I'll give some context, I am a 18 year old dude, and since I was about 16, I have wanted to save myself for marriage. A girl has never managed to fuck me, although not for lack of trying, and I have flat out refused sexual advancements for the last several years. All I ask for is a girl like myself to get married too as soon as I can, but as time goes on it seems as though this type of girl does not exist. It also doesn't help I am in a big city. Any other young anons (male or female) run into these issues?
Any other anons waiting for marriage?
You're a kid. You will grow out of that mentality.
good for you
I didnt and I regret it. Not necessarily until marriage but I wouldve much rather only fucked one person in my lifetime.
I had turned down advancements before and have done after but I cant say I didnt know it probably wouldnt last
My will is made of iron, fren.
>Any other young anons (male or female) run into these issues?
I'm male and past my mid twenties, and the possible choices have dropped almost to zero since I graduated.
do u have body issues or something maybe a small dick what'd you read or hear that made you this retarded?
Daily reminder that people waiting for marriage are astronomically happier than incels
and 6.75" in length, 5" around. No issues. I just want to give away something special to the person I love.
Not question of will in the slightest. Just one of immaturity.
Everyone is happier than incels
I feel happy.
Lasagna.
That is a fair point. I am fairly mature in this regard, although I am quite immature in others. I feel this is a choice I have thought a lot about however. Thank you for the concern, but I feel it to be misplaced.
As you grow up you will realize there is absolutely no rationality behind that decision.
well involuntary is mix in the word and that's a big sign why they are not happy is they don't want to be stuck in their situation.
There is total rational, OP. It's about commitment. The act of giving yourself wholly to someone else. If you can't do that, you're missing a big piece of the puzzle. You're never going to build a lasting, loving, relationship with someone if you can't figure that part out. Go ahead and devalue yourself with a string of pointless and degrading one night stands. But if you have no respect for yourself and you lack the discipline to not fuck everything that moves, why should anyone be forced to respect you? This goes for men as well, of course. This isn't a hypocritical rant. Men that do this are just as disgusting as the women that engage in it as well. You aren't getting a high quality partner if you aren't holding yourself to high standards either.
If they didn't want to be incels why did they choose to be incels?
there is no rationality behind most decisions we make my dude. Humans are irrational and opportunistic and spend a good part of their life rationalizing their irrational actions.
I'm sure some chose it but it's a safe bet some are just rejected for the most part, I've met guys that it's clear the universe just said "eh, fuck that guy" and they have nothing going right ever.
How do you know you will have a lasting loving relationship?
>18 year old *dude*
Definitely a roastie that hasn't had sex
thanks for the stats. I'm not fit. I think you're following an idea that isn't worth anything in this day and age and won't grant you any happiness. no one but u will care about your pursuit and it's a very rare woman that will think what you're doing commendable.i wish you the best but I think it's a wasted effort. you'rea bit younger than I am please just trust me. don't save yourself for marriage, get laid learn how to fuck and plow the shit out of the woman you love
No. I am a boy.
Lasagna.
Thanks for the advice. I am unchanged though.
I lost my virginity and I hated it. Try harder OP its a good thing cause it gives you a more naive look into life and I recommend you consider going to the right places for that like not the catholic church.
So where?
Lasagna.