I admitted to my mom that I'm a virgin and have no chance with women. I'm 34 years old and I'm a kissless virgin. I told her I've never had a girlfriend before and probably never will, I'm a complete failure with women. I'll never be able to give her grandchildren and I apologized to her. My mom didn't believe me but she came to realize it was true.
She started crying and blames herself for being a bad mom. She asked me to forgive her for failing me. She then went to her room and has stayed there for hours. After some time, my mom came around and she started acting really nice to me. She started asking if there was anything she could do for me and was going out of her way to do things for me. I guess she feels guilty but I just feel bad making her do anything so I just say no.
My mom has been asking me things like if I hate her or if I blame how I turned out because she failed to find me a father. I feel like a piece of shit. I didn't want to make her feel bad, I just didn't want to pretend anymore.
Explain that none of this is her fault and it's the betas that uphold roasties that created this problem
Camden Diaz
Use the guilt to get her to consent to taking your virginity
You've already ruined her life, might as well get some pleasure out of it
Blake Perez
Turn every crisis into an opportunity. You're going places if you haven't already, user.
Blake Parker
Stop samefagging you samefaggot
Hunter Johnson
Do this op orif
Sebastian Cruz
Have her help you become less pathetic. Get gym membership, have her put you on a regiment of masculinity. Take up mechanics at the community learning centre
Camden Wright
Why don't you just fuck a hooker ???
Mason Lopez
Well tell her it's on you and not her.
Hudson Allen
Hookers don't love you, they only love your money.
Ryder Perez
Tell her it was all a lie and that you're actually just gay which is why you can't give her grandchildren.
>She started asking if there was anything she could do for me and was going out of her way to do things for me I've seen a few documentaries of this exact situation. Convince her to give you a handjob and work up from there.
Not everyone needs to get married and have children. I know the instinct is there and maybe it won't ever go away but you need to find new meaning to life. Do something for yourself and stop trying to live for society.
I kind of blame my mom for being an abusive mental cunt to my brother and I growing up I'm a virgin and I think he is too, he weighs like 370lbs now and is on disability
Camden Richardson
Mental abuse causes a form of brain damage, fun fact. It can ruin someone for life even years or decades down the road.
Lucas Robinson
after highschool I snapped and couldn't form ideas and just sat in my room literally doing nothing I couldn't even fap or focus on tv or play video games my parents 5150'd me into a mental hospital
I was in western psych the week before there was a mass shooting there lol it a couple days after whitney houston died
Robert Diaz
I feel a fucklot of rage against my own mother, for the same reason you should, but I can't get myself to throw it at her face even though it would be liberating.
I hate my whole life and I feel that a big part of it is on her for imposing my abusive stepfather into my life after I lost my dad.
Carson Reyes
>She started crying and blames herself for being a bad mom
Gee, I really wished my mother would do this. She doesn't give a fuck at all.
user, the norms of this world aren't for everybody. Rather than comparing yourself to others, look at what you have. Your mother sounds like a wonderful woman, so let her know that. If you want to fix things, try to fix them. Go out and about. Find people who like you for who you are. Rather than posting Nippon images on a Yugoslavian recycling bin, try to find purpose on this God-given Earth. Thoughts and prayers are with you, you foolish user, you.
Elijah Green
You don't. But cheer up. At least you've got good taste in Yuru Yuri's.
There's nothing you can do to fix it. You just have to make sure she knows it isn't her fault and that you don't think she is a bad mom.
Lucas Brown
This is the post I was hoping to see after I read the OP. You please me, fellow robot.
This is unironically true. I read a study recently about how childhood trauma can permanently alter the way your brain functons and genes are expressed, making you more susceptible to stress, mental illness, heart disease and autoimmune disorders for the rest of your life.
Shit is fucked up man.
Levi Johnson
This OP, you're just stupid. Not her fault at all.
Tyler Davis
Ok lets be honest here.
It is ACTUALLY her fault. Not entirely obviously, not 100%. Considering there are people who come from abusive families or without parents turn out to be fine, parents are not the end all be all.
But it is partly her fault regardless, she most likely coddled you, didnt prepare you proper for the real life. Got worried too much when you were outside and didnt let you live your life until it was too late. You dont get spend your entire teenage life essentially in an open air prison and than be expected to act 100% adjusted to real life.
How do i know this? Cause i was in a similar situation, technically am still. Never had a girlfriend until now, was a virgin until 2 months ago until i hired an escort. Women think differently than men do about things life. They can go years and years without sex for example when it would break a man.
So she is partly to blame, in a similar way a serial killer parents somewhat can be blamed or a genius s parents can be admired. She is a single mother, sll statistics show out of any stable parenting that one is the worst. She would have been proud of your any accomplishments right? You dont get to have your cake and eat it too. You failed, she failed; you succeeded, she succeeded.
