Can someone please explain to me this mommy fetish Jow Forums has...

Can someone please explain to me this mommy fetish Jow Forums has? Is this limited to Jow Forums or do normal guys in the wild have it too?

Do boys want me to pretend to be their mommy? Spank them? Give them chores. Help me understand this.

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the fetish comes from all the millennials who have failed to reach adulthood and want their perpetual adolescence to be a fetlife thing instead of a pathetic indictment of their whole existence.

so it's more than just sexual. When a boy wants me to be his "mommy" it's not just a kink but he literally wants me to be a replacement mom? :/

Yes we have to deal with your "daddy" bullshit so don't act surprised

Pretty much. Blame his parents for that.

>Do boys want me to pretend to be their mommy? Spank them? Give them chores. Help me understand this.

No they want you to provide love, understanding and compassion. Sage.

in general yeah, but you're gonna have to talk about it with whatever individual you wanna get involved with and see how they react to your boundaries.

I think it'd be important to determine if they're otherwise a functional independent adult to make sure you're not putting yourself in a "replacement mom" type situation.

Even if it's not for that, I think a lot of millennials are insecure about their status as adults, even if they're mostly functional in that way. You really gotta look closer at an individual though and see what they feel about it.

it's not a bad thing people who had a good mom who cared about them and showed them love will want their wife to have the same qualities.

Don't talk about mommy fetish when women all love to call their lovers daddy. The fact that it's hot when they do it but gross when guys want mommy's is dispicible.

Also, it's mainly here. Robots have never experienced love. The only love they likely would have experienced is that of there mother so to them that sort of mother son relationship is ideal love since it's all they know. There is also something to be said for feeling vulnerable and opressed by the world and developing a desire for a protective mother figure.

in general i look for qualities my mother has when i look at women. the best girls i have ever been with are most like my mother.

>be me 24 work as cook
>hook up with hostess
>catch feels
>she leaves for school
>stop hookin up, stay friends
>hang out during summer, fun sexual tension. nothing comes of it
>she goes to rwanda on peace corps
>still talk, message her when i think of her
>mother is seeing therepist
>"user, do you know anonette?"
>"her mother is my therepist! what a small world"
>mfw i tell her i used to hook up with anonette
>mfw i tell her it's because she reminds me of my mother
>mfw my mother might know about my Oedipus complex now

the daddy thing is gross but a little more understandable. I can be daddy to my girl, then knock her up and my role as daddy doesn't change.

If I have a gf who's being my mommy, and i knock her up and we have a kid, she's not my mommy gf anymore, she's my baby's mommy, and i'm a daddy now too. The dynamic changes a lot.

Though I think a lot of the daddy thing exists for the same reason that the mommy thing exists, our generation of kids who failed to launch as adults.

It's not mainly here, "a man grows up to his marry his mother" saying has been around forever. People who were abused by their mom are the ones who grow up insecure about women

>Help me understand this
im not op but i would like to know

Type in "puer aeturnus carl jung". Basically it's people who havent coped with growing up well and so want to go back to their childhood where their mothers made them feel safe and secure.

We don't actually call her mommy we just want a girl with motherly traits and was similar to our mom. Your daddy issue is concerning because it implies you want to fuck your daughter

Men are having a hard time being the stereotype of the stone man who has no feels and never buckles. The one who is always the support of the relationship, who beats his troubles with a stiff upper lip. They want compassion, empathy, understanding, love, and support. Someone they can be vulnerable around. As woman who are looking for partners often ghosted or mocked them for these desires, they seek one who is similar to the woman that doesn't, their mother.

It's a Jow Forums thing. Most men are dominant and want you to call them daddy. I know I do.

None of those things, but if you'd let me rest my head on your chest once and a while and stroke my hair, That would be absolutely fantastic.

you can have a normal gf with motherly traits, it's not the same has having a mommy gf, or a gf you call "mommy". By that logic, it implies you want to fuck your mother.

That's not vad. What's bad is wanting your gf to treat you like a child.

