Femanons, would you date a guy who's really depressed, 6ft 1, 200 pounds, and looks decent?

Yeah, pretty much this. Women don't understand.
Also not OP but the reason I'm depressed is that a fembot manipulated me and I spent thousands on her and she just discarded me like I was nothing. She said she loved me and then she just discarded me.
I'm just a loser that deserves to die.

I know what you mean user, but this world is unfair.
I too would love to have a girlfriend to just love in the most pure definition of the word, but women don't want to be loved like that, their nature denies them of this.
You will have to overcome these urges user, or you will not be able to get a girl. But if you do overcome these urges, what would be the point of a girlfriend?
I'm just waiting for death to come honestly, i no longer bother with the idea of a girlfriend.
Still, you don't need to be sad because of this, enjoy life user.

6ft 1 inches an 200 pounds. Not 1,200 pounds

>Still, you don't need to be sad because of this, enjoy life user.
What's there to enjoy, user? I even went on a road trip with my money and saw the coast. It was pretty but it was just empty. When there's no one there to share it with you.
What's there to enjoy? Mindlessly wasting time playing videogames?
Probably the only thing that wouldn't be a waste is reading. But that's not enjoying life, it's just escapism.

I tried, god knows I did but he expected me to suicide with him. fuck that

any of you femanons come across a depressed guy just keep on walking, seriously, dating a wanna be thug waving a gun around is safer

>tfw gave a man on here $1000 and he hasn't paid me back yet
We're idiots, user.

>90kg/6ft

hahaha, don't you want to kill yourself for a selfish lardass?

>What's there to enjoy, user?
Well user, you will need to fill that loneliness hole before learning to love life user.
I just filled the hole with the idea that i would find that girl once i die, but i can't kill myself because i don't know if that will mess up my chances of meeting her.
So i spend all my time just learning new stuff, i found joy in helping people and in photography.
You will have to find out user, but you shall know that no matter where you are, your waifu is there watching you, waiting for you on the other side.
Make her proud user.

No, she was real. We talked everyday. She was just a monster who manipulated me and then cheated on me. I don't even really care about the money, I make enough. I just thought she actually loved me. She just threw me away like I was trash. Which I am.

Oh you have robot meme depression.

I take a shower every night, shave, and wear clean clothes(usually a t shirt and jeans). Also, I'm not asking to be colled every day, I just want someone who I can tell them i love them and they'd say they love me too

Not having a girlfriend/boyfriend isn't the root of the issue, op. Dating a depressed person is risky since a relationship can potentially make things worse for both parties. If you really want to get better (your depression isn't clinical), then you have to set it as a goal you won't give up on, even if you fail many times along the way.

I just want to tell someone I love them and have them love me too. I'm not an unkempt neet.

No its definitely the root of my issue.

I would date a depressed girl, you bitches are just picky, this probably falls on deaf ears though

It's a huge red flag. Especially if its going untreated. Really especially if it's meme self diagnosed depression.

I can assure you I'm not memeing. My grade point average is a D, I'm so much of a loser my parents think I'm a closet gay, and I'm not just a virgin I've never even had a girlfriend or kissed a girl or even held hands with a girl and I was bullied most of my life. I cry by myself at least once a week and I think about suicide sometimes

So see a doctor. There is an obvious answer.

No, the root of your issue is from your family, you are the product of a broken house.
Either your mom didn't give you enough love or you didn't have a strong masculine figure at home, so now you want in another person what your mom failed to provide or your dad failed to eliminate.

Did you suffer a nasty breakup or something? Either way being dependent on the affection of a female is a massive Achilles heel that you really should fix.

I love how women think they can talk about meme depression with a straight face. I couldn't leave my room for years. I hid when the doorbell rang. I'd just stare at the ceiling for hours. I recovered.
Depression for women on here is meme agoraphobia (can leave the house with their chad bf)

Honestly, I think about suicide sometimes, but I would never want to hurt anyone else. Infact one of the reasons I haven't killed myself is because I dont want to hurt the people who genuinely care about me

That's not me (op) also I dont think my parents are bad

Yes. I was manipulated by someone who didn't love me. I don't rely on it, I just want to do nice things. Someone whose loyal. That's all I ask.I just want someone to give me a chance.

