Stop obsessing over sex. Your worth doesnt come from how many women you've slept with

It's not that your worth comes inherently from sex. It's that the traits and qualities that make sex happen are also the traits and qualities that help you with everything else of value in life.
People who have amazing lives except they don't have a sex life are the rarest species.

I am the only one of my friends to lose their virginity
I'm pretty sure I'm also the most miserable

Now I know my friends are rare as fuck, thanks user

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your circumstances are very unusual and suspicious. If your virgin friends are some people you've met online that you play games with, then you're probably not close enough to them to know how shitty and miserable they really feel

also there's a difference between "losing your virginity" and having a failed sex life. I had a stable relationship and regular sex once too, but it's been 3 years since.

Women don't like virgin men, losing it at 20 isnt even bad. I bet you feel better getting it over with and having that peace of mind

how the fuck do you know if they did or not.
I did it, the girl died a year later, I haven't
thought about it since

the one I had it with was excited and glad I lost it to her. She taught me everything.

Who is saying this? I want documentation.

This is me, minus the stable relationship and regular sex, 6 years here.

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I'm not obsessed, 2D is superior. However, dealing with 3D women is a pain because any shows of interest immediately correlate with assuming I'm trying to fuck them, so it's best to just refuse eyecontact and be straight with them. I tried to get to know two coworkers, one ended up trying to get with me til I ghosted, other assumes I'm desperately trying to get her to go to europe with me on a $3000+ trip, which is even ridiculous to consider. Women are filthy mongrels.

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I'm obsessed with mutual passionate sex as a means of expressing the shared love in a relationship.

Wanting to feel so close together you have to go deeper, physically.
Loving someone so much you want them to feel really good, and feel really good with them.
Sex without love is empty, hollow, meaningless.
The act will feel good but there is no substance, like the empty calories of junk food.

So yeah, I'm obsessed.
I'm obsessed because I'm hungry, and I'm craving a full course meal.

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>casual sex is meaningless
Same feels, but that's actually why I'm not obsessed with it.

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I have onaholes, I can experience pussy whenever I please, and I usually do.
It's just elevated masturbation though, I hardly feel different when the act is over versus the tried and true method.

Sometimes I do imagine selling my soul and being a fuckboi, but like I said that would be accepting myself as a hollow being who gave up craving anything more.
I just like to make people happy, and enjoy when people want me in their lives.
Sex, when fueled by love, to me is the purest expression of those emotions.

It sounds to me you've closed your heart to finding such love in the real world, and I won't even argue that you're wrong.
Personally I'm far too grand a dreamer to accept reality as it is, I still believe in the miracle.
2D is the superior, enlightened form of existence though

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>I do imagine selling my soul and being a fuckboi
I never intend on doing it either, but whenever I think about if I actually dedicated my focus to getting pussy and gave up my interests for following trends, pussy's likely pretty attainable. However, I happen to be more interested in other things. I actually never really displayed sexual interest ever in the past and my friends mocked me for it, plenty of people thinking I'm genuinely gay (even this week infact).
>Sex, when fueled by love, to me is the purest expression of those emotions.
I agree. That's why I wouldn't want to become a fuckboi like you said.
>It sounds to me you've closed your heart to finding such love in the real world
Not exactly. I've never really communicated with anyone on a genuine level so I just have extreme autism, yet I'm pretty socially aware, which happens to work against me since it's hard to practice when I can tell I'm annoying people. But I just happen to be more interested in making friends and connections that are grounded by more than some potentially temporary emotion that could end up leaving me worse off if it ends.
>I'm far too grand a dreamer
Here too, too caught up in expanding my worldview and battling autism.

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I'm a loner myself, I have one good online friend to talk to and that's all I need.
I do treasure connections with people, the most actually, but in a relationship it comes with the caveat that I want to fuck this person as well.
I guess I'm more concerned with being liked and being able to make someone happy though which leads to caring more about sex than you, despite us feeling the same on it.

>I've never really communicated with anyone on a genuine level
That's truly upsetting user, I wish you had someone who truly cared about you to confide in and really talk with.
I can only do that with my friend and my mom, naturally I'd like this to extend to my theoretical partner as well.

>But I just happen to be more interested in making friends and connections that are grounded by more than some potentially temporary emotion
It's not what the connection is grounded on, it's just an activity you do with a well grounded connection, the eventual destination as the culmination of the journey of a well-formed relationship.
Though your sexual attraction to your partner should hardly be temporary

It's late, I need to sleep.
I wish you the best, and that you may achieve happiness.
Also you convinced me to pick up Hotel Dusk again and finish it.

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I guess when I say temporary I'm thinking to specifically on a situation where I almost got together with a girl when I could tell there would be issues that'd arise that might damper things and cut it short. I don't mean that your natural attraction would lessen, but rather that rushing into a relationship could lead to realizing there's some incompatibility that cuts it short. I guess that's why I prefer trying to befriend girls while distancing sex, but I also understand that's a betamale thing to do and isn't attractive either, but I'd be fine with a female friend anyways.

Have a good sleep user, and Hotel Dusk is surprisingly really well-written. The characters are really memorable and the game gave me this vibe that I haven't gotten from another, like you visited somewhere and remember back on it. Also Kyle Hyde is /ourguy/. Have a good one user

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Sex and Girlfriend are two different things. I believe in marriage before sex so even if I would have a girlfriend I'll try my best to uphold that.

Secondly and I'm gonna quote on this, I'm not bothered by the fact that I might grow old without having a partner but when everybody points it out and looks down/laughs at me that's when it becomes frustrating

I've never been laughed at for it, but I guess 23 isn't that old yet.

It's not user there's still hope for you. When you're 28 you're gonna get alot of hurtful "jokes" like "you're gay aren't you?"

Well people think I'm gay alot, even since middle school, but it's more to my persona than my virginity.

I should clarify "persona" as lack of clear interest in women, as in I won't point at some and talk about tapping that or some shit