What are the more "obscure" reasons to why youre a virgin? Things besides autism/face/height ect

Crippling mental illness and fairly sure my libido has been killed my SSRIs

>have rejected every non-virgin woman that's approached me and been rejected by every virgin woman I've approached.

It's a shame but I have not lost hope yet.

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I'm a NEET who can't drive or has no money and those two things are absolutely necessary to interact with women unless you're incredibly lucky.

I'm a virgin by choice entirely;
I've had opportunities, some of the girls have been genuinely attractive, but I turned them all down for more than one reason. Primarily because I have been deeply in love with a girl for 4 years, who knows how I feel about her and couldn't care less about me, and I can't stop loving her. Also because I'm just very picky, and settling for girls less appealing that the one I'm in love with would be admitting defeat, as well as being a substantial blow to my stupid fucking ego.

tight black jeans and some belly rlly doin it for me

Self-loathing which leads me to rather be with people who mock me.

>can't fuck unless in love

My circumcision removed all the loose skin in my penis. The scar is about an inch from the base and it's so tight I can't maintain an erection.

My dad was a pilot in the Air Force and I moved a ton growing up as a kid. I lived in 8 different states before I even graduated high school. I'm convinced that I would have turned out normal if i was given a typical childhood. When I was small I was actually quite sociable and made friends easily. Around 5th grade we moved and left a lot of really good friends I had. I was gutted and just stopped trying to socialize after that because I knew I would inevitably be moving again soon anyway. I didn;t have a friend all throughout middle school or highschool and basically lived in vanilla/tbc wow and cs 1.6. It really fucked me up as even today as a 29 year old I have never lived in one place for more than a couple years and I never put the effort into maintaining the few connections that i do manage to establish.

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Long eyelashes are an attractive trait though.

my awful incurable acne is the literal only reason why

Hey me too. But im akso really boring I guess.

>talk monotone but also don't know how to control the volume of it
Makes a lot of people uncomfortable.

What kind of music, user?
origami

this

t. 18 poster who lost virginity a week ago

I was an 18 year old robot poster in 2008.

I am now a 28 year old virgin.

Same here, but that's why I said "most".

>moved four different towns growing up (not as much as some people but I never kept any friends between moves)
>skipped a year so I was younger than everyone else
>was never invited anywhere
>the one time I was it was as a joke
>probably became socially awkward and unaware as a result
>uni I went to has significantly more men than women, my course even more so
>didn't have many friendships and so didn't meet many girls in other friend circles
>have no friends currently but a few long term acquaintances (probably relatable to a lot of people here)
>Only just graduated so only been at my current job for a few years so no proper friendships there yet
>Everyone at work is significantly older (by 5 or more years) and are in either long term relationships or married with kids
>only hobby where I interact with other people is going to music concerts
>few friends I do have are not interested in the same music as me so can't persuade them to go
>all the concerts I go to are complete sausage fests

That probably covers everything. I'm pretty content with everything else in my life. Just relationships and friendships.

>High standard for today's women. No interest if they don't meet the requirements.
>I only get turned on if pregnancy is involved but kids mean to much responsibility, time and money
>Anger issues. I also tend to act on a whim and regret it later

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I really don't have much to say, so I'm pretty boring to be around.
I rember.

Haha ur so incredibly gay

God I wish this was true. Currently 20 with nothing hope of things changing. Might as well rope right now.

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>don't take care how I look always with videogames or films tshirts
>when I get used to a female human I reveal my true identity and I become the most sarcastic and disrespectful piece of shit ever created
> have never tried to get a gf because I have never feel "love" and I don't want to spend so much time with whore that I don't want to stay near me only to fuck her

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I live with my grandma and I have no other family.

I live in the woods so most of my friends are squirrels and spiders

>I have had problems socializing since elementary.
>Tried to make friends, but always failed becuase either we didn't have enough in common, or they moved and never seen them again, or they backstabbed me.
>Middle and High School were peaceful but dull days. I thought it was OK the way I was despite the failures in making friends. I was about to make my move on a girl in my class, but she said that she was dating a dude older than her, that was insecure about herself, blah, blah. Preemptively friendzoned me.
>Shyness that devolved into social anxiety and trust issues due to prolongued isolation after high school. Failing at college and family issues only made me withdraw more from society.
>I tried to make a move on a girl a couple of years ago, but she rejected me with the pretty lame excuse that she was grounded, that her parents didn't allow her to go to parties and to date a dude. I'm 30yo right now, and she was/is my age. So, big bullshit.
>Never seen her again, but I know that she turned out to be a SJW or some sort of feminazi. I think I dodged a bullet there, but never tried dating again.
>I made some friends 6-7 years ago, but they are a bunch of manchildren neckbeards that don't go to parties or nightclubs for various reasons. They are OK dudes for the most part, but the leader of the pack, and the person that introduced me to his friends, turned out to be an competitive asshole that cannot be trusted, but I digress.
>I'm just tired.