How is it a redflag? My red flags boil down to
>potential to hurt me
Because I'm actually lonely and not shopping

Why don't you get I shape user? You have the height and you're already decent looking. So why don't you tone up your face and body and looksmax. Exercising would help your mental health aswell

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That wasn't me (op) and I've never dated anyone ever

I already kind of have, I used to weigh 280 pounds. And some of my extra weight is probably from all the loose skin I have. Like seriously, if I had any more skin on my arms I would be able to fly

The presence of depression in a relationship of any kind is a strain on the bond of those involved. The depressed person can be abnormally selfish, grow cold, not communicate at times, and even become aggressive, so it is a challenge you have to overcome to keep you together in a positive manner.

Starting a relationship with someone who's depressed is risky, even if you know what they're like in good mental health. You're not necessarily qualified or mature enough to help someone get better, so you could actually cause more harm than any good. There's also the issue of emotional affection, which could comfort and hurt a depressed person in a way that hinders their recovery/rehabilitation.

For the sake of you and your potential lover, you should probably see if they're willing to get better, then help them start recovering before you try going to the smooching and cuddling (hugging and such should be okay if they really need some comfort).

Honestly, I think about suicide sometimes, but I would never want to hurt anybody else. Kne of the reasons I dont kill myself is because I dont want to hurt the people who genuinely care about me

I'm proud of you user! Hmm next step save up for skin removal surgery?

Thankfully you still have something keeping you here, but be wary that your mental state might deteriorate to a point where you'll become apathetic towards the value others see in you. Staying aware of your mental state is important to keep yourself somewhat sane and rational, and investigating the original causes and current fuel that fed into your depression can actually give you a way to help yourself out of the hole you're in.

That's actually pretty impressive that you cut so much down on your weight. You really seem like you're able to get some things done. It's a good sign for you.

No, I want a frumpy fembot wife who accepts me for who I am.

Idk, my parents said that my skin will eventually tighten by itself

i guess but I don't like that you're bigger than me.

Bigger in weight or height?

both. most girls aren't 6'1 or above and 200+ lbs.

Are you afraid that I'll hurt you? How tall are you? What do you like doing?

What you're asking is for a way to look at the world. Everyone values things differently, so what you actually have to your name or who you know and trust can either be more than enough or far too little. We don't have a hard answer to why we're here, so nobody is really right or wrong, but what matters most is how your opinion on life affects the way you live it.

If your theories lead you to suffering and and unhappy death, then what value would you get from spending time here? All we can really do is experience whatever this hell or heaven is, and find peace with who we are and what we might become, even if it means accepting a simple life or a demanding one.

So you can enjoy the pressure of the atmosphere on your skin, appreciate your hard work after cleaning up your living space or the company of your lover, all will give you a little bit of peace and happiness. But don't settle. Learn to appreciate what you have, and strive for doing something good with your time.

>tl;dr Learn how to appreciate what you have and who you know/knew, but don't just settle. Find something to do with your time that you see as valuable to you or others.

Yes, I am afraid you will hurt me. I'm 5'5 as measured at the doctor last week. I am a cartoonist.

>1, 200 pounds
FCUK NO

The truth has been spoken, kek

Im 6 foot 1 inch and 200 pounds, not 1,200 pounds

That's not me (op) also I wouldn't hurt you

I can't look people in the eye and I'd never be able to hurt anyone. I just get sad instead of angry. I used my spare time to volunteer at cat shelters before I got a new job. I have a drawing tablet but I'm terrible.
Would you want to talk to me? If not its OK.

She will hurt you bro, stay far, fat away. No matter the front scheme, all women are the same deep down inside.

By the way guys I'm 6'1 and 200 pounds not 1,200 pounds

I don't think depression is ideal in the least, or even that I would necessarily want to keep the relationship, it's just so far from what I would consider making it not worth giving someone a chance. The fact that we're both broken people to my mind means we can try to comfort each other.

I guess what I want is for you to admit that you generally experience depression and loneliness to a lesser degree than guys. You either see a relationship as a way out or tying yourself down to an unimpressive guy is going to be a downgrade to all the male attention you receive while single.

the problem is that I'm really annoying and not that good looking to make up for it so it's easy for people to become cross with me. and of course, when we're mad we all say and do things we regret.

