I believe there is a causation relationship between masturbating/watching porn and inceldom. Young men turn to masturbation and porn as a way to cope with their low sexual marketplace value and —as a result of that— become even more undesirable in the eyes of women (for reasons that will be explained further down), thus creating a cycle of misery that will continue until they degenerate completely. Jerking off constantly has actual bad phisyological and psycological effects in the long run; your body becomes less capable of utilizing its dopamine and testosterone —which results in you becoming effeminate and unmotivated— and puts you on a slippery slope to more and more nasty pornography (traps, shemales, hentai, gay, sissy, interracial, cuckold, etc) which will create myriad of associated mental problems (anxiety, social awkwardness, being a pushover, etc).
Pornography is a cancer. Masturbation is slow self-castration.
>tfw I spent an hour deleting literally 1100+ photos, screenshots and videos from my phone Porn was a mistake. Didn’t even realized I was hoarding this much.
Good on you. You've taken a huge step in the right direction. I did the same thing at the beginning of the year. It's helpful to actually see the "dirty laundry" all in one pile. I've been strict no-porn since then and have slipped up on no-fap five times. Currently on my longest stretch of no-fap. Feels good. Good luck, user. I know you can do this. It's worth it.
>day 9 >energy improved >got a new job >got mirr'd yesterday Yeah, I'm thinkin I'm back.
Dylan Phillips
keep pushing fren, don't hate yourself because you failed, hate yourself because you are weak.
Jason Rivera
who else got fucked over by their dreams here??
Brody Young
I was having a blast. Finally I had reached the 70 days mark and then that night I had a wet dream. When I woke up I felt something I was starting to forget...the feeling of empty balls. I know this sounds stupid but after years of daily fapping my brain associates the empty ball with the fact that I will cum again the next day as always. I never had such strong urges, I caved in after 4 days. Now I can't get myself to start another long streak and I'm more depressed than ever. I need help
Brayden Butler
It isn't no-cum, it's no-fap. As long as you didn't intentionally jack-it, you're fine.
Nolan Wilson
wet dreams are the best side-effect of nofap
Jackson Diaz
That is a natural process, fapping to pron is not.
Leo Gonzalez
>nobody actually adressed my point in the OP Next time i'll just write "nofap general".
Jose White
you didn't really ask a question and yeah, most of us agree with OP
Levi Taylor
Everyone already just accepts it as basic truth at this point imo.
Leo Wilson
>much more than that backed up to Google Photos from 5 years of it automatically saving everything I download >instead of deleting them from my phone i move them over to my computer wont break free...
Colton Jones
Thank you, user. I hope to actually go through with noporn and nofap for a long time. Mostly from instagramthots. Shit was like an addiction. It’s not too late to delete them, lad.
Michael Bailey
i'm a pilot so i get free flight benefits. Thinking of going to thailand and paying for a 3some. Is this a bad idea?
Total cost would be like 300$ with airfare, whores, and hotel
Dylan Bennett
>80 days
I'm still the same. The discipline, motivation, gains, social life is all the same.
Everything is always in your head.
Anthony Anderson
Relapsed after 9 day streak... First 4 days was easy af, last 2 is a hell, I lost control of myself. Feeling so fucking bad and weak. Started today a new journey. Aiming for month at least, hope to stop this shit forever
bros... every time i start nofap i do it as a test of fortitude, but then around day 5 or so every time i just think oh whats the big deal? so i jerk it, then feel suicidal afterwards. It keeps making excuses for me to jerk off. How can I remember what I'm doing it for when the urges come? My record was 30 days back in January 2018
Christopher Taylor
Day 3 hanging in there. Its not easy
Oliver Smith
same ere
Ethan Hughes
Same with me Any tips for that first week, because it's always the hardest for me I try to keep busy and all but my brain keeps playing games with me I guess it's just a will building exercise and I'm lacking in moral fiber
Christopher Gutierrez
There are thoughts after a week~ like what is the point of that, what jerking off once can even do for me. Nah, this is such a big trap that should be avoided
Elijah Howard
I am a Non-fapper. I use too, it took three years, 14-17 years of age, 27 now, before I was able to finally stop, and not really even be tempted with it. I remember the last time being tempted and deciding not to, and I knew taht that was the last time I would be tempted so hard. Don’t give up, just keep trying.
