question about it.
Well no shit. A pedophile who eats animal shit still has a personality... the question is how does one develop a "normie" personality. Inb4 jus b urself
this guy seems to possess the archetypal FAGGOT personality
Thank you-- And you don't. Because 'normie' is such a loose blanket term that will never get you anywhere... it's so incredibly nuanced that you can move the goalposts at any time and still have it apply.
If you're a fundamentally disagreeable person, who is overly critical of others, then that's who you are. That personality may clash with others, if that makes you unhappy, THEN if you desire, you can undergo therapy to help sort the thoughts and feelings that put you at odds with others.
You change yourself through an inner desire, and honest effort, negotiating in good faith with others (and yourself) But how you do it is up to you. Nobody else can undertake such a journey for you, as you well know. And there's no magic words I can give you-- it's gained through introspection, observation, and being aware of your emotions and motivations.
>it's so incredibly UNnuanced
that's a typo, my bad.
When you say you're a girl dtf and guys respond that's personality
And THIS is in part, where the trope 'JUST B YERSELF BRO LOL' Comes from.
You are who you are. Your life experiences have shaped you, your behaviours, thoughts, and language you employ. The reason people say shit like that is because there are people who share similarities with your fundamental traits and thought patterns, and if you're like minded there's a chance that you two will match up better (mileage may vary).
It's much like a good friendship, we come together because we share similarities-- interests, temperaments, and beliefs. Not necessarily because we're 'fun' or 'cool' I'm boring as fuck for instance. And I have boring as fuck friends... and I love it. I like chill people, personally. Not overly excitable or volatile, relatively calm and reasonable. Those are traits that happen to resonate with me.
I hope todays exchange has at least provided you some useful perspective. If there's more I can explain that you would find helpful, please, feel free to ask.
yeah it really do be like that.
As you get older you just start yo realise what kind of person you are.
Literally first year uni I went partying with friends almost everyday and I fking hated it but pretended it was fun just not to offend them.
An interovert pretending to be extroverted is so fking stressful. Now I just draw or play vidya with other comfy intros.
LE JUS BE YOURSELF BREH fucking kys you normie scum
personality is just a defense mechanism normies have for when they don't like someone
>"He has a shit personality. That's why no one wants to be around him"
when you ask them to explain it they get defensive and often reply with
>"be yourself"
Well what the fuck have I been "being" for the past couple of decades?
how can you not ever be yourself? You are the self that you present to others with sincerity
There is no second self to be. In that case. You're not "being" yourself but someone else. A false personality. lol
by personality they mean copying how they act
these normies like to mental gymnastics. They have to have the world perfect and for it to make sense
they can't fathom that there are people that act a certain way NATURALLY
Read the rest of the thread, phoneposting scum.
You're only outing yourself as a retard.
I'm not reading the rest of your faggot tripe you mongoloid. The truth hurts huh normalfaggot?
>The truth hurts
No arguments there!
>An interovert pretending to be extroverted is so fking stressful
I hear ya brother! I was fucking miserable for the first 25 years of my life, until I found my best friend. My life changed after that, for the better. True friendship is the grace that sweetens and enhances our life, Free of the facades and social climbing, you can safely release ourselves into the hands of another. You can be vulnerable. You can express your loves and joys without fear of scorn or retribution.
It's been the best gift of my life. My happiness went up immediately.