>dad just got kicked out of the fucking house, dunno if he'll be back
>only male in the house with three sisters and mother
mom has always been kind of a bitch, but now she and my siblings look at me as though i am the spawn of the devil. i'm a big boy, how can i assert my dominance as the man of the house? get some damn respect from these whores?
dads gone, walk around fully erect and show your mother you're now the man there. fuck her real good
Start planning to leave dude, I can't imagine it's going to get better in that place.
They'll hold you down with their antics and need to act out their angst.
Reach out to your dad, try living with him (as long as he doesn't suck), and let your mother and sisters destroy themselves as nature intended
Or take a shit in the laundrey basket
idk anything about your family, but they are like mine they will probably start blaming you for their problems next.
leave the whores and live with your dad if he will have you. trust me.
OP has not said he is working. if he's a NEET his father can't support him when he's been kicked out
keep your head down and avoid conflict as much as possible
apply to jobs and get a job as soon as possible
once you get your first paycheck, move out
op here
all fantastic suggestions, and some likely predictions. only problem is - while dad kept the harpies in line - he is a deadbeat alcoholic and we weren't very close. got the feeling he'll just drink himself into a stupor, or worse yet, kill himself. got a job, and some money, no car though, and my pals all live with their parents too, doubt they'll have me. feel like i'm stuck with the ladies for now. just need to know how to make it easier on myself, least for the time being.
if you have a job you should move in with your father to get him to stop drinking.
there's something seriously wrong with your relations with your siblings being so negative that they seem to hate you, I think saying you deserve respect from these "whores" might be a good indication. usually no one is just good or bad in situation like these, and there is always more than what meets the eye.
be respectful, understanding and helpful to everyone, don't aggravate things or take sides out of spite, don't be argumentative and insult the people you are living with.
you seem like a very reasonable person.
i feel like everyone who posts here is either sexist racist or something else.
you wanna tell me anything to break my illusion that there's normal people who post on r9?
>sexist racist or something else.
Cool buzzwords, go back to R****t.
Don't be a cuck either, and don't expect change based on your actions or behavior. People, women especially, will act out their feelings, and it won't matter what you did or didn't do.
If they've all got daddy issues, and you're the one man in the house, you should probably find new living arraignments.
why does nobody care about his father?
if OP writes off his dad now he won't have a father in his life any more.
his mother can deal with his siblings by herself. if he doesn't want a broken family he should move in with his father.
Any chance you can help your dad out?
Not assuming he or your mom/sisters don't suck more or less than the other, but alcohol may have been his source of relief from living with them.
Asking out of curiosity as an uninformed third party. Even if you don't live with him, could be good for him to see you here and there and know his son doesn't hate him.
I'm not normal, I grew up in a severely dysfunctional family so I kind of have life experience.
OP has two choices, be passive and try to placate the situation, dramatically increasing his life tenfold, or he can listen to you and aggravate the situation by taking sides, arguing and insulting his family and siblings. I personally would recommend the former, but if he wants to stick to his guns by all means he can.
since OP didn't offer the opportunity to live with his dad, I assumed it wasn't an opportunity, but I never recommended writing him off. it's very important to have a relationship with his father, but he should do it strategically and constructively.
>by taking sides, arguing and insulting his family and siblings.
If you were right, you wouldn't need to lie lmao. I never advocated for any of that, I advocated separation from an intractable situation.
>I'm not normal, I grew up in a severely dysfunctional family
That's normal around here dickweed, we're all speaking from experience.
>be passive and try to placate
That's a fools errand. The demands don't go away, and good luck bearing the emotional burden of four upset women.
>I never advocated for any of that, I advocated separation from an intractable situation.
you said he shouldn't "be a cuck", implying that my recommendation of being constructive and helpful and not being argumentative was cuck advice, unless I've misunderstood. he never indicated he could separate himself, so I think maybe my advice is strategically superior.
>That's normal around here dickweed, we're all speaking from experience.
was what I said meant for you?
You're assuming the worst, perhaps it is impossible, but any situation where siblings irrationally hate you just because he's a male is bizarre, siblings should be the people closest to you in a situation like this regardless of gender. it's not a fools errand, it's worth rationally evaluating the situation without become completely reactionary.
fpbp
how did op ignore this
>he never indicated he could separate himself
It was implied by the fact that he's an adult with a job. He might not even have to move out on his own, he could settle in again with his dad.
>being constructive
>not being argumentative
Again, if you're right you don't have to lie. I never said argue, I said leave; arguing doesn't work.
These women want to vent, their issue is with men, and he's the only man in the house.
>You're assuming the worst
What am I assuming again? That women want to vent instead of 'rationally' work through emotion, as if that's how anyone handles emotions?
>is bizarre
It's not. Daddy issues are common, and it doesn't come down to what the man being targetted did, it comes down to how the girl goes about working through her feelings.
>siblings should be the people closest to you in a situation like this
The fact that you say should tells me you aren't speaking from experience.
>regardless of gender
regardless of sex you mean? What a dumb take anyways, of course sex matters, sex plays a central role in family dynamics.
>Reactionary
Why would you use that word in this context? Hmm, I wonder who could be behind this post?
My first choice would be to save up for a car so that worst case scenario, you can live out of that if you get kicked out. Then I would just save up money to get an apartment for cheap. Depending on how much you've got saved, it may be cheaper to get the car first. Either way, you're next. Good luck man.
if you're OP can you explain why you have a problem with moving out as an employed adult?
buy a van or something and live out of it while you save money for a real apartment, if you have a job that isn't complete shit you could have your own apartment set up in 2 months or so.