It's your personality

>I refuse to grow up, you're wrong
Pathetic.

>just be someone else bro

Why don't they become someone else btw?

You're the one spending your time calling people pathetic on an online image board.

Fuck everybody else. I am perfect the way I am. I do not need them.

ok, so we're going down that road. lets just say i am an absolute manchild. give me step by step instructions in how to not be a manchild and change my personality

>I can't change myself
Cope harder.
>I lost, so I'll pick a new argument
Close the thread, kid.

>It's your personality

Okay, so what do? Whenever I hear this shit, the conversation ends and people like you walk away. It's no different than a doctor saying "You've got cancer" and then escorting you out of the hospital

>needing someone to hold your hand in life
Absolutely pathetic.
Change.

ok
that doesn't mean shit to me my man

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there isn't much you can do despite all the memery about fixing your personality. it's pretty much exactly like attractiveness. you can get a better haircut, you can dress a little better, but in the end you're still just an ugly fuck.

Oh wow, one singular word and I am magically cured of a bad personality

So is OP wrong or right?

>So is OP wrong or right?
he is right, our personalities are shit, just like what we look like, and we can't do a whole lot about it.

cool post but that is objectively 100% wrong.

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Why would I ever change myself for some lesser human, they are just a tissue to be used and then thrown away anyways.

Wrong faggot. Life is all about face (genetic). Not actions, beliefs, attitude, money, personality, clothes, hairstyle, outlook on life, gym membership, penis size, confidence, game, criminal record, religion, morality, knowledge, skills, or work ethic. Just your face and maybe your voice. You have to find someone who likes your face. No woman wants to wake up next to a face they're not attracted to.

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>>I can't change myself
>Cope harder.
no really why should I change instead of them changing?

you are the most basedess lad on all of Jow Forums

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Okay.
Wrong.
Cope harder.
Wrong.
Wrong.
Respectable.
Wrong and pathetic. Excuses can't fill the void.

Chad's been respected since he's been in kindergarten. He never had to "change himself" or "try".

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Ok so you're just trying to provoke people and start arguments. You aren't here to help anyone, you just want to kick people that have always been down.

i really want this guys personality clearly a pussy slayer

OP is based. is based. bless this thread alleluia

Chad calls women bitches and fuck holes and no one says a word. He punches them in the face and has 5 domestic violence convictions and no one says a word. But when an incel gets angry and calls a woman a bitch they say "See this is why you're a virgin. Because you don't respect women. Your personality is ugly."

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>yes yes dear, change your personality your tastes and preferences to appeal more to other people that you already dont find appealing. Dont forget to be yourself.
>Remember that if you cant do this then it means i think of you as a lesser "human" and a pathetic existance! Dont forget to not let other people define you though!
Admit it negro, you are advocating for pure slave morality. You are outright spooked, retarded and a hypocrite.

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>Cope harder.
What does that mean? Is that slang from those incel forums?

You're right, although being 5'8" doesn't help matters. But I'm literally fine/good on every other point, so i think it's mostly my personality.

My mom told me she thinks I have borderline personality disorder. I've been told in the past that I have bi-polar, anxiety, and/or aspergers. Idk what's wrong with me but I'm definitely a socially dysfunctional asshole.

There are plenty examples of low IQ people making it. And you most certainly can change your personality, it just takes effort you're too lazy to put in.

lol if you can change your personality so easily why are you on r9k? who do you think you're kidding?

>easily
Stop putting words in my mouth, faggot. I have changed my personality. Was it easy? No. Did I still manage to do it? Yes. I only use this site because normal social media bores the hell out of me.

and yet you're still in this shit hole. sorry buddy doesn't seem like it's doing much for you

i have a good personality, im ugly though, and im only attracted to literal 10/10s. So im fucked

This post is disgusting. It really does just come across as an artificial intelligence being asked to recreate a typical Jow Forums post. The person behind this post has got to be one of the least pleasurable people to connect with, as even in a sea of alikeness you manage to be a worm.
>People blame temporary circumstances for their positions in life instead of themselves
>This idea somehow sparked your entire misinterpreted post
Call your mother and apologize for being such a fuckup.
Personality is everything.

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This site isn't a shit hole, it just happens to primarily attract shitty losers. I come here to argue with people about meaningless nonsense, something I much perfer to do anonymously than on Twitter or Facebook.

Just change your personality so that it doesn't bore you then.

change your personality so you can enjoy twitter and facebook then. just put some effort in

For what purpose? I still use those sites, I just don't lurk on them for hours the way normals do. I have this site for that.

Sounds like cope to me faggot.

You can actually change your personality.
You have to manually learn all the individual micro-routines for that trait.

less complaining, more effort and conforming. stop being lazy

>not your 15 times
>haha jk it is you
What did he mean by this

Cope for what?

>The only reason to change your personality is to become a conformist normalfag
This is why you're a loser. I change myself to be better than the rest, not one of the rest.

>This is why you're a loser. I change myself to be better than the rest, not one of the rest.
can someone show me how to change my personality so things like this don't make me want to vomit out of my ass?

If we are talking about attracting women all of that stuff matters. The fact you listed all of those traits means they matter. Personality does matter but it can only do so much. I have a good personality Why am I not in the NBA? Right it's because i didnt try hard enough?

Its literally all circumstance. Every goddamn thing on this earth is affected by something else. You cant change fate,man. Me for example, I have every material thing I could ever ask for. I have a nice house, awesome clothes, any vidya I could ever want, a great body with good health, and an intellect. But the thing is, ive never had friends. Ive never been a part of a group and not for the lack of trying. Ive been trying to form friendships with the ones around me but it never works out. Its all circumstance man.