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I don't care what you look like. Its okay if you don't want to talk to me, I understand. I'm just really lonely. You sound interesting, being able to make money our of your illustrations, I wish you wouldn't put yourself down like that. Take care.

you sound like robot4000.

Why not, I just want somebody to love

You say that, but dealing with the constant sadness when nothing you do will help gets you down. I deal with it enough taking care of my mother and having to do the same for another would destroy me. I don't need two people I care about telling me how they want to die, cry a lot or don't care about anything.

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Because fembots aren't real friend.

No, I'm not that person. Sorry if you had a bad experience with someone, user. People can be horrible.

There are 3.7 billion girls in the world, there have to be some who are autistic enough to be on Jow Forums

if there are the second they get here they're no longer bots

>1, 200 pounds
My brain stopped for a second, before reading it again, I just imagined a giant hamplanet.
Thanks for the laugh OP

I assumed they would want to try for you like you do for them.

Yeah, I probably should have wrote that better

Nah, if you read properly it's fine.
When I see a text, I'm attracted to big numbers and look at them before reading the text.
That's what made me enter the thread.

Femanons would you date a guy who is a NEET on NEETbux, 5ft 4 , 120pounds and looks below average?

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I know this is posted ironically, but, just to add to the discussion. What would a woman gain from such a relationship?

Love, affection and a househusband who cleans and cooks.
>I know this is posted ironically
y-yeah

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this. A generation of broken household kids raised on youtube and vidya.

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What kind of idiot do you have to be to think robots don't want girlfriends?

if he's nice to me and we're sexually compatible then ya

Oooh, I know they want girlfriends. But as most of the robots wouldnt date an ugly fat girl, I too question what a woman would gain from dating someone who has no (apparent) qualities. I mean, you enter a relationship to gain something, be it money, the good feeling of being with someone pretty or to be closer than friends to someone they enjoy talking and spending time with.

drop discord rn

What if I'm not actually depressed but just have low affect.
Am I datable or do I need to constantly be signalling and faking cartoonish emotional reactions

I would date an ugly fat girl if she was nice and at least gave me a chance. I'm not a neet either.
I just want someone whose worth it, who I can spend time with.

cute boy her talk to me on discord

tfw no fembot gf

x_x#6666

Sorry for the late response. You don't have to deny someone the chance of a romantic relationship outright, but you might want to save it for a later time. As I stated before, you emotional and physical intimacy can hinder someone's progression with recovery, so it's best to be cautious with it. Starting off with just helping and supporting each other may be for the best.

As for the difference in how men and women experience depression, I agree with you that women generally experience loneliness and depression to a lesser degree on average, simply because women have a greater chance of getting monetary and social support. Weakness in men is more stigmatized due to their gender, they get less sympathy (especially since a lot of their unhappiness tends to turn into aggression) and arguably it's easier for men to become isolated from society.

I'd date ugly, OR fat. Not both. I'd be a solid 7 if I weren't fat, maybe an 8 if I got fit too. Since I'm not, I'd date a fat girl who is in a similar boat, or a butter face skinny/whatever other body type. Other than those 2 very low fucking bars, they just have to not have been a slut, and not have kids. And no coal burners, but that's a given.

depresed boys are my fav my mummy instinct awakens

I thought I might give you guys some more info about me (op)
>6ft 1in
>200lbs
>light brown hair
>white
>American
>Currently in high school
Reason for being depressed = I used to be bullied alot when I was fatter and weirder so now I have almost no confidence whatsoever also I'm really lonely and my grades suck

My dream girl would be someone who's short (around 5 feet tall), cute, thick, funny, and I can snuggle with and kiss and tell them how much I love them but I'm not that picky so along as you're descent looking and have a good personality I'd definitely take it

high school
lolololo

get out you fucking underage

femanons, would you date a 5'9" sort of handsome white guy with gainful employment and who owns a house if he were 220 lbs?

There are plenty of 18 year olds in high school

just because you're technically not underage doesn't mean you're not an underage faggot

grow up a little boy

I could really use a mommy gf right now to call me a good boy and pat my head

>Just because you're not under age doesn't mean you're not under age

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1200 pounds is a lot dude.

6 foot 1 inch and 200 pounds not 1200 pounds

no faggot u said 1200 fat lord xD

If I was 1200 pounds the bed I'm laying on right now would probably break

The fuck is that filename nu-fag?

Idk I just googled retarded wojak