Virgin

Are you a virgin? Be honest. Also, if you're a virgin... explain why and your feelings about it.

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Yes
Social ineptitude
sad

I am. this is the board for virgins, is it not?
>why and your feelings about it
never tried to get laid. I didn't care about it in hs but it bothers me now

Yes cus I'm socially retarded. I'm more bummed out by the fact I'm not having it now rather than the fact I've never had it. I don't even wanna fuck, I just wanna gf to have passionate romantic sex with.

I'm not, which is nice but it's still been two years since I had any, and that makes me a sad user.

no but it's been years and the last time was an escort. oddly ive lost a ton of weight since than but it's dry spell a go go. ah well im enjoying life now that im healthier

OP, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate anyone who serves up quality ASSHOLE on r9k

There aren't that many of us. opie is a saint

>is it not
not really.

Total insecurity, low self-esteem, anger, sadness, etc.

Yeah
Rotten personality
Its alright

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Yes
Fat, ugly, social anxiety
Don't really care

yes, because I'm incompatible with almost everyone, no chrasima, I'm a listener, I'm passive, no motivation or passion, unrelatedable, and no looks. I'm not interested in others unless they're entertaining, I'm curious about something, or potential sex partner if they're a girl. I'd like to get my dick wet, but I've tried and it's exhausting for the type of person I am. I'm not a romantic person. I'm very shallow.

27 year old virgin. I only want to lose it in a committed relationship but that will be very hard to achieve for me. I can't get even get a job.

I'm considering to discontinue trying at all because people say it's not that great. I believe I may be happier as a virgin for life.

Yes.
I'm gay and I only like twinks and my body is kinda fucked up in some ways causing me to be too self conscious so I've spent several years in my room just watching anime and playing vidiya. Just recently I have remedied some issues with my body, had another existential crisis causing me to seek out a bf and now I just had my first kiss two days ago.

Yes.
I don't talk to people much, especially girls.
Indifferent for the most part. It just seems overrated for all the hype it gets but then again, I ain't got my dick wet yet so I wouldn't know.

32 year old virgin. ive basically been a hermit since i was a teenager and don't interact with anyone

yes
I'm just scared of women
I'm just waiting to die

Yes
Ugly
I don't really care

Yes fat and low self esteem
At least I'm working on those issues

27 and yes
Developed a deep rooted insecurity from having a small dick. Realized it when I was 14 and never recovered. Sad part is women openly said they want to sleep with me.
I'm sad about it. But at the same time I know it's my fault. The older I've gotten, the harder it's become to relate to people. The divide has only gotten wider and I feel like a stranger in a strange land.

Yes
I played video games all day & my parents never forced me to do chores or leave the house.
Whatever, all I care about is money now.

Yes, it's because i've got no self esteem and confidence to talk to a girl. I don't really care about it much anymore, never had a huge libido anyway.

I'm 23 and a virgin
I haven't talked to female in 5 years

Yes
People find it weird
I feel less of a man

Yes (i'm only 18 though).
i'm nearly incapable of talking to people. i'm not really sad about being a virgin, more so the loneliness that comes with having no friends and bad social skills. to be honest, i'd probably freak out if i knew someone was romantically or sexually attracted to me and then fuck up whatever relationship there was.

No, but for those anons who are, it doesn't really feel great UNLESS it's someone you actually love.

I lost mine to a long-time friend but not one I am emotionally invested in. Was pretty sloppy and didn't feel any better than fapping. We did it 4 times.

Some months later I got myself a girlfriend and the sex was absolutely mind-blowing compared to before. Trust me anons, even if you'll make it, don't expect too much unless it's your qtpie gf.

Yes, 27 here.
Passivity and not really being very integrated into society, social ineptitude.
Sort of sad, but also sort of a dull acceptance, like life could have been much better and completely different but there's no point really contemplating what could have been over what is.
Something like that.

I just turned 30 and I've fucked at least a dozen hookers since I was 26. Never been in a relationship or gotten sex without paying though.

27
but I've been lifting and running regularly and I actually get horny around girls and can talk to them for a few sentences before I mess up
for years I would just turtle up
so I'm getting better but I'm so so far behind

>yes
>too loyal for hookups but can't put up to a woman's bullshit for long enough as to get a gf and fuck
>never suffered for it

yes
grossly overweight and socially inept
I've grown comfortable with it

>Are you a virgin?
Look where I am, of course. I'm 27.

>explain why
I was pathologically shy and extremely introverted when I was younger (in HS and the first two year of university, which is also when you meet the most women) and then after that I just honestly never bothered trying. I now work an extremely demanding job (capital markets) so I don't even really have time to go out and meet women anyways.

