I'm traveling 1000 miles to go see my oneitis unannounced. I figure I don't have much to lose; I really don't

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This meme has to stop. Fuck off and eat shit

I drove like 300 miles (8 hours) to see a girl I met on the internet and she turned out to be a slut who had a bf and still didn't mind to kiss with me. She didn't want to have sex tho because she considered herself loyal. I don't fucking get women.

Fuck
Planning on doing a similar thing in the near future. Prepared for everything, I've been disappointed and rejected so many times before I'd turn a negative scenario into a positive by deluding myself I'm only traveling.

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>Knock on door
>Pic related opens it
>"...Yeah?"

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>unannounced.
>I figure I don't have much to lose
Yes you do. Time, money, effort, emotional energy. This is really dumb.

>Time, money, effort, emotional energy.
I don't see what you mean, my time is cheap, the travel expense is relatively cheap, and it doesn't take THAT much effort to organize a trip within your country. Emotional energy? I'm not bothered by it at the moment so I'll overlook it.

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if she didnt consent to it, youre a tard

You don't explicitly need to consent to meet someone, it's not illegal by itself you know.

>can attempt to logically and coherently dismiss reality
>can't logically understand he's going to stalk a girl that would be scared as fuck if she knew what he was doing
This is a troll, or you're very mentally sick.

I am thinking of doing this. Did you stay with them, or at a hotel?

>I'm traveling 1000 miles to go see my oneitis unannounced.
What are you going to do when you get there only to find shes got a black man hanging out the back of her?

Airbnb my friend - well worth it.
We're moving in together next year.

Greentext your experience
I need to know there's hope for me

i did this except the girl and i were actually dating at one point, needless to say she never spoke to me again because it's an outright creepy thing to do especially since she and i were already having problems
i was desperate as fuck for her to understand i cared about her which is why i did it, but again, afterwards she never spoke to me again and made it clear she had no desire to do so

I just met her online by chance, after 6 months we decided to meet.
We stayed in nyc since we wanted to make a vacation of it in a cool city too. Chemistry was there from the start though I still felt anxious for the first week, after that it felt natural and it hurt to say goodbye.
Next year I'll move from the uk -> usa on a fiance visa and we will begin our life together.
I was alone for years, in my mid 20s now and was 100% sure I'd always be alone. It's weird that these things can come out of nowhere when you turn a corner.

right. i agree. youre a tard

My decade old LDR girlfriend dumped me because "she can't bear the distance and loneliness anymore" and that remaining like this "hurts us both", so she wants to "live her life fully" and "be open to love".
I never had the opportunity to move with her, she did but pussied out. Fuck women, suicide has never sounded so appealing.

when you say you met by chance, what do you mean?

Sorry what I meant was that I wasn't looking for love or any kind of relationship, it wasn't on any kind of dating service.

I just met her online and we began chatting as friends, and as we talked more we became closer with each other.

After we met it got to the point that I knew I wanted to be with her.

I know a lot of people would say it's crazy and irresponsible to get up and leave your life and country behind for the sake of a relationship, but I'm at the point in life where I'm completely stagnating socially. I've always been the type of person to let opportunities slip through my fingers if they would have presented themselves, this time I'm confident that I would rather take the risk and fail, than spend my life wondering about what could have been.

i'm a dumbass pathetic, absolutely worthless fucking waste of space romantic so of course i'd say this, but i don't think it's wrong to abandon everything for the sake of love, especially if that's what you're passionate about
if i thought cutting my arm off would get me one last conversation with my ex i'm sure i would, i loved them to pieces and haven't heard from them in almost 2 years

Taking risks is what it means to be alive. If you live a life without taking any risk you will be depressed. Take too much risk and you might die.

It sucks but that's just how it works. Get out there and take risks. Maybe then things get better. Things will stay the same at best if you don't.

i don't know what these risks are. is the idea to hit up bars and whatnot like normies would? i'm absolutely terrible at chatting up potential new friends so i doubt that'd go well for me.

because we all know how much everyone just loves people showing up unannounced.

Came here to say that this is fucking retarded

>If you live a life without taking any risk you will be depressed.

>Take too much risk and you might die.

balance is really key huh...

This is a really, really, really bad idea.
You're going to be the subject of a "THIS CREEPY FUCKER" Facebook or Twitter post.

She doesn't really use social media
Well I'd like it. So it's not everyone.

This.

You're a selfish person too OP, since this person wants *nothing* to do with you, yet you are forcing your presence upon her regardless.

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I will do similar to what OP is planning, but we've talked about it happening so it won't be a surprise. I'm anxious and excitd, and I'm willing to do it out of love. Even if things don't turn out well, I will do it.

>since this person wants *nothing* to do with you
How do you know? Have you analyzed her mind? Are you close to her?

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Like you say thing like going to bars, but also exposing yourself to women. Many men who live their entire life alone meet single women constantly, but never approach them because they are so afraid of rejection. Even though the temporary sting of rejection is almost nothing compared to the existential dread caused by never approaching and living life completely unloved. Again it is unfair towards men, but contrary to what reddit basedboys who've had one girlfriend that constantly cheats on them believe. This also is not going to change

Litterally better than what OP did. Less creepy but still spontaneous. She'll love it.

Well yeah. Of course not every leap of faith has a direct way of killing you. But if you're so closed of to your fellow humans that you cannot connect to any of them you might as well be dead.

Simple logic would dictate that if 1) she wanted to see you, then 2) she would have told you to see her.

Since you are forced to show up unannounced, then we can conclude that she wants *nothing* to do with you. That is how women work.

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>if she wanted to see you, then she would have told you to see her.
Not necessarily. Perhaps in most cases but not all.

She might like such a surprise.

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