Should I really feel sad for being a 24 year old virgin who has never even had a gf?

Pain is when you've been raised in a violent home, never experienced love from your own family and in turn developed "trauma". Then you're a virgin at 23 who hasn't had a friend for over 10 years (literally no friends, no exaggeration).
When you go out you see beautiful, sweet blonde women that are wasting their innocence on "Chads" but you will never get to experience this feeling of love with them that they give away to random men they've never met before.
When you go home you hear your neighbor having hardcore sex.
Adding to all of this, you suffer from physical and mental illnesses.

That's my shitty life.

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Fuck, that bitches eyes is gorgeous.

Ha ha nigger ha ha

Gonna have to get used to it.

Call me a faggot but here is my take

You get depressed because you know you aren't doing the things you ought to do to get and sustain a relationship with a girl you desire. Especially with a girl who is sought after by other men. That feeling comes from (mostly) self judged inadequancy and guilt. You feel girls you desire will mentally compare you to other men that also find her attractive and desire her. That you will be found only wanting but never receiving. You are rejecting yourself before any girl has.

You know you aren't keeping your body healthy. You aren't keeping your mind exercised with personal study. You aren't improving your social skills by being with other people, learning skilsl and traits. You have so much to improve, you don't know how or where to start and most of the time you feel like you don't give a shit about yourself so you don't work to improve. You don't love yourself and so you wonder how another person could. You know if you somehow got a gf and you don't stop thinking this way that you'll sabotage your relationshop with that girl even if she loved you entierly. That's how deep in this hole you are

TL;DR
>you get depressed because you don't love yourself enough to accept love from someone else

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I'm turning 25 next month, welcome to the party. I haven't thrown in the towel yet on getting laid. I've never been on any dates or had any females my age involved in my life outside of my own family.

Relationships and sex is a totally foreign concept to me. It doesn't exist in my life outside the occasional porn video of two people fucking. I don't even know what it'd be like to be in a physical and intimate relationship with someone else, I just can't fathom it.

Jesus, I don't need this right now

After I was finished with HS I haven't had any real female contact outside of my family
it's strange

The guy I loved died 5 years ago. I haven't been able to talk to another guy since.
I'm 25, still virgin. Never had a boyfriend.

there is a board for people like you
get the fuck out degenerate faggot

Dont feel sad, just aim lower. If you're a 6 go after a 5 with a nice ass, tits, brain (or whatever you are into)

this
faggots have their own board, stop polluting ours

It's not being single that bothers me. It's the little jabs normies make every day. I'm a friendly person for the most part and well liked by the people I know but there's always gotta be a jab about not getting laid.

>I haven't lost hope tho
you probably should tho

>well liked by the people I know but
No "but"s.

I have figured out this exact thing recently and I have improved my life consistently since then.
Its not just for the girls, its your own life that becomes better and you get much more self fulfillment.
Being a better person makes you happier and more serene in first place.

calm down faggito, I didnt have sex till 29 and I didnt have a relationship till 30

You sound like a bit of a low IQ retard talking about blondes and "chads", but I empathise with you for being the exact same age as me with the same length of time without friends.

The experience of hearing people having sex is thankfully absent from my life right now, and I feel for you having to listen to it. If it is anything like a peer of yours at college I don't think I would be able to bear it.

>It has come to the point that just seeing girls I find attractive makes me depressed
haha same

Bet!

Just use prostitutes, user.
Most relationships are no fun anyway. A lot if them are sexless.

Just fuck it.
There's nothing more freeing than giving up hope.

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Being a virgin before marriage is perfectly natural. Being an unmarried man in your mid to late 20s is fine, just evaluate your shortcomings and work to improve. It isn't even close to being too late, it's only over when you give up.

If you have found comfort giving up hope, it means you have the type of personality that could weather a lot of challenges if you just put yourself out there more.

Your tldr doesn't match the tl part.

No, it's over when you have lost too many opportunities for natural development and developed a personality wired in defeat and depression.