But, she is not the only one to blame, as stated previously, nurture matters but it is not the end all be all. You had ample chance to loose your v card. You done goofed a bit too with you explaining your situation, she cant get out of it now, she has to face the consequences.
Both of you have fun in your misery.
Wyatt Lopez
Why should your mother be disappointed? It is your life, not hers.
Parker Jackson
Ya finna seethe? Ya finna worked?
Samuel Rogers
Were you embarrassed to admit this to your mother? I am a virgin, although I am only 25, but I've also never had a gf or been on a date or anything, and I feel like I could never tell her that. I sort of wish I could just to let her know but I also don't want to make her feel bad or anything as well as it being kind of embarassing to admit.
Xavier Mitchell
How tall are you and are you ugly?
Dylan Anderson
Oh yeah, and I'm not really sure how you can fix it, I'm sorry, but you can just wait and see if it comes up again or not. Your mother sounds caring though whereas mine calls me a loser and stuff anyway.
Ayden Jones
finally some sensible advice here
Lincoln Garcia
>I was in western psych the week before there was a mass shooting there lol Funniest post I've read in a while
Take advantage nigga after all she dun fucked you up Heh heh Really I mean who raised you? surely not your ownself no one raises themselves we all learn from someone if no one is there to teach us we can never learn.
She sounds like a really nice mom. I don't really see how it's all her fault. I had a pretty good two parent household and still turned out to be a KHV. I don't think it's all in how you're raised. We just have bad genes, dude. Just try to comfort her.
Ryan Hill
>We just have bad genes, dude. To be fair, that is his mom's fault.
Jackson Peterson
He'd have to be an underage to have a mom this young, not to mention he'd be a handsome chad.
Ian Brown
do this wouldn't your mom be like 60?
Aaron Rodriguez
No. My mom is 49.
Colton Hernandez
You are a grown man Yes her parental failures contributed but all parents have parental failures The fact that you thought this was something she needed to know in your fit of emotion shows you have BITCHBOI tendencies..which yeah her not finding a father figure plays a role in but it's your life, these are things you were supposed to seek out yourself and as a 30 something you are way beyond the point where it's appropriate(necessary) to even talk about this with her
As far as how you fix it I'm not sure how you could other than showing the initiative and confronting these issues but if you had that type of fight in you then you wouldn't be in this mess in the first place huh
Brayden Cox
Your mom wants to fuck bro get in it
Samuel Rodriguez
>teen girl anime pic
Of course. Turn that moe shit off moron you're brainwashing yourself to be a little wimp
Ask her to set you up with one of her friend's daughters.
Asher Stewart
Does that kind of thing ever work? Sounds cringey as hell.
Jose Ramirez
OP said to his mom that he is a virgin wizard. Can't get worse than that.
Michael Jenkins
You should have blamed her subhuman DNA
Justin Robinson
Op please update even if its a lie i wanna get hard I only get hard from incest the only women i have seen in years are from my family
Oliver Morgan
I mean, Tim Tebow is technically a wizard, (though it looks like that's about to change) and he's still a complete chad. Perhaps OP should just become a strong Christian, and find a young Christian girl?
Kayden Evans
You can't return to her misunderstanding about how things have been for you so far. She blames herself and she's not entirely wrong about that, but if you insist on relieving her of the guilt anyways, you could try. Shift the blame away from her, blame someone or something else that has plausibly influenced you in early adolescence and perhaps ever since. If you were several years younger, we might be a perfect scapegoat: r9k.
What you maybe can undo is her knowing you're remaining hopeless about the future. It may be very painful for you as long as you feel hopeless yourself, but you could make a show of pretending you're hopeful and working on fixing everything slowly but surely, so she can assume the previously exposed hopelessness was just temporary, you were just in a bad mood.
In some circumstances, it can work quite well. It's been the norm in some cultures throughout history. In OP's case, or anyone else you'll talk to in english in 2019, it's probably an impractical method, but it still might be worth a shot, for the sake of giving his mom some busywork to feel like she's helping, if she's the sort that's good for.
Dude, no joke, I'm 19, and also a kissless non-virgin who's had sex 3 times. Honestly, the experiences were pretty shitty and super fast. Though, I don't get what this has to do with this particular thread...
Yes except to fix a problem you need to know what it is and I don't think he knows since he thought this was an appropriate convo for a 30 something to have with mommy
Joseph Martinez
>my face when OP ends up fucking his mom
#subscribed
Luis Gomez
>you're supposed to hide the most basic facts of your life from your closest family member, forever
