Robots, after 24 years of miserable virginity and loneliness I finally lost it last night to some clingy overweight 3/10 eighteen year old I met online. Along with my first handholding, kiss and hug. Wasn't that great, I couldn't even come and we tried three times of hour long fucking over the course of 30h.
Anyone else have that experience after a decade of jerking off solely to porn? That real sex becomes kind of desensitized when you first have it? Maybe I should delete my 8tb porn drive. I don't know how to feel now.. It's like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders in that I was inside a girl, but wasn't anything special and losing the shame of being a virgin at 24 was better than the actual experience. On the downside I still havent actually came and now she won't leave my apartment and it's the second night. Dont know if it was even worth it. Of everyone here who lost it in their 20s, how was it? Im kinda disappointed in what I had been obsessing about for 8 years.
bro ive never had sex but you may have cucked yourself. You may have condisioned your brain to only cum when you are watching porn. Go watch some to test it. there is a name for the condition tho I just dont know what it is. and Doctors here????
Benjamin White
So what's the cure? Lay off porn for months?
Joseph Perez
Saying cuck is something only virgin say in any situation. Dunno why.
That said, op, it was awful because you had no feelings for her (or at least strong attraction). And because you wanted so bad to get out the virgin zone that you idealized fucking in real life (wich can be trully awesome but not first time). I didnt say that you need to have feelings everytime to have a good fuck but the first times are somewhat linked to that. And desu i couldnt fuck a landwhale and cum because without the minimum attraction its impossible. You are normal, you need to practice with different partners and you need to slow down porn watching.
Brody Carter
help how do i get girl who has 'nowhere to go' to leave without being rude. maybe being an incel wasnt so bad after all. but i have exams to study for and im being distracted by her snoring and shes taking my pillow. shouldnt have taken the first opportunity i had i guess..
yea you make a good point there, but i think its good in terms of having a next time with a girl ill know what im doing and wont come across as a awkward virgin. i couldnt do missionary, just doggy cause atleast fat girls have ass to grab onto.
William Myers
I have the opposite problem. I didn't molest my pingus hard enough and I nut in a minute or less mostly. My method of masturbating mostly involves the frenulum with 2 fingers and the opposite side with one instead of fucking my whole fist I have to cum 3 times before being able to properly last.
You fell for the unironically toxic masculinity meme that not being a male virgin is better than losing it to someone you love and are attracted to. Just because you're a man doesn't mean you can't have feelings. Next time make sure it's with someone you actually have grown to love. It'll feel better. And for fuck's sake if you actually manage to procreate, don't impart that dumbass shame meme on your kid.
Christopher Jones
yea im circumcised. i think you got the better end though, cause circumcision removes the nerves so i got an hour of meh feeling while you got a minute of bliss. my glans is way too desensitized. i hate being cut.
Isaiah Sanchez
its not me who does the shame its society at large. everyone knows that, look how common 'incel' or 'virgin' is used as an insult these days. right up there with 'autistic' in the most overused insults. before today, i was a virgin incel autistic person. now im just autistic and the other insults wont get under my skin.
Jayden Barnes
It feels like overstimulation to be h, no matter what terrible shit I think about and no matter how much I'm not in the mood it just makes my dick burn with pleasure and I'm cumming in no time. I genuinely have no idea what to do about it. Even condoms barely get me to last 5 mins.
Benjamin Jackson
DAMN nigga an 8 tb drive? what site was it online and what did you see in her??
Asher Cook
Maybe try some toys? I had a fleshlight designed for stamina once, it was textured in such a way to be like more stimulating than a vagina and so decreased your sensitivity. Theres lots of ways to deal with that issue, toys are just one.
I went for all 1080p super high quality or 4k vids which are like 5-10gb each because i kept having to increase my appetite. and i saw nothing in her other than a means to get some pussy for once in my life.
Leo Jackson
is autistic an insult now? I've only ever seen it as an insult on this site
Matthew Stewart
before you dump her ass I would try no fap for at least two weeks or a month then have edge sex with her as long as possible before you bust, the dopamine reset would give you much better sex
Adrian Nelson
Its an insult all over the internet and even in everyday life. As an autist it hurt i had to deny what was true. Same with the others, which are now no longer true.
