I cant get over the fact that I wasted my youth. I never partied. I never went anywhere fun with friends...

I cant get over the fact that I wasted my youth. I never partied. I never went anywhere fun with friends. I never went on any crazy adventures, nor do I have any crazy, interesting stories to tell. All that happened was I sat in my room and either played video games, watched anime, or jerked off. That was all there was to what some people would call the best years of my life. I would give anything just to be able to redo my life, to have a second chance.

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All the same here pretty much. Question is did you waste it. Or were you too ugly to get invited to those things. If you were never invited or wanted, then it wasnt Waste, you were cheated out of Youthful coming of age shit. Even if you could go back, and tried to shoe horn yourself into those things, you d just have a bunch of memories of brutal nuclear rejections and humiliations. The kind you see or read about from coming of age shit before people could hide out playing video games all day

Iktf, anonfriend.
>boomer parents' generation convinced us that staying home reading books meant our lives would be better after highschool, and partying/making friends would mean we were the losers
y-you too, boomers, h-haha

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Unless you're in your 30s, you have plenty of time. Don't fall for the "muh youth" meme. Most people I know say their 20s were the best because once they were financially stable they could do whatever the fuck they want

You have to be well and truly deformed to be "too ugly" for social life as a whole. Stop trying to blame everything on your looks. Just because it's not totally fair, it comes more naturally to some than others, doesn't mean you were robbed or cheated. Your lot in life is yours, and what you do with it is your responsibility. You're responsible for your own happiness.

I'm worried a lot of zoomers are going to turn out like this. Nightlife is dying, and will be even more dead as time goes on. The average town or cities' demographics are too weird to support anything other than maybe small house parties and shit like that. So that means Robots will just be alone, because there's nothing for them to even try.

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i know this feel.
>Most people I know say their 20s were the best because once they were financially stable they could do whatever the fuck they want
remember, we're on Jow Forums
even so, it feels terrible knowing that you got to the same place as everyone else except that you missed out on the way

did you have friends? if not, then why would you be invited to parties? were you attractive? if not, you would've been bullied. did you have social skills? if not, you wouldn't have had fun at parties anyway.

sociality is a neverending catch-22. if your life didn't start with a positive feedback loop, eventually you get caught in a negative one, and that's pretty hard to break out of when you're young and dumb. even harder once you're older and realize the problems but don't even know where to begin to fix them.

suck a cock dick head.

May you wind up with my 2/10 face

>don't even know where to begin to fix them

there's No 'Fix'

Chad and Stacy dont have magic powers. They had people telling them 'Wow You re Attractive!' from as young as they could remember, they easily got friends, they easily had people who wanted to be around them

That's not magic or skill. It's blind luck and just showing up when you have the card pre punched with the right holes. They like to tickle their own assholes though that they have a 'skill'.

>be me
>15yo
>living life to the fullest but still a virgin
>4.0 student
>had a few relationships
>really questioning life choices
>wondering if I should focus all into school and become a wagecuck or have fun while I can

Why do you even care about all that shit now? You obviously didn't care about it when you were young or you would've done it.

Do you just sit around moping, thinking of reasons to be miserable? Christ, if you haven't figured out what you enjoy and want to do with your life when you're no longer young then there's no helping you.

Get a fucking rope and end it, you pathetic faggot.

social skills are definitely real man. there are plenty of ugly-to-mediocre looking dudes who manage to make everyone laugh, or get people excited, and they don't want for friends. it's not only a matter of looks, they just make it a lot easier and kickstart that feedback loop.

>15yo

AYO MODS

your grades mean nothing aside from getting you into a great college/nabbing you scholarships. that is their sole utility. just remember that, you aren't going to be taking them with you into adult life, so prioritize accordingly.

I don't get this line of thought because socializing is a two-way street, you can't just do it if you want to. I never got invited to a party and no one would talk to me besides the absolute losers, what choice did I have?

you didnt. And, attractive people like to role play that they 'EARNED' their looks. dont even bother trying to convince them that they did zero for it.

it's like telling a rich kid born into money who thinks he worked for it he was lucky. They dont want to hear it. it fucks with their head too much

I don't buy that self pitying crap anymore, I've seen too many people like OP and you who act like you "had no chance" but really you never even thought about what you really wanted. You just outsourced all thinking to TV, which is where you get all your values and expectations from. You never got invited to a party? Why do you even give a shit about parties? Why did you even have any expectation to be invited to a party in the first place? What would you even do if you went there? Why didn't they invite you? Did you ever think about any of these things? No, you didn't. Because you don't examine your life, you don't think objectively about yourself, and you never managed to identify what makes you happy.

