Have you anons ever been to a bar/club alone?
I've been trying to improve myself recently and I think there would be value in pushing my social comfort-zone by doing something like this. Any experience/stories welcome.
>inb4 "You're just going to embarrass/humiliate yourself user, why even try"
Yes I just sat there drinking alone. I tried talking to some girls they would tell me that they don't know me.
How long were you there? Why didn't you try to talk to other people?
>Have you anons ever been to a bar/club alone?
Literally most of my life. All my friends sucked, were weirdo nerds, indie artists, druggies. They are acted autistically and cut my chances down significantly.
Literally having 3 neckbeards with you while you look okay and are outgoing is like being smeared with horseshit all over when the women see you with them. Those who want to fuck you want to fuck you even if you are alone.
It's a fucking troll to bring loser guys with yourself. Either bring ugly girls be their cuck driver or a dude with a girlfriend than anyone whom you'd meet on Jow Forums.
I usually like drinking alone at this barcade I like to go to. I went there opening night (pic related), had a couple beers, then left. I go every couple of weeks, when I have some money to spare. No one talks to me except the bartender, and I don't talk to anyone but the bartender.
I might try going to some bars alone myself sometime. It seems pretty comfy.
>Have you anons ever been to a bar/club alone?
Yes, and it's a somber and depressing experience.
Used to do it at all the local bars, now I gravitate to the quieter bars and taverns.
You can meet some nice folks in quieter places, more room for conversation and discourse.
Once met an Iranian Jew who expressed his sadness of being forced to leave his home in Iran after the fall of the Shah.
Neat guy, showed me his architecture plans.
I do it less these days, it's cheaper to buy a 6 pack of beer and a bottle of wine for the home.
Do you think a 6/10 with 4/10 social skills would be able to pull anyone half decent?
I have before but only when I get hammered. I guess it is because I am so drunk I am actually outgoing? If I am sober or just buzzed I fail.
What do you do to attract them? Literally just walk up and talk about random bullshit until they are interested in you?
I don't even really know to be honest. I think it is just when I am sober I look fucking miserable and never smile... when hammered I look more inviting? I kinda lose the fear of rejection a little and just talk. Some woman really are whore - fucked one 15 minutes after saying hi in her suv,
I went to a club alone once. I was drinking by myself in a corner and couldn't talk to anyone. All girls were in groups of friends anyways.
A friend of mine once told me I'm pretty smooth when I'm drunk. I think it's just common, since we aren't constantly thinking about what could go wrong.
The last time I went to a bar I accidentally took some girls drink, realized and left it next to me. When she asked if it was hers I said yeah and she took it despite it being like 3/4th's empty.
The place was beyond crowded and I had to yell just to talk to my friend next to me. Not my kinda scene.
I'm a virgin and when turbonormies learn this they keep insisting I'll lose it instantly if I just went to a bar. Happens every fucking time. The thing is, hookups sound fun yes, but I'm more interesting in finding someone to spend time with, give love to, spoil etc.
Dont go to a bar just to get laid but go out to have fun and the getting laid part will just kinda happen naturally.
>me
>single and depressed af
>push myself to uncomfortable things every week, go out sometimes by myself sometimes with people I barely know
>big party at Uni, work the bar
>really annoying until
>hey are you single?
>whome.gif
Maybe dont go by yourself op but ask some distant acquaintances if they wanna go out, even if you dont get laid youll make new friends
>barcade
Wait wat? Social skills is not an automatic turn-on, lack off them is faux pass. By showering you don't become attractive (not socially shy) but by smelling like shit you push away people (socially inept).
Clubs are like for chubby hunting or drugged up girls. Social skills my ass, it's about not looking weak, a retard, being opportunistic, shameless, pushy. And never aim above your fucking league.
Most of the time you won't get shit so like better do hookers on the side too.
I know that feel. Worst part is that I rarely get interested in someone. Out of all girls I met this year at uni only one really caught my attention (obviously I fucked up). I really struggle to find motivation to do anything these days.
I've started hating when I start liking someone cause it's always the same episode. I'm painfully bored of this rerun.
You're not going to find someone like that in real life. Try to stop caring about women and embrace the 2D life instead. I'm also a 24 year old virgin.
>I'm also a 24 year old virgin.
I'm so happy that years ago I went against everything that's been told to me online and fucked hookers. Literally your parents, teachers, preacher, online buddies give the worst advice in everything and pull you down like fucking crabs.
Its a chain they are all over the US. Lots of retro arcade and pinball machines. Drinks ate dumb expensive at the ones around here though
I considered it at some point but don't even care about never having sex anymore. The idea of getting a hooker disgusts me now (though there's nothing wrong with it if you like it).
At least I've made it into a decently paying job now and can live comfy.