ONEITIS : Who uses it and why

I think this mating strategy is used with the idea that affection for her can be intimated to her over the course of time until it reaches a bursting point where you finally reveal to her that you have lusted for her and ONLY her for such a long time and she'll be charmed by this. It's like putting all your ability points into one thing with the idea that if you were to show interest in more than one girl and distribute your points amongst them, then there won't be enough points to get any one of them.
This idea that she will be exceptionally charmed by the idea that you "have had a crush on her exclusively" for a long time is actually pretty ridiculous when you look at it. Yet it feels like the best idea when you're doing it. There's a feeling of entitlement, like you've put in the "work" and demonstrated the requisite devotion and you've been "good" instead of "bad, like all those other greedy assholes who spread their ability points out", so now you have maximized your chances and she owes you sex and should be your girlfriend.
It's a good way to avoid having people say to you, "WHO do you think you are?" since you're not qualified to be a player. It's basically an "I don't want to get in trouble, I'm a good boy" behavior.
It's making it so that your main selling point is that you are loyally lusting after her for a long time and it should count for something. Demonstrating and telling about your loyalty before entering into a relationship doesn't get her pussy wet though. This strategy says "I am banking on professed loyalty being the most important thing and it's really all I've got. I don't think I have a chance otherwise."

Do we betas always develop oneitis as a mating strategy? Does Chad or Tyrone ever use it?

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nah, oneitis is the result of media forcing the concept of emotional faithfulness as an attractive trait down people's throats. Hapless betas take it at face value rather than seeing it as the smokescreen of rationalization that women put up as their excuses for shy the fuck chad and tyrone instead of billy beta.

"I just feel co connected to chad ('s cock), tee hee"

This doesn't exactly contradict what I'm saying. This strategy is safe and presentable, so it might get put into some G movies.

I can't even relate to this. It just sounds like one big rationalization for orbiting while at the same time doing the very things that turn women off. Guys who behave this way are hopeless, but I don't think they even want to improve.

It's a holdover from living in small villages where you know everyone for your whole life.

Yeah, I do this with the intention of avoiding sexual intercourse. I want to have a moment where I reveal that I have oneitis and then kill myself.

I think this is some pathetic attempt at sarcasm, but if it indeed is, you're missing the point so badly that I can't be sure regardless

This. Our technology and living situation has changed far faster than our minds have adapted to it.

>I can't even relate to this. It just sounds like one big rationalization for orbiting while at the same time doing the very things that turn women off.
Do you live in a big city? I'm a city kid and I kinda wish I knew what it was like to have a oneitis or the same group of people in my life for several years. I feel like most city kids rotate schools or houses and don't get to experience shit like a oneitis.

It's not sarcasm. I WANT to orbit without actually ever consummating it. I know now that it will turn the girl off. I don't want to improve.
Why did you add "pathetic" in front of "attempt at sarcasm"?