I have fucking aspergers and I despise parties yet I STILL managed to get invited because I fucking figured out the science to socialization when I was 14 goddamn years old. Friendship = proximity + positive shared experience + time. All you have to do is not upset people or make them uncomfortable. Know how I avoided that? By fucking looking at my behavior dispassionately and figuring out where I was being creepy and stopped acting that way around people. Wow, what a concept!

To me, when you act like you "had no chance" you're just admitting to me you're stupid and have no self awareness.

i was the only person of my ethnicity in my high school and got bullied for that shit on the very first day, had nothing to do with being creepy when you immediately get ostracized for something out of your control

people like you who think your own life experiences are the only ones that exist and are applicable to everyone else are the absolute definition of morons with no self-awareness

>figured how not to be creepy
>the creepiest reply

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They bullied you and yet you still pine after going to their parties, how pathetic.

I never said I wasn't creepy, I said I stopped acting creepy around my peers. Normies are simple to manipulate.

Don't look back OP, look forward instead. Give yourself some goals, some 1 yr, 3 yr 5yr plans. Whetever your youth threw up it doesn't prevent you going out, hitting the gym, getting a smart haircut and gaining some of that self-confidence that you deserve

How were you acting creepy before, and how did you fix it?

lol at missing out on anything. ive been out with friends and while I was out partying all I wanted to do was be at home on my computer with my online friends playing rust or something. stop buying into the hype normie are either too retarded to know iits not fun or just pretend.

hardly anyone in their 20s is financially stable in this economy, those are probably people bad with money racking up credit card debt

do you know how I know you voted for Trump

we can tell you have aspergers, don't worry. you didn't need to point it out

>all you have to do is not upset people or make them uncomforatable

this was my problem. i did just that, and i didnt give a fuck. i did magic, so they tolerated me a little, but i didnt get invited to socialize. i didnt care back then, but now i do and i regret it

>I never partied. I never went anywhere fun with friends

Seriously if you're an awkward sperg it's not worth it, I used to do that a lot (with normalfag friends) and I mostly just felt out of place and depressed after

I didn't do that shit and I don't feel like I "missed out". Youth is a normie concept because they all settle down around 30. You don't have to do that. You can do whatever you want for your whole life if you want.

This user has the right idea. Despite how enticing it might be, if you're not going to fit in, there's not much of a point. I tried to go out with potential new friends the other day who are fairly normie and just ended up feeling out of place.

>graduating form school with 16
>3 years apprenticeship, earning good money by the age of 19

or

>graduating from highschool with 18
>3 years dual studies, earning even more money by the age of 21

Its not that hard

or

>

This. OP don't fall for the dumb 'youth' meme, it's not for everybody
It's ok to have a diferent type of life

I'm sure you realize this now. Nothing matters in this life except your youth. Adulthood is beyond shitty and success is a joke. Youth is the only thing that really matters. The love the friends the fun. That is all that matters. Studying and working are a waste in life. It doesn't matter how much money you have or what your title is if you're dying and falling apart. What matters is the friends you made and the romances you had in your youth. Because soon it'll all fade away. You should read faust and think of why the wise old man made the wish he made. Humans have one thing that god and the devil can't understand nor will ever have.

disagree with this a bunch. Working puts the time you spend with friends in context, and it gives meaning to things. Imagine if you live your whole life with someone putting food on your plate, and you go over to a friends and they feed you. Not that special. Now imagine if you've been getting by feeding yourself and your friends feed you. It's a lot better because you understand what working means.

>time spent with a friend means a lot more when you spend a third of your day working
>ending a 25 year career with enough money saved to live the NEET life means a lot more than just being supported while you do nothing because you experienced what made it possible

my youth feels like a waste of time compared to the life i'm living now

Yeah see how much you enjoy retirement with a hip replacement and arthritis. Totally worth wasting your youth being a shabbos goy.