I will admit however, I am good looking, so I have not needed to deal with a urge to fap in loneliness in my abstinence. Not to be arrogant, but as a bit of a disclaimer, some not as fortunate may feel the suffering to not do so may nkt outweigh the goal.
Carson Barnes
day 14. 2 weeks. i previously hit 16 days and 28 days this year. Masturbated maybe 5 or 6 times so far in 2019, which I consider a great achievement. when I started this stint I noticed that it was easier than the beginning of my first few stints. Porn is almost entirely out of my life and I'm fantasising about fucking prostitutes now. Not a great fantasy but I consider it a step up from just jerking off to porn. i won't fuck a whore though.
So uhh... just failed after 3 days, been struggling to keep it more than a week for the last year. But these three days is the longest I got in a while. Huge increase in erection quality.... had to measure. I think I was close to 100% hardness if not 100%, I’m over 7 inches. Prior I was lucky to hit 5.5-6 and always thought that was my size. And that’s non bonepressed bullshit.
If this alone isn’t reason enough to do nofap idk what is. I’m slanging fat Italian sausage though, now I just gotta stick with it and lose the social awkwardness
so iam at like day 7 or 8 or 9 and my libido has gone to shit doesnt even want to look at girls asses in the uni anymore any exp?
John Sanchez
nigga you fell for the meme and now you have the gay LMAO
Carter Adams
I was on a 60 day streak last year and broke it in a moment of weakness. I havent racked up more than three days since
Adrian Perez
>Day 25 of nofap, probably 2 months of no porn >qt blonde girl with D cups and child birthing hips that I've been hanging out with sends me nudes >Barely a tingle How long do I have to do this shit to fix my broken porn dick
Oh, hi Horus! Who here going /monkmode/ for lent? I plan to do a dopamine fast for the last week. No food, no fap, no stimulus of any kind. Just study, lift and sleep.
How does ejaculating after 90 days feel like? Currently on day 83. Desire for porn and fapping is non existent (except when I see pretty girl).
Caleb King
Man this Lent is beating the shit out of me. I was quitting smoking, drinking, sweets and fapping. I was getting nightmares every night, so I rolled a die to decide which I would start doing again. It came up smoking.
>keep on relapsing at 7 days after visiting Jow Forums >decide to stop distractions on the internet get a blocker etc... >open Jow Forums in an incognito tab
Its the same thing but now theres no 4chanx
Wyatt Nguyen
once you start getting physical it starts working again dont worry
Benjamin Sanchez
just stop jacking off completely, idiot
Joseph Morales
I almost failed because of that last night. I had a dream I was gonna fap then woke up and was about to. I caught myself in time
Landon Ortiz
I m happy when I make it to 3 days. You guys make me feel bad.
I relapsed this very morning and on the Saturday before that. Total count for March must be 5-7 times, I feel like I'm on sick streaks and then I relapse and the immediate days after I just go at it because I figure I might as well indulge myself after I fucked it up. It's porn that's draining my willpower, I think I'm gonna give that EasyPeasy thing a go.
Camden Nguyen
I failed my no fap last night after 7 days and I just felt miserable today
Easton Hill
Been on nofap for a few days,I try not to count it.I always fail when I count the days and always end up focusing too much on nofap
Samuel Ramirez
Had a 25 day streak last week. But I fucked it up. I was sitting there, on 60mg of Addy, hungover as shit, and still high all in front of my computer. What could possibly go wrong? Everything, apparently. It was a moment of weakness. But I didn't even think about it. It wasn't like "gee guess I'll fap now I guess" I just went to /gif/ and took my wang out and that was the end of it. There was no thought involved at all and I didn't stop myself. Jacked off 3 times in a row without leaving my chair. After that, I immediately felt drained. And I wanted to play video games, I remember that. I felt worse than I did with the 25 day streak so I had a nap and a shower and got back on it. So now it's day 3.