>your feelings about it
I used to think I was just like everyone else. Once I realized everyone around me had already had sex, I began to feel really embarrassed and ashamed even. One of my female friends actually felt sorry for me and offered a pity fuck (this was when I was 23). I declined and immediately regretted doing so, but in the long run I think it was for the better, things between us would have gotten super awkward otherwise. Nowadays I just don't really... care. I'm not sure if that's because I have a ton of money and spend a lot of time at my job (and thus just end up distracting myself), or if it's just because of a genuine lack of interest in sex and a feeling that I'm complete as a person without it. I'd like to think it's the latter, because even in my shame phase, I didn't try to change my situation, I thought it was just too much of a bother and there were other things I wanted to focus on.

I'm not. Have slept with several women.
It's because I'm not a slob or totally socially inept.
I don't care. Being a virgin is somehow a hallmark of young men who are insecure. Sex isn't that great m8s, it's usually very awkward and funny. Just take LSD and play video games instead, it lasts longer.

I don't really mind being a virgin, I can still nut whenever I want and I don't have to talk to women.

>I used to think I was just like everyone else. Once I realized everyone around me had already had sex, I began to feel really embarrassed and ashamed even
I know this feel. It didn't dawn on me that a ton of people were having sex in high school until I was almost a senior. It took even longer for me to realize that many probably started in middle school.

And like you, I'm way too focused on my career and making money.

>It didn't dawn on me that a ton of people were having sex in high school until I was almost a senior
The thing is, people in my high school WEREN'T having sex. I went to an extremely competitive and prestigious university prep school, and all people were focused on all the time was marks, extracurriculars, marks, volunteer work, and marks. There was no time for relationships outside of strictly platonic relationships that would get you into a better university. It absolutely blew my mind to find out years later that over 60% of high schoolers in the general population had supposedly had sex by their senior year, because in my school it was honestly probably closer to 10-15%.

When I was actually in university, I didn't really meet a lot of people (again, studying) and I lived with my parents. I just sort of assumed that most "intellectuals" were still virgins by the age of 20 (I thought the "average age of 17-18 was for the rabble classes), until I realized that they had either fucked like rabbits starting in grade 9, or failing that, all fucked like rabbits in first year. That is when the 4-5 years of melancholy first set in.

>And like you, I'm way too focused on my career and making money
This is the way to be. Although I still like to come here to remind people that there is an alternative from chad or incel: volcel. Focus on something other than sex. It's great.

>Sex isn't that great m8s, it's usually very awkward and funny.

But that does sound great.
I want to be awkward and funny with somebody I love.

turning 25 next month, virgin.

i stopped caring about the sex. intimacy is what i desire. what does going on a date feel like, what do you do on them? what does holding hands or kissing feel like? what about hugs? what do they all feel like? it's all foreign to me, i cant mentally visualize it or conceptualize it.

Yes.
idk, never cared or tried, maybe I'm just ugly.
I don't really care, if it didn't happen in the last 18 years, its never gonna happen. So long I have a hand it's OK by me.

I'm 30 years old.

I don't even know how I feel about it anymore. Resentful? Resigned?

I'm messed up in so many ways so it was probably a foregone conclusion. I deeply hate myself, not directly because of being a virgin, but the reasons I hate myself are why I'm a virgin. I'm basically a mentally ill, short, lazy-eyed, weak, autistic, cowardly, ugly fuck. I walk really strangely and have a weird twitch that makes it look like I'm crazy (I guess I am). I'm also fat and balding but I wasn't always that way obviously so I can't really blame that. I am instant repellent to any woman under the age of 40, even coworkers. Anyone over that age at least treats me like a fellow human being.

I never had a chance and I still can't decide if I am still bitter over it or not

Not a virgin but I havent had sex in 13 years.

I lost it at 27 to a mega slut.
I just don't seem to give off attractiveness to 999/1000 women who I interact with

Yes
Wanted to wait for someone special, but no dice thus far cuz everybody at uni is whoring around
>life could be worse

Yes
I chose the stay celibate until marriage for religious reasons and for the longest time I continued not because I wanted to but because of some sense of duty. I was at odds with myself and angry because of it for a while but now I've come to terms with it and i think its because ive matured. Before I did't care how or with who i had it with i just fantasied about it but now I realize that even if i wasn't a virgin anymore i still wouldn't be happy. It'[d be a lot like masturbating i imagine. While its happening its amazing and you have such a dopamine high its unreal but when you finish you feel disgusted and hollow. Empty. I realize that not having had sex is the disease but the symptom and the real disease is loneliness.

Are the wizard powers good at least?

There are no wizard powers. Sorry.

34 manlet with a 3/10 face. i have no career because i've been resigned to never becoming anything and have been a NEET with my mother. i think personality i am fine, and my dick is above average

Alright, so...I am a virgin. Never had a woman touch my naked penis. It's partially involuntary, I mean I'd have loved to have lost it by now, but part of it's just that I don't know how to escalate things to a level where sex is a possibility.

