If you're under the age of 20, and still a virgin, here's some advice:
Do whatever you can to get laid.
You need to do it, and do it now. If I could give my younger self some advice, it would be that. There comes a point where you're so old, that you're beyond saving. I was 27 before I got a girlfriend. She was fat and ugly, but had a nice personality. I figured she was a virgin as well. I fucked her, and then a few weeks later found out she has had like 20 different boyfriends, and lost her virginity at 17; a full decade before me. I tried to tell myself that I didn't care, but I did. I didn't care that she had boyfriends before; I cared that I hadn't had a girlfriend before. It felt imbalanced. It's as if I'm not the man in the relationship; as if she was out of my league.
The problem with this is that I'm going to be unable to have a relationship without feeling like an inadequate loser, unless I find a girl equally as inexperienced as I. This isn't so much of an issue on its own, but when you go outside and see that there are normal, functional people, who have girlfriends, and who aren't losers like you, it destroys your self-esteem. No matter how much money I have, or how good I am at things, I will never have self-esteem that is anything but rock-bottom. Imagine if 99% of people learnt how to read and write at age 6, but you learnt how to read and write at 20. That's what it feels like. No matter what you do, you will always consider yourself worse than everyone else. I could write best-selling books, but in my mind I'm still that idiot who couldn't read or write until I was 20.
Get a girlfriend now, before you end up like me. Don't wait for women to hit the wall. You need to do it, and do it now. Right now. Get on a dating site and fuck anyone who is willing to fuck you.
>She was fat and ugly, but had a nice personality >had like 20 different boyfriends HAHAHA EAT SHIT OPEE! I'm still young and you fucked a slampig and wasted your life! BWAHAHA
People who praise self-esteem and self-love independent of your achievements are moronic. You have to actually have numbers to give yourself some validation. Good advice OP, I agree wholeheartedly. Glad I lost my virginity by 18 so I don't feel so inadequate nowadays when interacting with females.
Gavin Peterson
God I have such a thing for braces.
Luis Brown
Porn will do for now.
Jason Peterson
>TFW just turned 19 i'll do anything user
Matthew Adams
The only advice these robots need is to go on Grindr and be a sissy bottom or a robot top
Eli Cox
Stop posting. Start banging some women.
Easton Taylor
No, younglings don't listen to this fork tongued devil. You should wait until marriage to consumate your love. Others of you need to just hold on until you're 30 and get your wizard powers.
women already shoed me ii early childhood that they have absolutely no desire for me. i'm more used to loneliness anyway
Levi Watson
why would you give such terrible advice? girlfriends are for losers who have no self respect. women will control you,manipulate you, and drain your money.
Jason Anderson
>get on a dating site and fuck anyone who's willing to fuck you
why do people assume that this is easy or that anyone wants to fuck me lol
Luis Walker
i lost my virginity at 17 with a girl i was seeing. we fucked maybe 5 times but she turned out to be a literal masochist which kinda fucked me up. im 23 now and havent been laid since. might as well be a virgin
Gabriel Phillips
>Your value is based on how many hoes you fucked and other arbirtary shit Fuck off back to peddit
Jacob Hill
>imagine being this worried tik tok young man
Jaxson Mitchell
lost mine at 16, didn't help me in life though
Anthony Evans
If you're there you're there, regardless of whether you're a late-bloomer or not. All the matters is the present. Many people who have trouble coming to terms with themselves and their lives are stuck on what will happen years in the future or what has affected them from the past. That said, go eat a dick faggot, your advice has the same weight as a pile of shit.
Ayden Young
Can confirm, lost my virginity this year with 21 with a guy and now I'm a faggot.
I was straight then I lost hope after 20, dont repeat my mistake.
Xavier Hall
Pretty much this senpai, women just aren't interested in me and never were
Adam Flores
You just aren't aware of how much worse your life would have been.
It's like saying, "I'm 6'2 and have a 10/10 face but it hasn't helped me". No, it has helped you, you just don't know it.
Brody Wright
Really? I lost mine at 13. Jesus you guys are losers
Charles Cooper
20 is way too late for finding virgin girls.
Christian Rodriguez
I want to lose my virginity next year, I'm good looking but I'm kind of insecure and indecisive. I know I could lose it pretty easily if I just went to a party and hit on a drunk girl, but I want the first time to be special. I wish I could have had a meaningful relationship in high school with a virginal girl, all the best ones get snatched up by the age of 16. I'm only 18 now but I already feel like it's too late unless I go for a younger girl. I'm also bisexual and I can't decide if I want to lose my virginity to a girl or a guy. In fact I've been feeling more into guys lately than girls, but there's no way I'm going to find a guy I like who's actually gay/bi himself so I might just stick to girls cause it's easier. I'm so fucking indecisive just writing this post made my head hurt. Any advice?
Colton Bennett
OP you're forgetting one thing, if it were that easy you would've done that yourself. How about you man the fuck up and accept the way things are.
Christian Gutierrez
I don't get how you are unable to decide what you naturally are attracted to. How can just "experimenting" with something you never fantasized about before can suddenly change your sexuality?
Anthony Robinson
I lost mine at 20. So I'm right after the cutoff.
Fuck.
Tyler Gutierrez
see the problem with me is that I'm ugly, (a 6/10 at best, probably more like a 4.5-5/10) not charismatic, unpopular and terrible at talking to girls and picking up on hints that girls drop, although the problem is that i assume they don't like me and so I think that they aren't hints
Ethan Brown
why do you like being mean?
Matthew Morales
I'm well past 20, I'm 29 and about to become a wizard next year (about 3 weeks from now). Why would I want to give up my wizard powers that I've waited so long for?
Luis Cruz
>I figured she was a virgin as well you were a fool
Meh, it's what you do with your life. I lost my virginity at 25, but I'm successful and fit, so I don't have trouble with ladies. Never had a go though, similar reasons to OP, so I guess he's right in that regard. My best friend slept with 25 girls before turning 22, but he peaked back in highschool. When we go out, I tend to do better with women because I'm usually more laid back and dont care about women. Honesty work on your guy's. Searching for validation through women won't get you anywhere.
Ayden Russell
But it's more easy to get laid now then ever. Social media and tinder makes it so even the bottom of the barrel men can get laid. Sure, you won't be fucking Stacy or Becky, but someone out there will fuck you. Just be straight up from the start.
Gavin Jackson
27 yo here, lost my virginity to a whore this year, it wasn't good at all.
OP is right, fuck a girl as soon as you can. If you don't, it will destroy you from the inside.
Lucas Anderson
>cute chinese girl Was pic intentionally unrelated or...
Daniel Jones
wizard here
women start declining in the looks department around 26/27. By 30, 95% of them look like dry leather gloves.
Asher Roberts
But consider this; a demented incel is giving you advice. Should you follow it?