Is this bait? If not, lurk moar

There is no such thing as being wired in "muh sads". You are a loser by your own making.

You aren't truly a robot if you can't wait. I can accept working on myself first then finding a nice girl later. I don't know why most people here can't. Makes me realize this place is populated more with cyborgs than robots.

I am certainly not here by my own making, nor is anyone else with a proper mental illness that started them on this road.
But I'm forgetting that this is nu-r9k, and most of the teenagers here are just wallowing in a bit of anxiety and depression - spawning the reddit pep talks like yours with all their fake bootstraps boomer rhetoric.

You have until 25. There was a study that said if you made it to 25 and still a virgin, you will most likely die a virgin.

The longer I go between going outside the more beautiful people I notice
They're everywhere but not for me

Being lonely isn't a state of being, it's a permanent trait and there is no cure. Even people I was friends with naturally drift away from me at astonishing speed.
I'm shocked how many friends people have and how it's totally natural to them
I can even be charismatic, I'm not ugly, I like to conversate

What the fuck is it about me
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I dont want love, I want power

I was a virgin until 21. If I made it until 24 I would get a prostitute. Maybe you should too, user? It'll probably help you get over some of your anxiety and clear your mind into building a healthier future.

Tbh the state I'm in. It's sad but seeing a qt3.14 and makes me depressed.

>Even people I was friends with naturally drift away from me at astonishing speed.
I don't imagine that's the case. You might need to offer more in a relationship. Don't take anyone for granted.

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Imagine marrying a qt3.14 and impregnating her. Can only dream about such a scenario lolz

Amazing user, you showed that filth his right place to be.

fuuck... I didnt need this today

Same here. Seems thats pretty common to me, its just the knowledge of what will never be

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>ash everywhere
>virtually no place to comfortably use the keyboard/mouse
>no clearing under the desk
>all piss bottles are without a cap(just buy an ashtray, dumbass)
This is just uncomfortable and dangerous. At least be an efficient slob.

I thought my shit sucked. Where'd you find that picture? That's not yours is it?

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>I thought my shit sucked
>that pic
>"That's not yours is it?"
Can you leave this board?

More like I already got my shit in order with a nice car and job and a place of my own but the consistent rejection of asking countless women out is taking it's toll so much so that i've started aiming just for 3/10's and 2/10's

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>using tv for browsing
>tv set too bright
>red windows bar
You really need to get your life in order

27 here, live alone dont care. i just wagecuck and do fuck all til something catches my momentary interest

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also >not setting taskbar to small icons

>Vanilla coke
>Coffee mug with "sassy" saying on it
>Cigarettes

Neck yourself

Should've lurked more I guess

What should I do?
Will you save me?

This is reddit9k, where failed normalfags cry about their "mental illness" like women.

are you literally me? I'm 3 months shy of being 25 years old and could have wrote your entire post.

Vanilla Coke is top tier user, don't beat yourself up. You did good user.

>It has come to the point that just seeing girls I find attractive makes me depressed
This hit close to home

so what freud? i already knew that

>>you get depressed because you don't love yourself enough to accept love from someone else
Lol fuck off, I'm a great guy and I'd love a female version of myself who was like barely 10% this great.

Don't worry buddies! we're gonna get that powsi

i'm also a 24 year old virgin. its not as bad as you think desu but you need to set goals for yourself and works towards improving your interactions with women.

>reddit
you need to stay there

>It has come to the point that just seeing girls I find attractive makes me depressed
also seeing them with the guy that she said yes to
also thinking you're on a cuckold porn set version of the Truman Show

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I get angry. Not only because of their shallow lifestyle but because of the disdain I can feel from them towards anyone that's not a top tier chad. Makes me want to bash their faces in. Hehe. :^)

thinking about Allison Brie putting on an ugly disguise for me and a sexy one for the other guy. Did she dress up as Emily too?

elliot rodgers

orignla oringla oringal

Oh goddamnit stop reminding me

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