Sexual Healt and Erectile Dysfunction

Bros I truly got my shit fucked up yesterday:
>About to fuck hot big tiddy MILF latina
>We start, but about 3 minutes in I lose my erection
>Pass to oral, get hard again
>Back to fucking, 2 or so minutes at it and lose my erection AGAIN
>Just ended up fingering her
>She told me to go get myself checked and didn´t say bye, just left
>I stay in the room wondering how my own penis could betray me
I can´t fucking go on did I just got ED in my fucking 20s, the only other explanaition possible was the condom, I´ve never done it with a condom but it was one of those extra tin thingys
This has completely crushed the little confidence I had, please tell me what to do. Go to an urologist? Any especific diet? That nofap shit?

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SS + GOMAD

>go get myself checked

she prob meant for herpes lol

start whacking your weasel with a condom on.
that way, you get appropriated to the scent, feel, and method of wearing one.
when (IF) the real thing happens again (maybe for free this time), you should be mentally adjusted.

>pay me

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lmao this. fucking degenerate retard

all of these are true, also fucking text her and say her pussy smelled or something. shes going to talk shit on you unless you make her feel like its her fault.

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I’m 26 and couldn’t get it up last time I had sex. In my defense, the girl I was fucking was really fucking fat and couldn’t move for shit lol. She also didn’t do any foreplay or oral so I can’t count that.

Posted in the /shg/ but it's more relevant here

Yesterday:
>be me 19yo virgin
>sorta have gf, 18yo, also virign
>gf was over last night
>watch a movie and things get hot
>take her to the bedroom and we undress eachother
>I start fingering her (first time for me, and her)
>she likes it very much and she wants to proceed
>thinking "Yes! It's happening"
>I remove her panties, and start removing my boxers
>took some time to remove my boxers
>I am completly flaccid when they come off, mind you I've been rock hard for an hour of foreplay but just before the sex wss supposed to happen I lost it
>try jerkin to get it up again, use sometime and only get a half chub
>we ditch the sex and pursue making out, after a couple minutes I get diamonds again
>but it's too late since she has to leave soon, and the mood was lowered
Wtf guys, I really like this girl, and I find her attractive. Is this just a mental thing? I have no issues getting hard during foreplay/making out but just before the deed it goes limp:(
She taunts me about it playfully next day and tells me not to worry, but it really struck me, how can I fail at the most fundamental in life?
I will stop watching porn and jerk off less, I've also bought some maca just to try it out. Any bros gone through a similar thing when losing virginity etc?

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Get a penis pump. It helps.

damn why are you so autistic
no one has expectations for your sexual performance. your girlfriend is just another person who enjoys hanging out with you.

just enjoy sex. be good to yourself. idiot

Lads, had sex twice with this girl off Bumble. She seemed relatively innocent and is from a conservative country, lost her virginity at 22. Both times she really insisted on me using a condom, which was fine and I didn’t make anything of it. But most recent time (yesterday), after we had sex, she jumps in the shower and I notice she has a box of Valaciclovir (Valtrex) in her drawer which was left open. I noped and 360d our of there, but now I’m kind of worried. Her pussy looked totally normal, there was no outbreak or anything. And she seemed to be at least concerned enough to make me wear a rubber. Am I gonna die?

I’m gonna get tested this week anyway because I’ve fucked too many sluts recently. Is there some minimum period of time that I have to wait before they can pick up on shit like herpes? I got no symptoms whatsoever.

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It ain't you OP, its the condom.
I've worn a condom exactly twice in my life.
Each time, I went soft within a minute of putting it on.
Obviously, I immediately did the grip it off trick when I was pulling out and stuck it back in raw.
MFW never worn a condom all the way through sex.
MFW the bitches never knew.

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It's definitely a mental thing

You've probably watched porn and have the expectation that you must be a god at sex with a supreme erection. Just relax and remember that you're supposed to be having fun and exploring each other. Don't focus so much on penetrating, that should realistically last only a couple of minutes anyways.

Also, it sounds like she doesn't seem too bothered by it. You can try again, just tell her you're a bit anxious.

Honestly, you probably already have it, bro.
Most people have one of the two forms of herpes.
Oral can get on yo dick and vice versa
Most people don't ever show symptoms
I myself get it once in a blue moon
The worst part of the whole experience was finding out I had it when I got tested.
Shit shattered me, completely destroyed confidence and desire/ ability to fuck at all
when from sex god to incel scum
got over it after a few months
moral of story, don't sweat it and ESPECIALLY don't wrap it for other bitches
They deserve to suffer the humiliation that I (and hopefully) you will soon feel.

Thanks, I fucking love you bros, I hope you know that

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God bless you user. Just don't psych yourself out by putting so much pressure on yourself and relax

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>EXTRA THIN CONDOMS

you don't have ED, you have anxiety. if you are here that probably means you work out regularly. ED is primarily caused by a blood circulation issue.

you have this anxiety because you are trying to have random, casual sex with a strange person, and you are nervous because of ego and inexperience.

you should try finding someone you actually like. someone you can develop an intimate connection with in a normative relationship. good sex will take care of itself.

but remember; beware, as modern women are typically bat-shit crazy.

Honestly thank you man, it's the nicest thing I've heard in a while, I tried casual sex because I have 0 game for an actual serious approach, ever since I flunk out of college I just don't know where to find good girls for a relationship
Also just realized this, fuck

If you had ED you wouldn’t have been able to get hard in the first place.
You got memed by your overactive virgin brain lmao.

Nofap meme

could just be pre emptive I guess? idk. never caught anything myself and gone rubber on/rubber off with heaps of women.

Cock ring. Helps you get harder faster, stay harder longer, and keeps you at your max size and rigidity for her pleasure...if that matters to you.

try a light bit of weed/alcohol if you're into that sort of thing, hot shower/bath to loosen up before hand (or just fuck in the shower that can be fun).

it's 100% mental, you're just nervous. i have had sex with about 20 girls and i have had difficulty getting it up plenty of times. you'll get over it

Who are you people fucking?? Lmao

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