I literally NEVER get matches on Tinder!

I know I'm at least average or a 7 when I really try and am working out/wearing nice clothes, have friends and am likable but right now I ain't having no fucking luck with this Tinder shit. And like half these girls ain't models so I know it ain't that. It's like unless you're a god damn Adonis you're screwed. Fuck this online dating, maybe I need to go to a damn bar or something. I've dated other girls but that was out of random luck meeting them and from school, now idk how normies do it man.

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I'm not reading all that mess but I'll tell yeah,tinder and shit like that are meant for Chad's only. Sorry buddy.

Online dating is a waste of time and, yes, you should just go meet people in real life. The only way to have regular success online is if you're very attractive. It still makes sense to have a presence there since you might just get lucky and bump into a random bang, but it's not to be your main focus.

Tinder was good shit 5 years ago. Now it's only for Chads. People literally spend days creating their tinder profiles.
Try other sites/apps.

>People literally spend days creating their tinder profiles.

why?

i paid for unlimited swipes or whatever when i did have tinder so maybe i cheated a bit but i also only had it installed for a few days and got like 14-15 matches
then i deleted it cuz too shy

To look like Chad as a male and to look as pretty as u can to a Chad as a female.
Tinder is way too serious right now, you can't just do a selfie and be done with it.

>paying for boost but getting no matches anyway

LMAO
M
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why dont you visit us in /eg/

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Are you southern? And yes tinder is a meme. Girls only use tinder to make a list of attractive men to sing their praises and pay them compliments. I've seen women using tinder and I can say they left swipe anyone that isnt a model even if they themsleves are fat and ugly. Group photos are also and instant nope. They never read bios and judge off the first pic. If you ever match with an attractive girl it will take 5-10 hours to get a response for anything you say because they have literally hundreds of matches and just can't be bothered to reply most of the time unless you are a giga chad.

>TLDR women only use tinder to get attention and for validation from strangers on the internet.

Probably true. I just don't know where to find females IRL, I guess I could try bars but does that actually work like the movies? Just see if I get lucky? I don't know man, shit is so awkward I wish it was easier.

I've tried other dating sites but they're even worse

>spend days creating their tinder profiles
Yikes, I spent a few minutes

That's pretty sad

I considered paying but that just seems like a huge waste of money idk

Likely true and something I'm aware of but I just figured fuck it I'd finally try it. Seems as dumb as I thought.

If you want a more legit dating app, try bumble. Matches delete after 24 hours to prevent attention whoring.

I'll give it a shot, see if I have any more luck. If not fuck it

Does your profile suck? While Tinder is impossible for most guys but if you are truly 7/10 then put in as much effort as you can into getting good photos and an interesting profile. Only way you might actually get a 3/10 that sleeps with a different guy a week.

I mean, my profile isn't too bad I'd say. Don't wanna post pics (obviously) but I have some good creative photos and a good bio I'd say. I just have no freaking luck. This shit sucks. I'm gonna just get a damn prostitute at this point man

Women would rather share a few Chads than get with an above average man. It's the 80/20 rule.
If you're not a solid 8 or above, tinder is rough.

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I dont know what you are trying to do lad, but I know ugly guys who get laid off tinder. My friend is a doughy 5ft 7 train wreck of a person with a really, just characteristically ugly face. He just dressed up edgy, got a clip of him kickflipping a 5 stair and playing guitar, and boom, he got matches, got laid, even,has a stalker from it. I dress up in male arthoe garb and put literal furry oc on my tinder and got 70+ matches my first week. Tinder is a game, learn how to play it. Since I am posting gfur with this I should clarify that both of us were men seeking women in these instances.

Either BS story or you two just got lucky or maybe live in a certain type of area. The algorithm for most guys is shit and most don't get matches unless they are very attractive or have a good profile which most don't

Well I finally got 1 like from some girl after forever of liking girls.... But to see it I have to freaking pay. Fuck this shit. What a terrible app.

For >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Bumble >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Tinder.