Not all guys are like that, but I'd say the majority of guys on r9k are like that. I don't think that's healthy at all and goes beyond fetishism into bizarre obsession. I personally just like when girls roleplay as my mother because it makes everything feel much more taboo. I also like femdom, so that plays into it, but I like submissive mommies too. I don't want a replacement mother, I'm perfectly happy with my real mother.

Having similar qualities and being a replacement are different things.

Whats wrong with replacing my mom with a younger girl with the same traits who I can also fuck? I respect my mom and I would respect my gf. But girls have no feelings and just want to be bent over and fucked by the top alpha and they don't really care what the man wants. At best she'll call him daddy just to boost his fragile ego.

What is your point? They are the same people the only difference is how they label the relationship. You wouldn't call your gf your daughter even though she calls you daddy 50 times a day

what you call it makes all the difference user

for example, i hung out with a girl every weekend, took her on dates and had sex with her, talked to her a lot in between, but we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, and it was totally different than it would've been if we were boyfriend and girlfriend.

it's not a mommy gf if she's just feminine and does a lot of caretaking stuff for you. it's a mommy gf if she does all that and you call her mommy.

These are just my thoughts on it, so take that as you will.

To a guy, his mother is like a foundation stone. Moms are the woman that guys are most comfortable around. She loves me and only wants the best for me, and I love her and want to protect and makes sure she has she knows that I love her.
But when a guy gets older, we start wanting sex. Obviously we can't fuck our moms, so we look for a girl that can fill the hole of not being loved, treasured, or encouraged by our moms, and with the benefit of being able to have sex with her.

Especially now, when women are the most sexually active they've ever been in recent history, having someone who loves you more than just for your dick is rare. And because of that, motherly love from a woman is almost sacred.

Women don't realize that the most powerful words they can say to a man who deeply loves them is "I believe in you, and I'll follow you wherever you go." that in essence is why a mommy gf is so appealing. Men need encouragement now more than ever, and a mother's encouragement is something holy.

Compare this to the Victorian era, where woman wanted to marry older men who acted as a proxy father figure to them. The wants of men and women are swapping places.

>I believe in you, and I will follow you wherever you go
Fuck this hurt to read. My heart.

i think a lot of normie guys have a mommy kink but they just won't ever say it

You're just making it complicated. Men want a girl who is as similar to their own mother as possible I don't think OP was referring to the extremes versions of men who wear bibs and act like children. Most men want a mommy gf. Most girls want a daddy bf. Only difference is the man can't call her mommy

I'd say a lot of guys would be into it but they keep their feelings secret.

I don't want a mommy gf, I want a wifey gf. In terms of what she does for me, there's not much of a difference, but in terms of where i stand relative to her there's a big one.

Lol I should have scrolled down before I posted, you took the words right out of my mouth.

I just want a woman who I can cuddle with and berry my face in her tits. Who gently dominates me. I don't want someone to do my fucking laundry.
Is it really so much to ask?

So you want a mommy gf you just don't call her mommy. Instead you have to cater to your wifes daddy issues. You can still be dominant and have a mommy gf.

I love how threatened women are at the concept of taking care of their boyfriend

Were you planning to get yourself a robot all of a sudden, wtf do you care so much lol

>a girl where you could actually just lay your head on her lap and cry yourself out and still can live with and fuck roughly after
That part has a nice ring to it even for me, desu.

But most females simply do not work that way.
"weakness = eww bad choice" is an inner instinct, and few girls will rise above their instincts in partnership things. Not like they are even trying to especially today, with attempting to make up what they get told their poor grannies were not allowed to do by the ebil patriarchy.
The other weirdo stuff like "mommy feed me and change my diapers!" seems just the kink shit added to that by people going overboard imo. Not like women who want to get subbed, choked, playraped or are into DDLG should think they have too much room to complain there though.

>le millenials boogeyman

My father is literal soviet boomer and he has mommy issues. And he's infantile, irresponsible manbaby who thinks everyone in the world own him.

MOMMY MOMMY MILKY MOMMY MILK MOMMY

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