This shit is not a meme. I may still be autistic but by God if Nofap doesn't help even a little bit.
>100mg Zoloft a day Nofap is a joke for me, but it sucks barely having any sex drive whatsoever
Asher Wright
Good news brothers! >be at uni >got dumped a while back >kinda depresses during long winter >cant hold streak more than 3 days >wack off with porn for the first time in weeks >start journal on my laptop, daily entries >dedicated to going 7 weeks and not being porn addicted loser >start practicing spanish again >days later, talking to 8.5/10qt3.14 >legs say she clearly lifts >we start lifting together >best workout in months, just for having a good gym bro >comes to eat after, we get along really well >I'm either getting a gym bro or a wheyfu >would take either >7 days clean now >we're all gonna make it
Josiah Cook
>lasted 4 days >break twice in one day Gotta stop going in black girl threads
i decided to do it for lent but was only able to do it for the first 6 days im not sure i can do this
Bentley Scott
10 minutes of patience or a day of guilt and self-loathing? make a decision next time
Jordan Gonzalez
What's the opposite of success? If you said failure you are wrong. The opposite of success is giving up. Now you know exactly what to do in order to avoid relapsing again. Keep fighting the good fight brother.
Parker Sanders
Bump.
Jackson Gonzalez
Help brothers, I have been on No porn for over a month now and i realized my erections dont stay as solid as they used to when im with my qt gf. Is this a consequence of no porn? How long till my brain is rewired?
Carter Diaz
yes. as long as it takes
Ayden James
What's a really good way to catch yourself in the moment? I fucked up my brain during my teenage years jacking off 2-3 times a day and find myself automatically typing in porn links for no reason. Im trying to get to a 7 day streak, but I dont see a way except literally putting my fingers in string.
Juan Walker
Remember, if you let yourself get horny then it is almost guaranteed that you will masturbate. Banish all forms of horny-ness from your mind and don't even let the smallest thought of masturbation have free rent in your head. Pic unrelated
Decided to give up fapping for Lent, in addition to starting healthier dietary habits and daily exercise. I'm on day 18 and I think I hit a flatline. I feel disconnected from my emotions and I've been noticeably less affectionate with my partner the past couple days. We're in a long-distance relationship so getting physical isn't an option. What should I do so I don't negatively impact my relationship during nofap?
Ryan Watson
Same here. Drink all the time. Fap all the time. Not that easy. Social situations are my weakness. I have so much fucking anxiety it makes me want to leave my house when I have guests, so I drink.
Hunter Edwards
>nofap day 11 I tried to watch ebony porn and didn't feel anything (what worries me because I have jungle fever) I'm still waiting for that energy kick I'm being memed into ruining my sex drive, am I?..
went two weeks in february relapsed a week ago and have done it every day since. the shitty thing is im always beating myself immediately afterwards, because i hate doing it
This. It's easy to quit porn once you adopt the right mindset. Stop torturing yourselves for Christ sake.
Jaxson Adams
I'm on day 5 but only because my libido and mood have gone to hell. I feel no positive effects.
Connor Allen
based, i don't live in the usa either and I'm really sexually attracted to ebony porn since in my country is so strange to see a black person (at least some years ago)
David Kelly
Trips of truth.
Brody Stewart
I actually had a mulatta gf but not even near what you can see in porn, she was cute because she was 18 but then I saw her years later and she got chubby (in a bad way) there are no blacks here, thought this country is being overrun by ugly aboriginals with less iq than rock (guess the country)
>Everyone faps and watches porn including people in happy relationships. Virgin spotted.
Blake Gomez
Lasted one day. I might just be addicted to porn at this point. I constantly think about it. Any pointers on how to stop. I wanna be able to just go a week without jacking it
Ayden Kelly
By posting her nudes
Dylan Peterson
I'm 3 weeks in, everything is fine
Aiden Mitchell
Just started over gents, currently on a less than five minute streak. Best streak so far is 13 days.
Ryder Young
I don't even jerk to porn anymore. All I jerk to is the thought of impregnating my coworker.