I am indian. That should do it

Shit, you're 20. You're a literal kid.
I know really hot girls who were virgins till 21-22.

only the 144000 virgins will be saved at judgement day

wide hips, big butt. makes it very hard to dress and look nice, so I always look like a high school kid hiding guns in his cloths when I go out.

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My face makes me look like I'm 14 despite being 24 so any girl in my age range just thinks of me as a little kid. My voice is also really nasally and immature sounding to boot. Oh and my smile is crooked and I have a lot of weird mannerisms like looking to the left and exhaling awkwardly right before I laugh.

Who is this? I saved this pic last time it was posted.

I do everything alone and have gotten used to it.
I don't know what to say to people, so I often don't talk at all.

Oh, and I forgot to mention.
>While I don't despise being male, I just don't feel that I'm manly enough, or Chaddy enough in other words. I'm just shorty, skinny, weak, my hair is thinning a bit.
>To prove my point: one of the manchildren friends that I have, is quite tall (above 6ft), long haired, not athletic but not fat either, otherwise is kinda ugly and dumb. Still, he got it easy with women, that's until they find that is a manchildren.

I once had a nervous looking girl come up to me and say "you have vey nice eyelashes".
I didnt know what to say so I just said "thanks I guess" then she walked away.
That's the only time i've been complimented.

I don't have good chemistry with most women and the ones I do have good chemistry with don't want to fuck me

big fag

Pretty much the same case for me. Nowadays anyway. In the past I ignored anyone who showed an interest me because of low self esteem.

There are 1.339 billion Indians.

All of them came from at least one Indian having sex.

Get a better excuse.

Simple, I do not like women at all.

If you had hundreds of opportunities a day to have sex with really hot people you probably would too.

not a virgin but haven't had a real relationship before and pretty sure it's because I can be a bit of a boring cunt sometimes

Went to an all boys high school and then at university I majored in a subject with almost no girls. Ended up graduating a virgin.

Also I'm only about 6/10 and not really very extroverted personality wise. I've had 2 girls express some interest over the years but given my inexperience, I only realized they were interested in me in retrospect.

too many shitty experiences in relationships, i always attract people with issues and daddy issues
it really drains you when you don't feel good as a person while a person just throws their life at you to caress
i'm 18 and ive gone as far as getting a blowjob so i think ill be fine, i don't wanna rush shit

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please tell me that's a guy

Why are you still here? Why have you not migrated to another imageboard that isn't a shithole like this one?

8ch is buggy rn

>Shitty voice I can't help, people think I sound like a fag
>Absolutely no self-confidence has led me to not even try
>Antisocial, seldom invited to anything, only small group of friends
>Awkward, have no idea what to say/talk about with a random roastie
>Turned down two different girls in high school (one was a crazy bitch, the other I got nervous about on the spot and turned down), very regrettable

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long eyelashes is a good thing, sorry you're a facelet

The thought of putting my penis in a vagina is scary.

this, long eyelashes are a sign of high T

>Turned down two different girls in high school (one was a crazy bitch, the other I got nervous about on the spot and turned down), very regrettable

same thing happened to me, but the second girl told me she was lesbian over and over again for no reason, then when she did want to fugg i turned her down because i felt like she was just experimenting

I was born like 9 years younger than my two sisters (was an accident) and plus I was youngest among one side of my extended family

Just moved in to a new apartment with my parents helping me and I couldn't help realizing that I am unable to handle most things I need to do to just live

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>Imature voice
>Skiny af
>White af
>Have been told im imature where it comes to a relationship even tho idk wtf im doing is imature and what do I have to do to change
>Fall in love easiely
>Love quirky shit
>Femenine hands
>Low self steam.
>Masochist

this, not everyone has sex in high school believe it or not, when you have been in uni/college for 2 years and are still sexless that's when you should start to worry because EVERYONE has sex there

>super random and awkward
>hang out with the kids at my hs with IEPs and shit like that (not really retarded, but like, mildly autistic, that sorta stuff)
>emo as shit
>long, dark, kinda messy hair in ponytail that fucks with my hair sometimes, i usually take it off before the end of the day
>not autistic, but like i said, super awkward and antisocial

fuck, AM i autistic?