Hudson Fisher
you need to dump the porn and the deathgrip masturbation duder otherwise you'll never be able to nut when it really matters
Chase Morris
>As an autist it hurt i had to deny what was true pathetic, I'm also autistic but I was amused when I first saw people here slinging it around as an insult
Landon Jackson
>death grip syndrome
i had the same problem, sex just didn't feel good, and i couldn't cum.
stop jerking off for a couple weeks if you cant make sure to use a lot of lube and don't grip too tightly when you do. try to limit it as much as you can and it will go away. i promise
Tyler Walker
>Unironic toxic masculinity meme What? You realise it isn't just guys who use the virgin insult, right? "Virgin" and "Incel" are insults used by many men and women.
Gavin Allen
Just don't fap for 3 days and the next time you have sex you'll cum within half an hour.
And yeah, sex is underwhelming my first time was nothing special. Now I've sleept with 5 different women and nothing has changed. Wish I could tell my younger self not to obsess over women cause it's not worth it.
Levi Perry
>you guys know I'm normal, right?
Daniel Carter
Holy shit man, I feel you. I'm a /pornaddict/ myself and lost my virginity at 19, but the years of cucking myself to porn ruined my sex life profoundly. I can't really hold a sexual relationship and have mild ED; it was more of a coincidence that I could lose my virginity because she was extremely autistic and had no one else in her life who appreciated her body or something.
I'm terribly anxious in public situations and have the most autistic gait and posture you could imagine. You need to completely cut out the porn man, this is the only way to fix our brain chemistry now. First, play vidya as a substitute addiction and then quit those, too. This has been the easiest way to quit for me.
Robert Williams
Don't be an idiot. It will never be as you imagined it, because of your expectations and the porn. You should make yourself clear, that sex is something between two people, you aren't the only one who has expectations. Porn is Ok, as long as you know, that this things don't happen in reality. The realty is much more complicated and different. Don't be foolish to belive you can judge, because you had it one time. Sex is fun, i can tell you. You should have some more experience, then you can appreciate it.
Wyatt Wood
I unironically raped a 12 year old when I was 16 back when I still on /b/ in like 2009 and thought being edgy was cool. So no, I don't know that feeling. I actually couldn't cum either though OP..
Owen Perry
yeah, thats a huge YIKES, from me, dawg. im 28 kv and im fine with dying a virgin already, its way too late for me. fuck would u want to lose ur virginity to some obese whore, the fuck is wrong with you?
maybe in the afterlife ill experience a life worth living. hopefully there isnt even a afterlife
Henry Morgan
Yes I recently lost it to a 17 year old and I'm 25. That's legal in my country btw. We had sex about 10 times and I couldn't come. She was ok looking. Slightly overweight but I didn't mind. Anyway I did eventually manage to come by watching porn and jerking off. I came in her mouth and she swallowed. It was really fucking nice. I wish I could come without having to do that though. Not only because it would feel better but because I don't want her thinking she's unattractive and I have to watch porn to get off. Any tips on what to do? I'm going to watch less porn and use a looser grip for a start.
Jacob Fisher
you should've asked her if you can jerk off onto her or something
Angel Young
Similar story with me, except we me IRL, she wasn't really clingy, but was suffering from hangover, nowhere to go, so had to go with me. I jokingly told her I need sex like 10 minutes after we've met. She is the kinda of girl to let you do whatever you want as long as you relieve her hangover first. Sex wise I couldn't feel a damn thing(two children and birther hips of doom is why) and couldn't cum either, partly because it was raw and I was affraid to cum. I really liked the emotional aspect though, holding her hand while fucking, her legs on my shoulders that kind of thing. I ditched her yesterday, at 25 there is still whole life ahead of me, I don't have to settle for a 22yo straight outta trailer park hoe who's exes were nearly twice her age. Ask your girl to lose weight, if she is not willing then look for someone capable of that.
Hudson Adams
Ask her to clean your room, make you a dinner and keep quiet or go to some other room if you have it. Day it's that or she has to leave. This is the kind of woman that has to be put in place ASAP, especially seeing how you are successful in life(I dropped outta highschool nigguh) and she distracts you.