It hasn't really affected my life otherwise, I'm a normie in pretty much every other sense, but I just can't seem to charm a woman into bed with me.

Yeah
No sex appeal/ugly. Have an STD even though I have never had sex. Small cock. I can tell that others become uncomfortable just from talking to me regardless of gender.
I got an escort once, but I didn't have enough for sex. After she left the loneliness came back and I realized that I don't want sex, I just someone to love and be with me.

haha of course not
thanks for the porn though bro
you guys have the best taste in porn i swear lol hoping to get something like this setup with a couple of my coworkers soon

Damn haha, Just imagine a white boy like me gently leading my wife blind folded into a room just filled with big black bulls hahaha
I gently take the blindfold off and watch her gasp as she eyes the thick throbbing black cocks that just surround her hahahaha
Just imagine me watching my wife get filled in ways I just simply cant manage with my little white dick (lwd)
I bend over and get fucked hard up the ass while I apologize for my white privileged and recite the Gettysburg address
Just imagine haha

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Half
I fucked a girl when I was drunk one time years ago but I did not cum as she was horridly ugly.
It did not change my social abilities at all and I am just as awkward with women now.
Life is meaningless and suicide is neigh

>I used to think I was just like everyone else. Once I realized everyone around me had already had sex, I began to feel really embarrassed and ashamed even
I know this feel so fucking much. It happened out of no where. I thought everyone was just like me, then I find out everyone is dating, having sex and all this shit. Completely blindsided and alienated. I also felt the embarrassment because I didn't even kiss a girl and all these people were having sex.

Lol Richie you cunt

>32 year old virgin. ive basically been a hermit since i was a teenager and don't interact with anyone

me, except 31

who is that to the right?

nice vagene lul

thanks to the porn Saints I can see this whole scene, entirety
thanks opie as well!

Yes
Late puberty (basically juniour/senior of hs)
Not bitter just lonely

yes
girls arent sexually atracted to me
sad

yea, didnt really seem worth the effort but now I just wanna stick my dick in something

www.pornflip.com/v/IWOm533xkRr

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No, I just fucked my first gf ever properly for the first time last night. We are together for 2 months but I could never get it hard. Still didn't cum. My death grip has desensitized my dick to the point where I can't feel anything after 5 thrusts into the vagina

I've fucked like 50 girls dude

This board was never for virgins you faggots just plagued it and are slowly getting edged out. You people don't belong anywhere but somewhere alone.

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High intelligence, endeavoring in more important things while looking forward to losing it when the time is ripe to someone special to me.

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>Are you a virgin?
I am.
>why
There's a lot of factors. I'm really shy and insecure about pretty much everything imaginable. I don't really have any experience even talking to girls (0 experience in "intimate" talking or being with anyone). I have gone so long without human touch that it feels almost otherworldly to even imagine it. Even if an opportunity has come right in front of me I have never been able to act and always just want to leave as fast as I can.
I guess one factor might be that when growing up all the other boys started playing with the girls at some age and I never really got into that development and to this day I have never really experienced interacting with girls. And when you are 24yo it seems kinda hard to start from 0.
>your feelings about it.
Kinda sad and disappointed in myself. I hear around me people talking about all kinds of sexual experiences they have and it just seems so bizarre like "do people actually interact with each other?".
I occasionally have dreams where I just feel the warmth of a persons skin on mine and that is like that is like the best feeling ever.
It can be so annoying because I want it so bad but when something comes that would direct me to the right path I sabotage myself almost unconsciously.
But no one really deserves the punishment of having to be with me and I understand that.

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Am a virgin, don't feel too bad about it (gets worse when I hear people that are 14 talking about exes). I am in constant want for a girlfriend the past few months. Pics like your's sometimes makes me want sex, but I choose to not look at those pictures for over a second.

This is the virgin board. Incels don't belong here. robot virgins are not the same as the reddit incels

oh right, there's a why - I'm not trying to force getting a girlfriend. Maybe it's a coping thing, but I don't feel bad. Also I don't want to spend money

Yes. I am completely apathetic to it. It's not even a concern to me, I've got much more important things to worry about like finding a way to keep a roof over my head. Even then, a lack of human connections never really bothered me beyond the inconvenience of not being able to easily find work to put food on the table. I absolutely loathed everyone at some point in my childhood/teenage-rage years, and while most of that loathing has subsided I have no desire to become close to another human being or to be socially accepted, as I find the typical social activities kind of mind-numbing since I can't really participate. I am a "negative person", though my negativity is more from a lack of positivity from society rather than going "this sucks on ice" or what have you.
Why would I care if it's part of a life that has nothing to do with me? That's how I see it.

yes
social/religious conditioning and various mental disorders
fulfilled

>Are you a virgin? Be honest.
yes

>Also, if you're a virgin... explain why
i dunno, im short, im shy, im not very good at social stuff

