>pic related I really feel fucking terrible for this guy. He's one of us, he manned up and took his chance as best as he could and he got this. Is this what happens when the "just talk to her" meme clouds your eyes?
And then the orange one had the audacity to post this on Jow Forumssadcringe and basically humiliate and laugh at this guy even more. You can just feel his sadness coming from those last few replies. He's probably destroyed right now and isn't going to try it again soon.
This post absolutely ruined my evening and discouraged me from trying to actually talk to that girl I like even more. This could be me.
And no it's not me I swear. People on Jow Forums think it's me
James Bell
He just sounds lonely I feel like he didn't have any ulterior motives which can make people uncomfortable sometimes I don't think either parties did anything wrong except posting it online, which is pretty douchey
Connor Baker
I have a problem with how she replies. Would it hurt her to just talk to the lonely guy?
Jace Morgan
The Jow Forums people seem to be 100% taking the reddit OPs / girls / orange's side, I'm curious to see what Jow Forums thinks but this thread will probably die without many answers
Zachary Smith
Honestly the problem is maybe just that I relate to this guy too much and I feel terrible. I can totally see myself doing something similar but not as autistic as some of his replies.
Carter Campbell
aaaagh the 'tism >message some girl out of the blue >expect her to have any questions don't do this, boys if you are lonely, post some info and I'm gonna message you. JUST DON'T FUCKING DO THIS
Nolan Bailey
You are not obligated to tend to every lonely soul you come across, sure it would be a kind gesture but you don't have to. If you are lonely you can find a support group for lonely people or something. Expecting people to fix your issues is asking too much imo
Samuel Brooks
>expect her to have any questions I think he was referring more to like, questions about how she find her as to not seem like a creepy stalker. If she just said "yes we can talk" I'm sure he'd continue the conversation with something like "So how's your day going"
Josiah Edwards
>Starting a conversation and then asking the other person to ask you questions.
Thats kinda strange, other than though he seems way too apologetic. He just gives off a strange vibe, not everybody is going to be okay with that. No one was really in the wrong, the girl didn't owe him shit.
Joshua Morales
>talking to a girl he doesn't know at all, for no reason >asking her if it's fine for her to chat >making her lead the conversation when she didn't initiate it >insisting after she made it abundantly clear she isn't interested >using "..." a lot
Gavin Anderson
Already said it but I think that that was not his intention behind the "ask me questions" thing Look at how he wrote that right after explaining how he found her. He probably panicked thinking she thinks he's a creepy stalker so he tried explaining himself and left the "you can ask" as a cont. of his answer so he can answer any questions from her if she thought he was creepy
Aaron Adams
I've answered the >making her lead the conversation when she didn't initiate it thing already.
Maybe I'm reading too deep into it I don't know, I've had a shitty day and I've been drinking lately.
Mason Hall
And the girl probably realized her mistakes because she deleted the post
Thomas Ramirez
Talking online isnt "manning up". It isn't " actually talking" to a woman either.
Joshua Baker
it's always creepy if you're ugly
no matter what it is you do
you creep me out if you're ugly
disgusting
Sebastian Nelson
But he IS creepy
Aiden Torres
No its not about looks. It just happens that most ugly people don't understand social situations.
Aiden Martin
teehee it just happens~
Hudson Smith
No. Ugly people choose not to be social, then act like they're victims when they don't have social skills.
Levi White
We're on Jow Forums though
Landon Nelson
This dude is weird as fuck, how is that even a question? He messages some girl out of the blue and starts talking to her awkwardly as humanly possible expecting her to be his "friend" It's obvious he's got intentions more than friends though, which is why she's understandably freaked out.
Liam Martin
His only fault is being honest to the bone. And a bit of autism on the side
Lincoln Walker
Honestly creepy and very autistic
Kevin Nelson
And a weird stranger messaging you online is a serious red flag.
Leo Sanders
this is on tumblr isn't it? the autist probably thought because she reblogged a picture from his blog meant she wants his dick. also, why does he send 5 messages in a row? this is just cringe and i don't blame the tumblr thot avoiding him.
Owen Perry
>is it fine for you > if we chat
it went wrong there, comes across as pajeet tier 'show bobs and vagene'. He mentions she reblogged him, should have begun with that then they could have had something to talk about
Joseph Thompson
I don't see him being the usual "nice guy" I think he genuinely wanted to talk to someone, he seems very lonely and depressed. Just read his last replies man it's saddening
Owen Baker
He was overly cautious
Ethan Morgan
He's trying to manipulate her and it's disgusting
Connor Rodriguez
I do not see it like that all but who knows.
Noah Powell
i mean i can sympathize with the poor guy like most of us can because we were, if not are like him in some ways. and trying to befriend mutual followers on tumblr isn't unusual but the way he initiated and kept the conversation going could come across as creepy or strange. >hi tamy >is it ok if we talk? >"uhh i guess" >just as normal friends >if you want >depends how we understand each other... who knows... >emoji face like just fucking say "hey, i like your blog and aesthetic and saw we were following each other and wanted to say hi" and take it from there or something.