It's my personality, height, jawline, hair, dick size and it's rather mutilated looks and virtues, endomorphic somatotype, body, average income, loneliness, the midwest America of which I hate but I can't leave, shitty family, and personality. I am the problem. No --- too selfish --- I am a problem. It's the temporary situation of life, existence in this physical universe, that is the cause of all of my pain, sorrows, and problems. I struggle with my most basic human needs so much that I might as well be called an ape. The need for food goes beyond gustatory preference, I eat far too much because it brings me a feeling of joy while I do so that, for the moment, makes me feel complete. I am around average in my athletic capabilities and it's always food that I return to like a sword to its sheath, which is depressing, but at least most people don't know as I commonly lie and say "I need the calories, imagine how much I burn for fun!" as if I enjoy failing over and over again in my unguided and decades-overdue study of martial arts. The truth is, it hurts. I've been training for years now, and it's said that a man's efforts never betrays him. I deserve to at least be able to imitate the graceful and gymnastic form I so aspired to capture in my undertaking.
I am addicted to another need - sex. So much so that it is disgusting. As if I should engage in any activity that might spread my ugly seed. My offspring would only curse their father as I have my two parents. I'm a terrible son and person in general. I'm 25 years old, nowhere to run to, I'm a pig and I'm a lecherous toad. I have masturbated, give or take, for nearly every day of my life since I was nine years old. And the things I pleasure myself too become even more degrading and distasteful by the day. I really don't deserve to complain and it's not as if anyone would listen. But these complaints seem to be the bowel movements of my hideous soul, sorry for sharing them in this virtual timewaster.

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>letting other people define you

>You are the problem.

How does it feel to have the IQ of a snail?

No. You're the only one who can stop you from being a loser.

Your temporary body and temporary circumstances do not define you.
Your personality does.
In life, personality is all that matters. You carry you to where you want to be.
This thread wasn't an excuse for you to overshare about yourself.
This thread wasn't an excuse for you to overshare about yourself.
>I cannot read, the post

yeah but i already knew that
still not gonna do shit about it

you have inspired me to be a winner like you, thank you

everything in that list can be fixed if you really want it badly enough.

Ok then why am I not in the NBA? How's a better personality going to help me block a guy 2 feet taller then me? It wont because personality is irrelevant

you're so weak bro. if you change your personality you can become stephen hawking bro it's all just your personality

>all these traits that define you dont mean shit
then how am "i" the problem?
if all these traits are meaningless then what are you criticizing?

Admirable.
Wrong.
>I have not read anything in this thread, the post
Pathetic.

>overshare about yourself.
What a self-centered thing to say on a board that A) doesn't belong to you & B) I did not break any rules in.

Yet you come in here and stroke yourself off as if you're worth reading about.
Cultivate a life.

That's not true.
Sociology has proven time and time again that people have biases.
There's over 200 listed "cognitive biases' on wikipedia alone.
Also racism is a common issue.
As is style.
Personality doesn't have anything to do with anything.
Most famous people are assholes and rapists.
What the fuck are you on, OP?

>letting other people and temporary circumstances define you
You are the problem.

>as if you're worth reading about.
Isn't that your own assumption?

What the fuck are you talking about?
That's not a sentence and now you're using the "fundamental attribution error" because you're too stupid to know how to use google.
Why would you use biases?
Google "list of cognitive biases" and then feel bad.

who said anything about temporary.
why would you intentionally lie and claim that?
you must be one hell of a presumptions retard.

Reread your post and ask again.
I cannot read, but here are some terms I picked up from people who were using them incorrectly, the post
All things are temporary. Your body at age 10 isn't your body at age 20 isn't your body at age 30, ect.

I've fully accepted it is my personality or lack thereof. Personality is mostly genetically determined, however, which many twin studies have shown and support. My other features have not helped either in this regard, even though I've improved many of them as I've gotten older. A shit on a golden throne or in a filthy toilet is still shit.

I don't believe putting on a mask is going to change who I am intrinsically. I also don't want to hurt other people by putting on a mask and having them fall for something that isn't me. Some people are destined to be alone. I don't need to go blaming others for my own lack of effort or lack of success. It doesn't mean I have to be happy about it though.

>All things are temporary.
No.
Many people are caught in things until they die.
Millions of people have died under forced stigma, isolation, etc.

So you're an idiot that presumes things because you are extremely ignorant.

You have no right to push your beliefs and shame people if your beliefs are provably wrong with a simple history lesson.

Google what that person told you to, because you are using cognitive biases like a sociopathic asshat in order to rationalize your irrational worldview.

>all things are not temporary
what a fucking retard. The computer you're writing this with is as temporary as the hand writing it.
Nothing lasts forever. Your life, body, and circumstance are perpetually changing.
I am aware it's hard to see when you're an underage fucking retard, but try to keep up kid.

i'm so glad you dont last forever lmao

>le personality
Is there a bigger cope to the bluepilled cucks out there? I know ugly funny "nice" dudes irl and they never get in any sort of relationship.

>I cannot read, the post

>be yourself
doesn't work
>change your personality to conform to what modern day women want
Nah I'm good homie

>Reread your post and ask again.
>"and it's not as if anyone would listen"
youtube.com/watch?v=Yy8MUnlT9Oo

Thanks for the brilliant insight. Any other genius pearls of wisdom?

well I'm narcissistic
I FUKING LOST LIFE
nobody will ever love me because loving a narcissistic sperg like me would only kill their mental health

I fuking lost life

there will always be someone more appealing to girls than me