Tinder is literally just a hookup app for Chads, OKC matches you more based on personality, political beliefs and interests.
For the year I have had Tinder I've matched with maybe like 4 people, on OKC I match with at least 2 people a day and I hook up with a girl at least once a week, I'm a fucking 4/10 at best but I have a funny creatively written profile and my images are "creative" as well (Vaporwave edits of me, Cosplaying at a nightclub etc).

You have to play into the fact you're not chad and make up for it by coming off funny, progressive and creative. I would recommend reading a bunch of feminist theory just so you can use that as well to come off as intellectual, nothing melts the pants of OKC girls like progressive intellectualism. (I would recommend reading/Audiobooking Caliban and the Witch, this way you can literally "outfeminist" them with an obscure, but highly influential feminist book)

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you aren't as good looking as you think, or take better pics

wrong, you must just be boring

>good profile
what a meme

pic related 1/2
will post girl and then my own profile which I put 0 effort in, no bio just my photos

I don't reply unless girls message me first

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she's the girl on the right
now I'll post my profile next

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wanna play a game?

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>No "I like cheese and wine"

Wtf that is like 90% of female tinder profiles.

OP here, I know I'm not bad looking but I do have a problem with taking pics. Some of the pictures I've taken look great but some don't do me much justice. I have gotten one like though at this point.

>:p

If you're not top 20% or better of all men in your geographic region, you have no reason to be on Tinder. It's just a fact of how the app works. You'll spend weeks swiping to get one text conversation going which you'll expend a few hours on and then you'll get ghosted. Maybe for every three conversations, you'll get one date, which will also be the last date with her. And of course the next step down, getting to a relationship, is even more rare.

Your only chance is to find local face-to-face stuff to be part of where there might be women who don't Tinder incessantly and might have the absent, unconscious worldview that only the men in their social circles; friends of friends, etc; are real and there aren't a thousand erect penises waiting for them behind the little flame symbol on their phone. Which just might give you a chance to be, relatively speaking, top 20%.

And here's my profile
I can post my other matches and shit but basically, take better photos, your bio don't matter that much, throw your Instagram on there if you have to, girls check those, I got a lot of conversation about my IG

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You are an ugly fucking chink

>:p
what's wrong with that? don't tell me you type like some Jow Forums autist and expect to have girls like you

curve arrows are messages I sent

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And youre an incel lmao

>someone else went with the same nok nok joke
fucks sake there sailor, your name'd be perfect if you weren't asian

Thats a horrible picture m8

>have shitty selfie as main pic
>second picture is wearing sweatpants in the basement
>dull writeup
But it's all tinder's fault you're not getting matches!

kelly is a qt send a text back for me.

>all those matches
>uses normie speak unironically

kek go back to plebbit and lurk moar

u jell?

SOlBOl

But I thought only chads get matches...

Its working for me so far, I change it up some times but I dont use selfie sticks or whatever so

You mean a basement-dwelling incel might actually be wrong about a dating app? Shocking!

I only get matched with 5/10 alt girls

These women are so fucking boring though.

Whatever happened to just wanting to be with someone and then learning about them and enjoying each other regardless of their stupid ass interests.

Social media has made solipsism reach an all time fucking high.

>Social media has made solipsism reach an all time fucking high.
calm down plato, we just want some coochie to fuck

>match with qt on tinder
>she super likes me
>asks me a bunch of questions and is really interested in what I have to say
>suddenly stops talking to me
>2 weeks later get a text from her that says "Hello:))))"

she met some chad and it fell through so now im the back up, right?

Yes quickly ask to meet up

Girls on OLD have A B and C.
They have so much guys, they portion them out into the A guy, the B guy and the C guy and juggle them, if she can get with A guy she will, but if that falls through, B guy, then C guy. You were B or C guy.

I do the same with fat girls, if I'm Horny on a Saturday, I'll have my A fat girl, B fat girl, C fat girl, I absolutely am not into fat girls, but they're easy as fuck and put out and I want my dick inside a mouth and a cooch so I will go A girl, if I can't get her, B girl then C girl.

