How are you supposed to ask women out? When is it appropriate?

How are you supposed to ask women out? When is it appropriate?

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Never user. Women aren't worthwhile. They will manipulate and break you, don't even bother.

It's appropriate when you're Handsome, have money , have the charisma of a god or when you've known the person for a century . It's creepy any other time . You have to prove your worth in some sort of way otherwise you will seem pathetic . Pretty people have it easy as their looks give them a first impression that signifies their value. Money is a close second. Proving you are smart is the hardest

>When is it appropriate?
when u are good looking

hey (name). I was wondering if you were free for coffee on (date available).

I've never asked a girl but I think you're supposed to ask out women if you feel like there's some sort of chemistry. Even if it's one sided, even if it's scary. desu

>tfw you don't like coffee

this. if you are ugly then you are a creep. only exception is if you know them pretty well but even that can be a gamble

can confirm this

don't make it weird by classifying it as anything other than going for coffee

socializing is good and everyone should do it

then make it something else ya dingus.

Once you've got your hygiene and diet down, and have at least a few interests you can talk about

>whaaaa womeen r faggots just rape :DDDd

>hey you wanna go to burger king on (date)
There's no place that is as casual as a cafe that wouldn't be weird to ask a girl out too on a first date

>snowflaking your way out of a date.

Your should write a book about this.

>i met my dream girl, but she wanted to talk to me when the new COD came out so i dumped her.

fun stuff.

>friend introduces me to a female friend of his
>we hit it off immediately
>she lives in a nearby town
>continue talking online
>talk nearly every day for a few weeks
>she initiates the conversation half the time
>she explicitly mentions she's coming to town
>she explicitly reminds me she's arrived
>she tells me it's boring here and that she's lonely
>ask if she wants to hang out
>blocks me

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Don't just go asking around any woman, user. Weed out the thots first, getting to kinda know them a bit through some degree of proximity (ie working/studying together in the same company/institution, going regularly to the same places and talking every so often, etc). You do this through regular interaction, but make sure you try to read her words as best you can.

Once you're confident she's not a thot, ask her out in a more casual, perhaps even friendly (not showing outright interest in more) manner. For instance, going for a coffee after work/lecture, perhaps even with some fake excuse in the middle to cover your tracks a bit.

I don't understand. Why would I ask a girl on a date to get coffee if I literally can't stand coffee?

Just get so fuckin hot that they ask you out

Your getting hung up on the whole "DATE" when you should be thinking about just chilling together.

Litterally the only reason people go out for the first date is to make sure the guy isn't a rapist.

i love sucking nigger cock and anus too babe

There's more to this story, fag. Spill it out.

But where else can I go on a first "make she's he's not a rapist" date that wouldn't be weird?

Because its not about you, or even the coffee. Its just about having a quiet public place to see your compatibility.

I don't know where else to go
What are other places that girls would like to go to on first dates?

This. Simple and straightforward

Coffee is just use figuratively. Just order tear or water you fucking sperg.

There genuinely isn't, I thought it was a safe bet (e.g. it was Halloween during those few weeks and she dressed as what I suggested but didn't go out at all, she just stayed at home and sent me pics of the outfit) and it backfired spectacularly, ruined my confidence for quite some time too

So I go to the coffeeshop but order something else? What if they that's weird? Normies are very judgemental

It's really easy to check.

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Go to a >something else other than coffee but still mainly focused on drinks place< then. Come on buddy, don't overthink such mundane shit. And in the end who cares? Nobody and neither should you. Say something like you are trying to cut down on coffee. What is the roast gonna say? "Uhmm yeah Jenny, he took me to a coffee place but ordered oolong tea? Like uhm, who does that? I'm gonna tell him to not contact me. What a creep."

they're only judgmental over that sort of stuff if they've already decided they dislike you, which isn't the case if they're going on a date with you

>but still mainly focused on drinks place
Such as? Like a bar? I'm not old enough for that, nor would I want to date the kind of person who goes to a bar as a first date.
Also a normie probably would say that lol

But they'd probably already have a slight bias against me because I'd be really nervous and shaky so there's a chance that would set them off

if you successfully asked them out and they didn't ghost you then you're better off than you think

They'd find a way to hate me, even if they didn't already

you're never going to even get that far with that attitude

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Nothing personel, kid. But you are too dumb as well.

You're probably right
I'm 19 retard

What? some bitch hits you up, tells you she's lonely, then blocks you when you ask her to hang out? She sounds like a retard, you shouldn't care tbqh.

if you're 19 you have plenty of time
worst case scenario get rich and import a wife from ukraine

>get rich
Yeah I can't do that
Hopefully I can find someone the normal way

They have other drinks besides coffee, Costanza

I mean you can ask for something else, i believe the most important thing is that both can socialize.

It just seems really weird to go to a coffeeshop and get something else, I feel like people would judge me.