How do i become a more confident male?
How do i become a more confident male?
Self-consciousness will go away with time
practice
start small, maybe voice chat
go out on your own, keep your head up and shoulders back
and most of all
lie to yourself
talk yourself up, even if your a fat piece of shit
confidence is just a carefully crafted illusion
How long are we talking. Because I'm 26.
Alcohol used to help, but I quit. I find gangsta rap helps, but I can't listen to music in social situations.
Be cool (show less interest in girls but enough to make them like you)
Probablly by age 70
>how
Suck a lotta dick ..intentionally.
Get your amygdala surgically destroyed to become physically incapable of experiencing fear or anxiety.
thenakedscientists.com
healthboards.com
depressionforums.org
en.wikipedia.org
The girl I had a crush on looked like this. She's cute but not too cute why am I so hung up on her she felt absolutely nothing for me
If you're trying to get laid, being confident won't help you if you aren't Chad. When non-Chads act confident around girls, they get labeled as creeps and get falsely accused of rape.
>just be confident bro
It's really that simple. Just do it. Be confident bro.
You can apply this advice to all aspects of life.
Want to become smarter and raise your IQ?
>just be smarter bro
Want to become a scientific genius?
>just be a scientific genius bro
Want to become an omniscient god with the power to shape and bend the universe to your will?
>just become an omniscient god bro
You're overthinking it bro. Just do it bro. It's really that simple.
>I find gangsta rap helps, but I can't listen to music in social situations.
I also listen to Gangsta rap music as a confidence boost. Kinda makes me feel like I can handle things on my own and don't take shit from people. Camron, Project Pat, Notorious big, 2pac, Ice Cube, mobb deep, and 50 cent does it for me
You don't. It's a fucking lie, women don't find it attractive and it puts other men off.
As unrealistic as it sounds: be yourself, you can't change your personality no matter how hard you try. Your best bet is working with what you have even if it's usually seen as negative.
>Just do it bro. It's really that simple.
This
>I find gangsta rap helps
Weird, I am also more confident when I am listening to heavy amounts of rap music.
Take public speaking courses. I'm not even memeing you, socializing is a skill.
Take in example from something I learned; there are low body values and high body values. Something like putting your hands in your pockets is seen as a low status/low body behavior, but keeping your thumbs out in doing it is a high value behavior. By deconstructing your body values you can learn to build habits that exhibit you as more dominate/confident. Of course the biggest here is learning to talk/read others, and mastering small talk with strangers.
Set small goals for yourself and regularly achieve them. Start small but up the difficulty over time. Building confidence is just a matter of feeling like you can do stuff. Easiest way is to regularly do stuff and you'll be confident in your ability to handle life. Also eat less sugar and more meat, you'll feel better
>start small, maybe voice chat
Where do I find a qt to voicechat with and make baseless assumptions about, making her my oneitis, and imagining scenarios with her that will literally never happen, only for her to eventually ghost me?
Any cute femanons that want to ghost me after a few months of contact please hit me up.
Kill yourself and be reborn as Chad.
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Every loser feels this way when they listen to gangsta rap.I do too.
Go to the gym and get jacked.
Get a nice haircut, short back and sides with a comb over is a good start
If you can, grow a beard
Buy some nice clothes..
/thread.
>bluepill advice
>reddit spacing
more like /r9k
>Get a nice haircut, short back and sides with a comb over is a good start
worst post I've ever seen on Jow Forums
Only literal retards listen to gangsta rap. There is nothing more degrading than it.
That isn't true. I have a confirmed IQ of 128 and did well in school.
Work on your insecurities
>thinking I believe you
>thinking I care
Literal retard.
How do I work on the fact that I'm severely balding at 20? I can't see it as anything other than being doomed
>severely balding at 20
based high test user
Get jacked and shave it off.
Baldness can happen without high test. In fact most of the bald people I know are low test as fuck.
Fuck you go get aids
user, testosterone is the prime reason for male balding. Think about why you rarely ever see bald women.
Smoke meth
Self harm
Abuse animals
Stab niggers
Set fire to the retarded
Set fire to cancer patients
Stomp the children to death and disembowl them in front of their restrained parents, covering them in their entrails. Jack off to their horrified resignation
Cognitive therapy?
>smoke in public
>wear plain clothes
>never put your hands in your pockets. thumbs in pockets is acceptable
>straighten your back up and put your shoulders back
>never look at the ground when you walk
>always make direct eye contact with everyone and always look at them for just a bit longer than you need to
>walk in an exaggerated gait but dont swagger
>disregard females
>never apologize for ANYTHING especially to a female
etc etc if you like this advice i can give you more.
ah correction! Thumbs in pockets is only acceptable if you keep your other fingers straight against your thigh. You can curl your fingers into a fist with your thumbs in your pockets Only if you are in a hurry or are about to do something and you're taking a moment to think. its complicated, but it matters. you never want to not know what to do with your hands, and small hand gestures mean a lot to people.
Hands in pockets is preppy and cool
only lower tier girls would be attracted to a man who is not into /comfy/.