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>long eyelashes

Wait since when is this bad?

>>need partner to be cutesy/flirty AND an intelligent critical thinker
u will die a virgin because this woman does not exist....feelsbadman

i haven't met a single other person who abstains from sex/relationships due to erotophobia.

>fucked up circumcision
>submissive
>baby face with puffy cheeks
But I'm 6'2" that's where this fails.

Need gf to actually be an interesting person and not just stacey #2353

I might as well just give you a life story. It's a mess but whatever

>Raised in a somewhat affluent black household where my parents spoiled me and taught politeness and obedience over assertiveness and independence from day one
>Coddled and treated t o o nicely as a kid, even among the hood rats in the extended family
>All the while not feeling like part of the family itself, just a strange being that people are stuck with
>Come to school, act like an autist to be funny, worked for a while but became "that kid" in the process
>Became disconnected with old friends as their interests drifted from cartoons and games to sports and normie things
>Became deeply invested in interests, turning off most other friends I had
>Tried to reinvent myself in middle school, didn't work
>Bought trendy stuff, but didn't wear/do it correctly or my parents said no to it
>Developed a deep-ish, clear announceresque as others have told me voice that irks nigresses because it's not hood enough and irks wh*te women because it's got a nerd twang to it
>Didn't develop a filter 'til late high school, so the spaghetti would always be seconds away from cascading down my pant legs from my pockets
>Self-confidence was essentially sucked out of me in 5th grade
>Didn't join any of the cliques or extracurriculars my friends were in
>Convinced myself I was either autistic or mentally retarded
>Convinced myself I was worthless
>Constantly told by girls and "friends" in school that I was ass-ugly
>Go all out with the"odd fellow" stereotype, don't give a fuck anymore
>Father dies, eventually just withdraw from school social life during "my prime"
>I swat people away sometimes literally when they try to reach out to me or my one other irl friend
>Become something of a pariah at my school, going from a screaming, vocal autist to a mumbling freak who's barely seen outside of school
>Waiting for college in a month to start anew again

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not even caring enough whether or not ill meet a girl or even fuck one i honestly dont care anymore

enlisted in the military recently and its only for one reason - die honorably and if i somehow manage to live well then i get the awesome benefits sponsored by the united states government

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talk to autistic girls lad

i guess since theyre so much alike you then you wont have much difficulty communicating

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Never will I ever in my life. I tried that right after my dad died. One in particular was fucking unhinged and regularly rejected me and "changed her sexuality" on a near daily basis.

you are who you associate with!

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Checked originally of course.
I'm so close to wizardom that I can almost feel the powers

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I just don't have crushes on people so there are no opportunities to get a girlfriend

cozy pic, what is it?

ogramsmamlam

What, wide hips as a male?

if this is true that actually sounds pretty cool

>Shitty voice I can't help, people think I sound like a fag
Are you that guy who always makes the vocaroo threads?

>freckles cover me head to toe
>constant smell of bad body odour no matter what i do
>incredibly shy, cant talk to women
>0 friends and never leave the house
>after i turned 18 i stopped being able to learn new things
>i have no patience for social small talk and norrmal warming up to people
>even if i did manage to trick a girl into coming to my bedroom she would run away immediately, its messy and smells bad
>inability to adapt to new situations and / or changes
>have the autism voice
>most importantly i have never once tried

My mental health and personality is fucked
I'm not introverted and shy. I'm like a Downy Chad socially. I'm weird acting and it drives people away
I also contain 10 years of pent up infernal rage of the gods
Because you become very angry and horny at 8. As you do
That's more of a thing that only shows if you know me
I will just Bellow with rage at the table
"GOD FUCKING CUNT GOD FUCINH DAMNIT ITS FUCKING WINTER AND ITS 80 DEGREES OUT. FFFUUUUUCCCKKKK

Follow up
I will throw shit at lunch because our school has an outside area surrounded by bricks

Does anyone feel uncomfortable being touched? Just shaking hands with someone makes me squeamish because I can feel the little bumps on their skin. I hugged a girl once and it was even more uncomfortable. I think being naked with one would be even worse, and it would be hard to sleep afterward.

