You are happily married and have 3 kids

you mean unconditionally loving them?
there is no such thing as unconditional love. people love their children because the fulfill some conditions, for example 1. they are family, 2. they (probably) decided to bring them into this world. those are the two basic ones i can think of. if they dont fulfill either of these conditions, you dont love them as family anymore (since the nature and cause of the relationship are bound to familial ties). if you still love the kid, it is probably because you have also formed a relationship with the nature of friendship and not just parent-child. there are different types of love, and all love has its conditions.

What if the way you found out was your wife admitting the truth and begging for forgiveness while breaking down and crying?
She says that she cheated on you a few times with this one guy (who impregnated her), and never again.
All of this happened 10 years ago.

She says it was hell hiding it for all these years, but she was afraid for the kid's future.

What do you do now?

probably fall into the loop of "i want to die but i still have to take care of my kids" so instead time stops while i ponder eternally what to do

You sound like someone who doesn't have any friends and never leaves their room.

Let me guess, you are also impressed and inspired by Ellior Rodger?

2/3 is the norm

Double murder suicide. I kill her and her spawn, drop my kids off with their grandparents, then off myself to avoid imprisonment.

what? nice presupposition there dude. im not saying that conditional love isnt genuine or valid, im just saying if you love someone, you necessarily have to have reasons for loving them, and that there are different roles to fulfill in any social relationship, friend-friend, parent-child, teacher-student, sibling-sibling, etcetc. yes i do have friends (inb4 normie), yes i do leave my room.
dont agree wih max stirner on much but this quote from him kind of fits the context.
"If i cherish you because I hold you dear, because in you my heart finds nourishment, my need satisfaction, then it is not done for the sake of a higher essence whose hallowed body you are, not on account of my beholding in you a ghost, an appearing spirit, but from egoistic pleasure; you yourself with *your* essence are valuable to me."

Why is she afraid for the kids future? This is a bullshit reason, she was afraid for her future. Who is the daddy, is he still around or has shown back up and threatening to tell you and wants to have a relationship with his kid and why she had to spill now?

Anyway to answer your question. Cheating is one thing but the betrayal of passing off her lovers child as yours is one of the most selfish things someone can do. Not only to you but the child and ironically her lover, the childs real father who hasn't been able to be in his childs life. Had an aunt do this same thing and it crushed my uncle but he divorced her but maintained a relationship with the kid. My aunt married the kids father and the kid didn't want to have anything to do with him and still called my uncle, dad and they remain close to this day.

How old are your other children?

>How old are your other children?
Dude, this is a fictional scenrio. I don't have any children (yet).
I'm just curious what the people will say.

Ok, the only reason I asked about the other children was if they were older a divorce wouldn't be as impactful. Otherwise you divorce a worthless piece of shit like this.

My poor cousin got fucked up by it and my aunt just went on her merry way like so fucking what and shows up after the disclosure with my cousin and bio dad at family events like its the most normal shit in the world.

I also was fucking a recent divorcee who had a kid and she kept wanting more out of the relationship but then this strange guy just pops up in her life and find out he's the real dad of the kid not her ex husband (who had no fucking clue and paying the bitch child support). This stupid cunt was still trying to get me to sigh up for a real relationship, saying bio dad was a scumbag, blah, blah, blah. I ran.

>implying I wouldn't DNA-test every one of them in infancy
Roasties cannot be trusted period

The reality is, no woman is giving that pussy to just one man. We let our ego get in the way and convince ourselves she would never even when all the signs are there and we should know better.

>The reality is, no woman is giving that pussy to just one man.
Let me guess, you have autism, browse Jow Forums, browse leddit, watch MGTOW videos on youtube, and never leave the house?

on the contrary, know women well, especially the married ones

>Let me guess
>Let me guess
>Let me guess
>Let me guess
how about you stop guessing shit about people you dont know online and consider perspectives other than your own, instead of dismissing them because they dont confirm your bias?

Robot perspectives are almost always extreme exaggerations and fixations on the darkest aspects of society.
They usually make wild claims that everything and everyone is like that.

You see, the robot logic goes like this:
>I'm lonely and have been mistreated
>therefore, the world is dark and negative perspectives are always the pinnacle of truth (the real red-pills)

I've been here oong enough to see it.
I've met enough people irl to know they are mostly not what the robots claim they are.

When I see someone on this board displaying an attitude of extreme negativity that is not reflected by reality, I tend to make some assumptions.

My guesses are also a joke, partially.

So all women are roasties?

it means since women have the womb and any man can fertilize her eggs and women frequently copulate with more than one man at or near the same time-frame the specific man she copulates with from whom the sperm originates is always in question. One of the men is usually her partner but she has other men visit her when her partner isn't around and women have an uncanny ability to compartmentalize and justify so deceit is second nature

I poison my wife or otherwise cause her to have an unfortunate accident next time we go /out/.
I continue to raise the kids as my own - its not his fault she's a lying whore.

If he doesn't have any friends and he never leaves his room and he is impressed and inspired by Elliot Rodger, does that make him wrong?

If not, what was the point of your post?

I'm pointing out that his lifestyle and suffering have probably made him very negative, and I'm implying his worldview is based on emotions, rather than accurate observation and logic.

>be gril

I'm so confused.

That does not prove him wrong though.

