Is it bad that I kind of want my gf to break up with me...

i can't do that with a student visa. i can only do that if i had german citizenship. plus she never wants to leave brazil and abandon her family/friends/learn a new language and she thinks germany is full of rapist terrorist muslims

dude just leave her and brazil behind, you clearly want to more than to not. Sure, it'll sting at first but necessary change is always painful. It's either that and lay down the law and tell her you're deciding the future of your relationship and she either goes with you or it's over. Don't worry about finding a new gf, worry about a better tomorrow no matter what above all else. Fuck Brazil desu.

and she has no interest in going to university, she dropped out of high school and is happy working as a hair stylist for the rest of her life

go to germany. don't let a girlfriend who you'll probably break up with anyway keep you from a better life.
you won't have any trouble finding a new girl when you're there.

>Brazilian thinks germany is full of rapists

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even if she wanted to go to germany with me she couldn't because i wouldn't be able to sponsor her visa and she has no interest in going to university :/

show pic of gf so we can judge

i was a suicidal robot for 28 years and i met her last year and she turned my life around and encouraged me to get a job, work on my hygeine, go to the gym, she makes me so happy. i'm afraid if i leave to germany i will return back to that.

You are the most important person in your life. Do what you feel is right. You already know the answer for yourself.

Well then you know what must be done. Do not choose pussy over prosperity or else your ancestors will look down on you with disgust for the rest of your life. Don't let your lack of initiative haunt you until you die.

But so is your spouse and i really want to wife her. im afraid i will be depressed and lonely in germany without her. i was a virgin until 28 and she is the only person i had sex with. im chubby and balding i dont think german girls would like me and they are thots.

idk. have you talked to her about going to germany? would she be willing to do long distance?

I love being with her but i hate this shithole i cant choose

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Yes i did and she outright refused saying she will never leave. LDR wouldn't be feasible because i want to work in germany after uni and never return in shithole brazil ever again.

yeah i tried convincing her but brazillian media makes out germany to be like africa/arab rape zone/terrorist attack central. and she doesn't want to be apart from her family and best friends that she's known since kindergarten. she can't even speak english so she would never pick up German.

Leave Brazil.

No woman is worth missing an opportunity to leave Brazil.

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You're playing with a lot of variables in asking yourself questions like "will we have a hapy future together if I stay?" "will I ever find another woman in a different place?". The question "will I be able to buckle down and make a stable future for myself in a more prosperous country only has one real variable to it and that is your drive/ambition. Ask yourself which set of variables is more under your control.

Go to Germany. A wife is one thing. NEVER put your career on hold for a dopey girlfriend, if you go there, she is cheating within a couple of months

go to the weird saunas there

Yes, it is dead, because that's how much attention these threads are worth.
You will be a normalfag between gfs.

you're right anons fuck i love her so much

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im 5'3, chubby man boobs, balding very badly. i would not be a normalfag at all. my gf is my only friend.

Have you tried actually talking to her about this? Telling her how you're conflicted and sharing your emotions? You both clearly have different priorities in life with vastly different goals and aspirations. Discussing it could help you sort things out in your head and even if things end with you breaking up this might make things end on better terms than you just fucking off out of the blue.

It'll hurt my dude but the light at the end of the tunnel is always there to guide you to a better tomorrow under a new sun. You must always side with your inner self and make no exceptions if you expect to see that light.

The Only Reason i would stay in that situation is if you were 100% sure you could do some kind of comparable education thing in Brazil to there. You cant count on a gf dude, she could leave you next week cause she is bored

>im 5'3
That might change things.

>be honest with her
>tell her you want her but can't stand living in this shithole
>tell her you want her to come with you
>she decides
how hard is it really?

if you can't be honest with her with matters as important as that then your relationship is bound to fail anyway

he already said she doesn't ever want to leave her country

so?
if she doesn't want it, then she decided

she is putting you between a rock and a hard place, If I was in your place as much as I would have regretted not being with her, I would have regretted it even more if I didn't go after my dreams, if she loves you she will understand.

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Think about this. She really wants to stay and raise children in a shithole country. Does that sound like something you'd want for your children? Your parents probably didn't either and I'm sure you've struggled living there. Do yourself and future offspring a favor and just leave. If she's incapable and unmotivated to even go to university, then she's basically just wanting to leach off a successful man for the rest of her life. Don't be that dude. There are a lot more women out there dude, but you need to think about what's best for yourself.

Leave.
Das ist gut.

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Don't come here, retard.
There's a reason why every other person wants to emigrate. You won't be happy. Go somewhere else

The Germans are cucked, you'll find someone who wants to be multicultural and suck your dick for the rest of your days

Stay withher retard.

>Hans shills for European countries to take in refugees but doesn't one HUEs knocking on his door.
Eat shit faggot, how about you get a taste of your own medicine ?