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I didn't know any other guys had this problem. In fact my ex fiance hated that my butt looked better than hers, even though she weighed way more than I do. It's funny because now I'm losing weight (I can feel my bones now) and I have a gap in my thighs, which explains why I can comfortably put my legs together like a woman. You should see the pjs I got for xmas man, they're super soft and make my legs look fucking sexy.

Holy shit man. Imagine browsing this depressing board for so long. It really must fuck you up psychologically.

>t. 21 yo who lost his virginity a month after his bday
0/10 will not sex again

>All of them came from at least one Indian having sex.
Yeah, with other indians.

Strict parents, social anxiety

>shizo that cant get hard
simple stuff

My culture has not degenerated to the level of the west where pre marital sex is the norm.

>outing yourself as a mudslime
good one ahmed

Story time. I can explain better like this.

2016
>Be me, 21 years old virgin.
>One day I came back home from a camping trip to find my mom worried.
>It was cousin's birthday, but nobody could get in touch with her. No phone, no texts, nothing.
>Cousin had been really, really fucking depressed lately. Thousands in debt, working a shit teaching job in a posh private school.
>We decide to go check on her in her house, fearing she might've done something fucky.
>Pick up my aunt (her mom) on the way.

>Arrive at house. The place felt wrong as fuck.
>Knock on door, but no reply.
>Fuck it. I walked around the back and broke in. I knew she always kept a side window open.
>The place was hot as fuck, and it smelled weird. Her dog was on the couch, barely moving, but brightened up when seeing me.
>I see a light coming from upstairs. It was the only light in the entire house.
>Walk up. See cousin's naked corpse in the bathroom, surrounded by strange pills, wine bottles and cigarettes.
>Holyshit.ptsd
>Check pulse just in case. Cold fucking stillness.
>What the fuck am I gonna tell my aunt?
>I'm fucking shaking.
>Walk downstairs and look for house keys. Open the door and let my mom and aunt in.
>Lead them to bathroom. Aunt screams and begins to cry. Mom does too.
>I call my dad and ask him to come, then call the cops.
>Neighbours begin to show up and ask what's going on. I'm the only one outside, and they swarm me.
>Shake even more.
>Dad shows up, but stays outside. He and mom divorced, and don't really get along, but we needed someone with a cool head.
>Cops show up and begin asking questions.
>Can't fucking take it anymore. After talking to the cops, I lock myself in dad's car and stay there.
>A month passes.
>Can't fucking sleep without getting nightmares.
>Can't fucking enter a bathroom without getting flashbacks.
>Can't see naked women without being reminded of cousin's corpse.
>Can't masturbate to regular porn because of it.
>Reduce myself to fapping to hentai and traps.

just become a trans girl user

Oh boy my thread:

My body starts shaking uncontrollably every time I get naked with a girl.
I make out with a girl, we get naked, then I start spasming like I'm getting a stroke.
Girl gets turned off, gets worried or starts laughing.
Then I apologize and then my dick just can't get hard anymore

I think it's like extreme anxiety or something.
The worst part is I don't feel anxious mentally, but I can't stop myself from shaking.
I don't know where this fear of sex is coming from. Maybe it's fear of intimacy/vulnerability. Idk

It fucking sucks because I don't try out of fear that this shit will happen again and then the girl will just drop me like the previous times.

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There is a reason that year after year the demographics of r9k stays the same. People in their early to mid 20s escape this hell and get laid. It's just instinctual.

The first and only time i ever fell in love with left me with so much damage, I'm legitimately scared of developing feelings for a female now, so i avoid any interaction with them.
It made me feel so helpless and out of control, being at the mercy of that woman, being so dependant. I know how pathetic that is but I just can't get over it.

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You sound like you have some kind of tic disorder.

>pjs from mom
>unicorns and Jean pattern
>ex was the man in the relationship
>literally more T than me
>be bi
Yep, you might be on to something, the makeup, the tight clothes, the leggings, the peggings. Guys, is it normal, prepubical, for a male to lactate? I had watery, sensitive hips for a year when I was 8-9, am I womyn??