If you were a 20 year old awkward but handsome young man how would you feel if a 33 year old mildly attractive woman...

if you were a 20 year old awkward but handsome young man how would you feel if a 33 year old mildly attractive woman talked to you

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>20 year old awkward but handsome young man
it me

>how would you feel if a 33 year old mildly attractive woman talked to you
on the street? id act polite. like how i'd act when i was talking to my friends mom. back when i had friends.

talking about what? just small talk stuff? i'd probably be pretty bored on the inside but wouldn't show it

Would continue talking and try to light flirt. Happened to me with mom's friend, nothing bad happened yet. Nothing good either
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depends on his personality and world view. Its likely he will not appreciate it because he is young and he has his head up his ass. But this depends on his personality.

If I knew what I knew today, I would be much more polite to a woman who flirted with me when I was a 20yo prick.

My guess is that you should be yourself and see what happens, but dont expect much and be prepared for the most likely scenario. Move on, there is nothing wrong with you.

I am assuming you are this woman and you feel attracted to this guy, sorry if this isnt the case.

a man i see 2-3 times a week at a coffee shop

that is the case. i think i am just a creep and i should stay silent

>if you were a 20 year old awkward but handsome young man
This is literally me
>how would you feel if a 33 year old mildly attractive woman talked to you
Depends on how "mild". Milfs and cakes are my fetish.

I'd talk with her but it probably wouldn't go anywhere because she'd expect me to intiate, and I can't. I'd also not understand any cues she dropped.
This is assuming a lot though, because nobody has ever liked me and never will.

I found someone who is about 20 and I'm the same age as you. Most guys won't be into it but there's always the outlier. I think you have a chance, just maybe not with that 20 year old. Doesn't hurt to try.

man does he look like he gets attention from other girls? does he have friends? what do you like about him?

Talk with him and drop a hint, see what happens. Maybe he doesn't have his head up his ass and he reacts positively. Appearances deceive. He might be intimidating to approach, but this is only what it looks like. He might react more positively than you expect.

>wouldn't go anywhere because she'd expect me to intiate, and I can't
this is spot on.

honestly 20 year old dudes who havent had much relationship experience are pretty much still kids emotionally.

if you pretend you know what you're doing you can convince him to go along with it. you'd just have to barrel through headfirst. for instance, i know my first reaction would be surprise and confusion--and if you back away at this point, it'd just be awkward. but the more insistent and confident you are, the more i could trust that you know what you're doing and i'd ironically feel safer because i could rely on you to initiate.

i see other girls staring at him bc he is very handsome but my sister was his librarian and said he is very awkward and weird and shy and i am an attractive but awkward and weird and shy person and i feel like we have that in common but he probably has a girlfriend

yes i have been debating whether or not to say anything because it kind of feels unethical because 20 feels very young to me i could pretend to be confident maybe but he terrifies me

>but he probably has a girlfriend
The rest of your post doesn't imply that at all. There are plenty of guys who get female attention but can't get laid.

i'd be fine with just friendship desu i'd rather be a friend for a long while than anything serious

>he terrifies me
ugh i've been there. the idealizing is an endless machine. do you write? the feelings could inspire some great work.

otherwise, i honestly recommend, if there is no artistic outlet which this endeavor could fuel, that you start talking to other people at the same time and just have this person be 1 of many options.

being that exactly I can safely say I would feel no form of sexual attraction whatsoever unless I was incredibly horny, so if that's what you're looking for you'd have to time it right

It's not that I don't want to (I'd actually like it), I just can't initiate anything.

On guard, awkward, wary, wanting to find out her motive.
I'd be looking for what her ulterior motive is, or maybe I'd be too young for that, but I'd at least be sort of taken by surprise.

i think i will give up and forget he exists thanks for all the input kids

No don't do that, I want to believe someone somewhere is living the life I wished I had

speaking as someone who fucked up and literally had to drop out of school and move states because of my fuckup

do your fuck up. go in expecting nothing. be free. you won't regret it.

Why not go for it my original friend.

i am too scared. it is too scary. i am nothing but an old creep. i do not think i am in a place where i can randomly talk to superfluously handsome young men. maybe if i was 22 and manic.

Just go for it. You're only going to get older.

>i am too scared
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Having to stare down a lion is scary. He's just a boy. You can talk to him, I believe in you!

if this doesnt work out you can always avoid this coffee shop and stay in your box instead.

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the coffee shop IS my box i dont go anywhere else

the terror of trying outweighs any possible positive conclusion i am afraid

thats okay mootblox

As long as you realize this mentality will only hinder you in the long run I can't really do much else. I weep for the world that could have been.

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dont shit in your box then.
girl.

You can talk to me. I'm kinda short, but I don't think I'm ugly outright.

i do realize that. i am working on it. one day i will be in a place where i can hit on handsome men a decade younger than me. but i'm not there yet.

>but i'm not there yet
You never will be at this rate.
>i am working on it
How?
Also it's not like you can't just ask someone to talk to you to get practice.

its not like i havent approached men before. i have. its just the circumstances were different, more organic. its this particular man and situation that is an issue.

i have avpd and i just started therapy again so i can learn how to be more socially competent and not scared of existing.

I'd be glad if an unattractive woman talked to me. I don't care so much about looks, what most people consider attractive kind of disgusts me to begin with. I'm lonely too so any attention from someone I could relate to would be a fucking godsend.
Pic related, after getting to know her and forming a loving bond unknown by most men I would make endless love to her

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Well for what the opinion of some loser stranger on Jow Forums is worth, I don't think it's creepy. It's actually kinda cute. It'd be creepy if he were 3 or 4 years younger.

Are you me?