>and your feelings about it.
it sucks, i just want a gf to shower with affection

im a virgin and of course i feel kind of bad about it,
but at the same time many of the people i know and all of my friends are virgins as well (i suppose), which makes it less bad for me.
also, when i look at people who got laid and how they are, i cant help but think that if theyre able to lose their virginity,
i must be able to do that too

25 year old virgin reporting in.
Only feel bad about it insofar as virtually everyone else has lost their virginity by my age.
I take solace in the fact that I could've easily lost it by now if my main objective were simply to insert penis into vagina.
But I only really have any sexual desire for girls I find exceptionally attractive, and unfortunately so far I haven't found one that reciprocates my feelings.

Which means I'll probably die a virgin. But oh well.

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I've always viewed having sex with someone as like a luxury I'm not worthy of. I've never made attempts to get laid so I'm not resentful at the world for being a virgin

Yep, not sure if I want to get laid

I like porn and masturbating but I've never been attracted to someone

Also don't like the idea of having someone rely on me like emotionally

I'd kind of like to try it but I'm okay without

I put my dick inside a vagina but I lost my erection almost instantly so I just put it out after 3 or 4 seconds
am I still a virgin ?
this unironically happened.

yeah i am, i'm basically autistic and i have a fucked up body from scoliosis which i'm very self-conscious of so i'll probably die a virgin. also i'm in my mid-20s unlike most faggots complaining about virginity here who are in their teens.

You're the danny phantom of virgins, stuck somewhere in the middle, destined to broker peace between the virgins and the chads as foretold in prophecy

Yes
Cuz i'm an ex muslim and i live in a muslim country

No
I lost my virginity at 21 to a woman 8 years older than me off a mmo, had sex with her about 10ish times. It was a good experience, I feel like I have more confidence in myself and left most of the awkwardness I had behind.

Well, the first kiss thing made me a little happy to read.

You can do it gay user. Also, gays have it easier with sex.

I'm 22 and a virgin. I'm quite good looking and 6ft2, but I have a babyface so look about 16. At HS a lot of girls were into me and in hindsight I know I was regarded as one of the hottest guys in my grade by them, but I was too nervous to reciprocate their obvious flirting so missed my chance to get a gf as now girls my age think I look immature. I have developed social skills and self-awareness over the past few years, but I'm not good at making friends or forming connections because as an INTP I basically live in my own head and find most people really superficial, along with having zero interest in normie shit like music, TV shows etc whilst being autistically obsessed with shit like trains that makes people think you're a weirdo.

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Fucking damn..that fat pussy on the right got me diamonds, FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK

yes
don't know how to initiate talking to girls and to scared to develop a relationship because of my flaws
mixed feelings really, I want it really bad but I also try to convince myself that I don't need it cause I need to focus on other things like uni and my job

Yes. I'm 28 and a virgin. I am a virgin because I never knew how to approach people. Always helped friends being a "wingman" but friends never helped me. I don't care anymore, I plan on dying alone. I feel no sex drive.

Ssme here user.
It seems this world ust wasnt meant for us.

Get some blood tests done, I did and now Im waiting on meeting an endocrinologist

Good fucking lord
this is literally me except for the high paying job.

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I'm a virgin because I'm socially inept and I don't know how to approach girls. A few times I've had girls show interest in me but I screw it up each time because of how autistic I am. How does it make me feel? It used to make me feel sad and embarrassed but now I don't really feel anything anymore. I just accept it.

Doesn't matter. I know i'm zero testosterone, I didn't start puberty until i was 18 and finished at 21. I needed to take testosterone shots to even get it to start. I don't care at all. Hormone therapy won't fix me not being able to approach people without fear. I have a good job and my own place, but money can't buy people skills.

>I didn't start puberty until i was 18 and finished at 21

Wtf man. I hit puberty at 14 but I'm still in it at 21 (voice cracks, facial hair still spreading)

I still had patchy facial hair at 21. But I went from 5ft to like 6'1 in less than 2 years. Thats what no testosterone to testosterone shots to no testosterone does. I don't even know if I'm sterile. My cum is white which is a good sign but the rest of me is androgynous, which women hate.

What I meant to write is I still have patchy facial hair at 28.

I'm 21 and this is eerily similar to my situation

Yes! ^_^
Lack of effort and no desire to lose it. :3c
Virginity makes me feel pure, innocent and cute! UwU

No, I unironically lost my virginity a week ago (22y/o btw and she didn't even notice I was a virgin)

I'm a virgin and almost 20 and probably will stay that way because I refuse every guy that asks me for a date. When I was young a older teen boy stuck his finger in there and I'm petrified to be alone with a guy since. I mean I have liked guys a lot but soon as I have sexual feelings for them and they try to get me alone, even a date together I freeze and go hide.