Introduce my wife to cuckolding and let her impregnated by black bulls and just watch her over the years amass a army of darkspawn niglings in her bloated tummy.

It's hard to prove anything when it comes to human emotions, so I did not bother to try.

I was merely stating how tired I am of people like him, who make extremely negative claims and pretend it is a proven fact.

Cheat on my wife.

Fucking redditors.Niggerino, roastie is just the r9k word for women.ALL women are roasties.

Literally never used reddit.
However, I started being a regular on Jow Forums a couple of months ago.

>divorce wife
>by some miracle get the kids
>get allimony from roastie
>get child support from roastie
>treat my kids like royalty while the bastard gets to be the house bitch

shitting out welfare checks from her cunny. gotta get dem gibs

You're a dumb one, aren't ya ? You make a highly negative hypothetical situation and start being a little bitch to everyone on the thread that responds accordingly to it, which is the right way to respond to this type of situation.

>ARGUING WITH HOLES
oregano

The situation is what you make of it.

Spergs itt start spewing their worldviews, like I'm reading Elliot Rodger's manifesto or some shit.

Holes? Where are the holes?

this is why most robots have decided to go gay

I can respect that.
Very good, user.

I don't think I want to be married to an oompa loompa

And others lies you can tell yourself to rationalize that everyone that has a different opinion is a Elliot Rodger sympathiser. The situation is not what you make of it, the situation is the situation. It's a hypothetical extremely bad situation that calls for extreme actions, stop being the "omg you don't agree with me, so you are (insert insult)" fag

> a few times
> let herself get impregnated
Yeah, she deserves no sympathy. She willing sought him out several times so she is getting her ass divorced. I don't mind raising the kid since it's not his fault his mom was a whore but I don't wanna ever see her again.

>What do you do?

do the same thing you see in nature and kill the baby that is not mine. also do the same to my wife for being a cheating slut.

youtube.com/watch?v=xZRw0IYdf3g

>extreme exaggerations and fixations on the darkest aspects of society.

why is cheating women so common then? all of my friends were cheated on by women including my own father.

>So all women are roasties?

yes because being disloyal is a survival mechanism for women and it allows the progression of evolution. women can lose resources if they get too attach to only one guy and she would be kill for not submitting to a conquer that took over her village. also evolution works by only allowing the stronger and smarter guy to reproduce. women are going to want to reproduce with the conquer that was stronger and more intelligent to win a fight. she will betray you after you die by the hands of the stronger conquer.

That depends on the type of women you date/marry and the culture in which you live.

What happens is these guys find girlfriends on parties and shit.
You hit it off, she sucks your dick and a week later she's your gf.

It was probably her habit to suck dicks, yet some dude decides to date her and wife her up.

It's pretty obvious which girl would cheat and which wouldn't.
You can tell from 10 minutes of talking with her (with decent accuracy), and in a week of knowing her with extreme accuracy.

I can't imagine being happily married to anyone so stupid and low quality. It would mean:

>She was stupid enough to get knocked up while cheating. I'd never be that dumb.

>She had some other guy's genes parasitize my parenting efforts.

But I'll assume I can be tricked. If the bastard's genetic quality is equal to or better than mine, I'd be less angry than I otherwise would. We won't have a problem if:

>she gets her tubes tied.

>I knock her teeth out to make her lying mouth my personal throat fuck hole.

If the bastard's genetic quality is inferior to mine:

>She was stupid enough to get knocked up by an inferior male.

>Some inferior male's inferior genes got a free ride to the next generation by piggybacking on me. This inferiority also made the bastard more burdensome than my own kids.

In that case I'd have to dissolve the marriage to avoid killing the wife. She is welcome to spend her alimony on facial reconstructive surgeries when I'm done with her.

In any case I wouldn't tell the bastard s/he is a bastard until s/he reached adulthood.

>considering the genetic quality of the bastard child
I'm honored to be in your presence, Sir Carlton of the Cuckold.

Dump that bitch and be sure to tell that kid once he's old enough

Wait. It's illegal to sleep with insects? In which countries? Please don'y say USA.

If you love the kid, the wife wins. Teach your kids that it is wrong and offspring that isn't biologically yours will be disowned and despised.

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That will create the feeling that you don't love them for who they are, but just for the genes.

My younger sister thought about what if they replaced her in the hospital when she was born and she is not related to us.
She said this a couple of times in her life.
It was just a bizzare thought of her, she actually looks like us and has no reason to worry.

She was worried that if she isn't ours (biologically) that we would not love her.

Nothing could be further from the truth.
She would always be my family.

That's the point. You love your genes. Why would you love some waste of space not tied to you? I'd put it up for adoption if the woman didn't want it

Divorce but still remain in contact with all of the kids and treat them normally.

>You love your genes
Right here is an absolute kind of disgusting. You should never be responsible for another life, let alone a child's.

>you are happily married and have 3 kids
Nope. Does not pass my suspension of disbelieve filter at all, bro.

If it isn't mine it can get dropped off a building for all I care.

>no woman is giving that pussy to just one man
t. r9k

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I mean at least i'd have had sex two more times than currently is the case. How do I get to this alternate timeline?

>edginess to the fucking max
>reddit spacing

Go back newfaggot.

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Lol so a child you raised is no longer your child and you dgaf just because its mother wronged you?