How long does it normally take for girls to reply? I've matched with two qt 3.14's in my first few days using the app and I sent them "Hey what's up?" I'm yet to hear back...

Nah bro you are full of shit. I literally match with 10/10 Stacy's and send them vile messages and insults for days before they notice.

2 days and its over

They are busy with other more attractive/funny or interesting matches. That's why we use pick up lines. So we can actually catch their attention, because you are just one among many.

I don't understand how you can get matches and I don't

How does that guy above gets first messages by a fucking stacy then I don,t understand

I sent the messages today around 5 PM (it's 1 am now), so i'm still holding out hope. I had no idea what to say as an opener so I kept it simple. Pick up lines seem cringy as fuck, especially since i went to high school with one of the girls, but maybe I'll have to try it.

If all you did was say hi, hello or some shit, forget about it

I'm the think user above, my advice is
don't send one liners duh,
this is on OkCupid not tinder but it's a rather successful one, met up that very day

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Talked to two people on dating apps and eventually was ghosted by both ;_;

you see here she didn't leave much to continue the conversation so just be aggressive in this situation

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Are websites like Tinder viable if I explicitly state I am no interested in premarital sex and am looking for a virgin gf to court?

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No, fuck off, virgins dont exist on tinder

you might get lucky, but generally no, most people on tinder just wanna bang

Do you 'like' every girl you see or almost every one? If so it will shadow ban you pretty quick and you will just be wasting your time. If you've been doing that just delete your account and make a new one.

most arent. But i banged a chubby virgin who didnt mention it until we got back to her place.

So maybe I do it and just hope I get lucky and a virgin qt sees my account before she falls and loses her chastity to an evil man?

You're retarded if you think a qt and not a landwhale is a virgin, assuming you can land a qt in the first place with your level of autism

>your level of autism
What have I displayed that makes you call me autistic? There are plenty of qt virgins, it is the natural order for an unmarried qt to be a virgin. Those non-virgins are the deviancy from the norm, the stray lambs.

Yeah whatever weeb, keep believing your delusions, the fact you think any matches will even acknowledge you once you reveal this level of autism is hilarious

I know that feel user. I thought pickup lines were cringy as well. I've tried using compliments or puns or "le quirky random" shit but none of works because so many of them have no sense of humor or wit.

Post some examples, you're probably not as witty as you think or you came off as cringey

The fact that you value the consideration of whores and admonish a man of virtue is not hilarious, but a shame. You shame yourself and all your fathers.

I wish it would be that easy for me. I'm probably too much of a pussy to try that

Well you wont ever meet them in person so whats the issue?
Im also not even chad looking, the profile pic on OKCupid is the same as my tinder one I posted above, you just gotta stop giving so much thought into it

I got 85 matches in 3-4 months without paying. Is that good?

Yes, how many ended in dates ?

I have no examples to provide user. I don't screenshot conversations I just unmatch boring whores. I have reflected on past conversations however realized how shitty and boring they were. I wouldn't be surprised if some girls thought I was cringy but it's still better than the guaranteed failure by "hey, what's up?" If anything tinder has been an eye opener. I never bought into incel ideology until now and I'm not even ugly, I just have a bad case of neckbeard personality disorder while maintaining nearly Chad tier aesthetics.

Well that's the problem, i live in a small enough town where i actually may see them. But i move to a bigger city soon so ill be more ballsy then

Yeah well clearly its working for other guys who's not chad looking, logic says its you being socially autistic rather than the girls you're matching with.

But hey it must be them and not you, only 10/10 chads gets dates after all lmao

Actual dates: 5 or 6 I think or so. Some rejected me afterwards, I rejected others. Also made out with a few more tinder whores.

>T. Guy who has never used tinder

The fact you feel entitled to matches is why you're not getting any.

This thread alone already proved you wrong incel-kun

You obviously never have and blindly believe what your echo chamber tells you to believe.

Nobody is saying they're entitled to them, but when you're getting 0 matches despite your best efforts then obviously it's going to cause some controversy. These threads are made daily so clearly it's a big issue.