Pre-Relationship Cuckery

Fuckkk my life lads

>get Jow Forums in 2018
>get first gf 3 months ago
>chill girl, like her a lot
>sex nearly every day
>basically in love
>at the gym yesterday
>talking to friend-of-a-friend
>find out he knows my gf
>his friend was my gf's ex-boyfriends roommate
>tells me she would have regular 3somes with her boyfriend and his roommate
>start feeling lightheaded, stifle back tears, say 'nah bro' and leave immediately

Even though this is just some random punters conjecture, I still think I have to break up with her.

If I ask her and she says no, I'll never 100% believe it and it'll just be some bullshit that grates me at for years. I'm not an "it's just sex mannn" type progressive guy, it's my first true gf for god sakes, this will fuck with me until the end of time.

If I ask her and she says yes she's had MMF threesomes, that's still a deal-breaker and I'd want to break up.
Basically me looking like an insecure dweeb and her feeling slut-shamed.

I don't see anyway to navigate this, I think a clean and seemingly random break up via text is probably for the best. Thoughts?

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you should go to talk about that to somebody who cares.

I don't have any friends or family that I can tell this to

I have been visiting this board for 5+ years asshole, I help other people out with their problems all the time

Sounds like you should have gotten to know her a bit first.

Don't straight up ask her. She won't tell you the truth. Instead, just make up a story about someone you know having a threesome. The key to getting her to confess is to frame it as it is okay if she did because you are not judging her (even though you are).

Yeah, I wouldn't be able to go on in a relationship knowing that either. I'd break up with her if I were you. But it's a tough situation because there's always a chance that guy was talking out of his ass and then you would have broken up for no reason.
Ask her about it and break up with her if she admits to it. A girl who would not only have threesomes with 2 dudes, but then also think that it's normal and you can talk about it casually with your new boyfriend, is absolutely not worth keeping around.

this user is right, you gotta be subtle with the approach, dont fuck this up. Altho i think youre fucked either way

I wouldn't mind knowing my girlfriend had a past like that. I would ask her details about her experiences and jerk off to the fantasy of her getting double penetrated. But that's just me I guess.

Is that something you ask on a first date, dimwit?

I like the idea but how would that happen exactly. I can't see her volunteering that up unless I first say that I'm into it or something.

That's the shit of it, I don't even know this guy that well, I don't even really like him, he could just be talking absolute bollocks!

You're right, that's "just you"

I think it just a roommate lying trying to sell him self as an alpha fuckboi

Well, if you're going to break up with her do it quick and clean over the phone after having made sure you aren't dependent on her for anything. She's probably gonna be crying and be all like
>just tell me what's wrong and I'll fix it for you!
You're gonna have to put up with a bunch of that shit if you live together or share finances and need to take actual steps towards living independently again. Don't let her sway you over. Maybe you shouldn't even mention the real reason you want to break up and just sell her some bullshit like "I just don't think we're compatible", because she would absolutely deny it otherwise.

>I have been visiting this board for 5+ years
I don't mean to kick you while you're down, but it's an *anonymous* imageboard. There's no tracking of deeds, acts or reputation; Anons are mostly interchangeable by design.

As for your predicament, sorry to hear that. All I know to say is be sure to look at it from multiple viewpoints, get and verify all the relevant information available, and sleep on it. Take your time if you can. Also, do remember that most girls will have a history of some sort, and it usually gets longer with age. Good luck, user. I hope you can find your peace.

>I think a clean and seemingly random break up via text is probably for the best
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If u need any help, u can give me ur discord and I could give u some advice from a females perspective

Also, if no, we can just talk here and i can help u there. I just tought it would easier for u to open up

Jesus I would do anything to have a gf and sex. I wouldn't care at all about what she did before meeting me.

I think you could ask her about it before jumping to breaking up. Sometimes dudes do lie about this shit too, and you shouldn't let this guy sully your relationship without knowing both sides of the story. Of course, keep in mind that she might be lying too. Look out for the common signs of lying, like looking around/avoiding eye contact, or touching her own face. Just ask her about it and see where everything goes from there.

this doesn't seem like a big deal. i mean you knew she wasn't a virgin, so whats the big deal about two dicks instead of one? you've been having a good time with her, why ruin a good thing?

If it we're a good thing, op wouldn't be here bitching at us

and then what? find another gf who was gangbanged before? if your gf is not a virgin who can tell if shes fucked countless guys? have had dozens of abortions? seriously man that is the norm these days either you "settle down" or die alone. you may not like it but it is what it is.

pretty damn based my nigga.

this. even are own mothers are dirty whores. why would you expect any different from todays thots. if you have s problem with it then just don't date or settle down at all.

Break up with her retard

Hmmm...no. Having a cuckhold fetish is a sign of being weak and a general turnoff to 95% of the female population.

How is that a "cuckhold fetish" when he didn't even been in a relationship with her by that time. There are some men who do not have a problem with having a slutty gf, it's not like she's your wife you know.

So don't make it a relationship. Distance yourself and use her for sex until it inevitably falls apart.

Because it will. Because any woman who'd getting gangbanged is damaged goods and will self-destruct the relationship in her own time. Do not get invested.

Literally every time you enter a relationship with a girl that has already had a boyfriend before you, you are committing cuckholdry.

thats not being a cuck lmao

Yes. Break up with her. Also post screen shots.

You have the right to be upset. But it was legit her past. Not even being sjw. If she had done anal with them and refused to do it with you, then I would understand breaking up with her. You need to speak with her. Just be honest. Say that you love her and that you aren't judging her, but let her know that it bothers you.

When are you ever going to get a girlfriend again? Are you going to let this one thing destroy your chance at happiness? The rest of us here have a hard time even imagining having a girlfriend.