I think my first girlfriend just broke up with me on christmas while my dad is dying

i think my first girlfriend just broke up with me on christmas while my dad is dying

she really really hates when i share any information about her with my parents but one day her dad was having a stroke so i was on the phone and told my mom "her dad is probably having a stroke" so now months later at our christmas get together my mom asks her "so how is your dad?" which made her realize i'd told my mom about her personal life

we got back in the car, drove back to my house, and she absolutely went off on me and threw down the chocolates i got her and stormed off to her car and left. i don't think she's coming back. think that was my only chance at happiness with a girl. feeling a weird feeling right now i've never felt of complete desperation and emptiness.

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why did she not want your parents to know anything about her

cry me a river norman

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA GG FAGGOT

then hit the gym and a sale at Dillards and stop putting your value in one woman. Keep going out and meet new people.

>Just obsess over your looks and do shit you dont enjoy in order to fuck sluts you dont like when all you want is one cutie gf
Trully the most sage of advices, Im glad you redittors are here

you're not alone brother. My 2 former gf left me both on christmas. This and last year. I know your feeling very well and the only thing which could improve anything at this point would be spending time with your family or friends. Seriously i wish you the very best user, may god guide your way through these dark times

That blows user. On the bright side, people who are good and meant to be together dont break up for dumb shit like that.

i don't know i think she just likes to be a really private person. i just wish she did it any other day, it's christmas and my dad's nocardia is spreading to his central nervous system so i need someone or something to keep me grounded.

She sounds amazingly cunty. Why would sharing information with your family about her be a problem? If anything that shows that you're commited, it's absolutely not something to take issue with.

isn't it treatable with sulfamethoxasole + trimetoprim though? How is he dying from it?

Why would she care that much?

She probably wanted to avoid talking about it, satan. Not that I want to relate to your roastie gf but I too often keep things about me a secret not because they're bad things but because I don't want to talk about it. It's probably a control thing, she wants to be in control of what people ask about and to do that she has to be the primary holder of information. You're a leak in her power grid.
Not everyone cares to talk nonstop and limiting subjects is an effective way to not have much conversation without coming off as a jerk.

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>It's probably a control thing, she wants to be in control of what people ask about and to do that she has to be the primary holder of information.
Yes this, she is a narcissistic cunt and you are better off without her. I know you won't believe me now, but in later years you will look back and see what a truly terrible immature bag of shit she is.

For future reference OP, you need to be a god damned MAN with your retard women because women like this are mentally retarded like spoiled children and only know how to act out like mentally retarded spoiled children. Trying to reason with them gives them power they do not deserve and have no conscious mind to wield appropriately. Tell that bitch to shut the fuck up and get the fuck out of your life if she's going to be a retarded cunt, and you absolutely have to mean it too.

This is why men beat their women in the past. Women are retarded, narcissistic cunts.

ok lol. you dodged a bullet. who wants to be with a girl like that seriously jesus dude

her pussy's acidic and you want that???

Fuck with thotties, get gotee'd

My wife died of a heroin overdose, if I told anyone and they told anyone else, they would totally lose my trust. Its not just painful to think about, its almost embarrassing, like talking about it is disrespecting her.

Everybody has a falling out with their first love, but in the way you did, that weird feeling will never go away.

>my dad is dying
>hurr durr muh grill friend lefted meeeee!!!!!! I sniched that she had a dad, I'm not good enough. Sepeku it is for me...

I think you got your priorities all wrong, kiddo.

Sounds like she wasn't that serious.

Look on the bright side. More chocolate for you!

You need to be honest with her and tell her to cut the shit and act like a normal human being. You should be able to talk about her in general to your family. She is supposed to be a part of your extended family now.

Don't put her on some pedestal of "oh boo hoo it's the only girl I'll ever get" because that shit is just not true. You could have someone else tomorrow. If you really love this girl, tell her how she is being irrational and her behavior hurt her and that its unacceptable. If the relationship is to succeed this needs to be resolved. And trust me user, I'm not one of these woman hating memers, but I know she is wrong on this situation. Good luck.

Shit, meant hurt you*

Dude who gives a shit about some hole, you should be thinking about your dad

This, tell her to fuck off and worry about your dad instead

Cute, now let me tell you how the real world works. No cute girl will respect you unless you work on your sexual market value, which unless you're chad thudnercock with a perfect jawline, 6'2'' height and an 8 inch dick, you will need to work on your social status big time to even have the most basic amount of genuine female respect

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So to explain just in case you don't get it yet. If a woman sees you have lost of options, have fucked a lot of girls (sexually she will creep social media to determine this or hear rumours of your conquest), and have a nice body she will respect you

It's a control thing, you were the beta, she doesn't and didn't respect you.

>6'6
>ripped
>strong prominent jawline
>9 inch dick

ama

Son, she's a cunt and your life will be better moving on. Don't make a cunt your life partner

This situation is a little bit different really. It's not a sort of taboo thing like a drug overdose.

The key thing is double standards, like if she is really big about respecting people's privacy then maybe it is more understandable although still an over reaction. In my experience that isn't likely the case though, I'd say she feels free to say anything and everything about OP's family and has some kind of shitty justification for why it is different.

sure she's mad at you now but she probably won't be later. the common early mistake to make in relationships is to take all this shit super serious when she's probably going to back off of it later.

>think that was my only chance at happiness with a girl
If she's not completely mental she will come back but if you're still holding her on a pedestal then you're gonna keep atracting freaks like that.
Shit like giving you ultimatums or forbiding you from doing something that would otherwise be normal for any other person is an indicator that a worse version of that is brewing in their heads and will eventually come out (e.g. "don't hang out with certain people" "don't do this habit of yours" "stop spending money on this or that"). This is the kind of person that would make your life a living hell if you got married with them.