Luis Scott
The smiley face is what melted my heart. Just imagine the guy sitting there, remembering all the articles he read abut talking to woman, remembering how he can't sound creepy, remembering how girls like emojis oh wait, but he forgot! Now he has to put one in there. But the poor fellow doesn't use them!? He doesn't know which one to use so he just goes for the standard trusty :) not a shadow of doubt is crossing his mind, this is his moment!
I mean yeah maybe the guy is being kinda cringey but he's not being hostile at all to the girl. Posting it on reddit is just cruel. At least he tried though, hopefully this doesn't crush him.
Reading the last messages from him I think he's crushed user
Jack Martinez
he'll be alright user. he's getting some good practice in right now.
Juan Richardson
I hope you're right user, I hope he gets friends and a gf as soon as possible.
Connor Foster
Really? "ok see you again...who knows..." sounds like a veiled threat.
Cooper Long
Now I don't agree with this at all. I'm 100% sure it was just a weird way to say goodbye and he didn't mean anything like that.
Ian Stewart
What did he do wrong? The guy is creepy. Adds a girl to talk and just says hi? Nope....you say, Hi I am user, you reposted my post so I Checked out your blog and tought it was really cool. I liked this and that about it .
Then she wont say, Hi? Wth is this and how did you find me? Its creepy and weird..
Think her next response, what was he expectibg after opening with, hi...
Thomas Edwards
Not really clear how well he knows her. If they don't regularly meet or live in the same area, it might be like "who knows, maybe our paths will cross again some day."
Xavier Young
Maybe have something to say if you are planning to waste someone's time? What was he even expecting, for her to come out like "hey you know what want to have sex with me?"
Austin Murphy
Everyone knows. Literally everyone knows about sad nice guy manipulation
Sebastian Campbell
It's clear that he just wanted someone to talk to user...
Leo Price
Those people usually use that as an opener this guy really did try his hardest and didn't play that card at all
Leo Allen
Maybe he should have said that then. Instead of >nothing >just normal as friends >or as you want >depends how we understand each other..who knows >*smiley face*
What the hell was he even trying to say? How about a more simple >I dunno, just want to talk to you for a bit >how's school/work/hobby/whatever going? You said it was going good/bad right?
This way you get her talking about her interests, and she can keep the convo going if you're too much of a sperg yourself.
John Scott
According to roughly half of the anons in this thread, it's really not.
Thomas Cook
This
It all ended with the "hi?" , was the motive to get some poon or someone else to talk to, i don't get it. You could find someone else to talk to in literally seconds if that is the motive. Orange caught on at the first msg and naturally shit listed him.
When normies say "just talk to her" they dont tell you there is a thin line of whats right and wrong.
Easton King
oh wait, I fucked up, should have linked to Normies aren't spergs so they understand naturally that you should talk about something. They also have healthy hobbies and interests in the real world so that helps too.
But if you don't know what to talk about, ASK QUESTIONS. Easy as that. Get her talking about HER hobbies, which is of course just to hide your lack of any, but will seem to her like you are genuinely interested in her as a human being.
Ian Wright
>What did this guy do wrong? He is ugly and is socially bad. The way this woman replies is proof of that. He has to realize that and act like an ugly awkward male.
Zachary Fisher
Starting the convo by asking if it's okay to talk. Literal shit beta way to start it, makes the girl dry up and become disgusted real quick.
Blake Bell
Agreed. That is good robo friendly advice.
Evan Lopez
>Dude, you just need to approach women, just be yourself and give them a firm handshake >Haha, look at this loser, he actually followed our advice! He's so cringe! Reminder that normies on this board will actively try to set you up for failures just so they can publically humiliate and laugh at you
William Gonzalez
Also reminder that Green Guy is probably /ourguy/ who fell for normie advice and is now in crumbles
Jayden Hall
>>depends how we understand each other... who knows... He was definitely having autistic dreams of fucking her. Don't kid yourself. He wasn't some innocent sincerely looking for a friend. This conversation is like expecting you to humor a person with down's syndrome who obviously wants in your pants. I mean I converse with downies for a few sentences if they initiate conversation but I'm not going to be their friend.
Ian Smith
We're all downies user we're on Jow Forums
Luis Jackson
It's generally good life advice. Whenever I meet new people I always ask them lots of questions and it always works like a charm. People will yap your ear off about their shitty kids and how well their favorite sportsball team did in the big game the other day. Like I give a rat's ass. But I can go a whole week or so at a new workplace before someone starts asking me about my hobbies, which are gaming and anime.
It even works for things like job interviews. Sometimes they forget to ask you basic questions if you keep them talking about their own interests. Normies love to talk about themselves.
Gavin Gomez
He's literally trying to make her feel bad for not being interested.
Evan Lopez
You're not pulling a fast one on anyone. They realize you're boring so they talk about something interesting.
John Gray
why would a sperg talk to a woman if he didnt want to fuck her? the woman represents nothing to him but a hole
