Is it a bad idea to marry a 37 year old woman when you're 20?

Definitely, especially if she has money. More of you need to date older women

>More of you need to date older women
Yes goy, take yourself out of the gene pool by and waste your youth by dating 40 year old women. Ignore that you could get someone attractive your own age that you could actually marry for life.

I meant to say definitely not a bad ideaAnyway, most of you dont really have that many options. 37 isn't too late for her to have children either. He should impregnate her as soon as possible. And if she's financially well to do that's a plus as well.

>young meat good
fucking animal
>More of you need to date older women
This, older women treat younger men as most males treat females, that is they like them for who they are. Unironically motherly instinct and despite what most people think it can go into sexual territory quite easily.

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>Is it a bad idea to marry...
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If you love her and think you'd be happy with her, I don't see why not.
>Ignore that you could get someone attractive your own age that you could actually marry for life
Where the fuck do you think you are? If user has no other option, and is sincerely attracted to older women then he has nothing to lose. If he's on Jow Forums he likely has bad genes not worth passing on, and low hopes for companionship otherwise. And even if he is deadset on children, if he hops on it now there is a good chance they could still have a child that most likely won't be a retard,

This, but at the very least wait another five or six years before you consider marrying anyone.

If you are okay with the concept of her dying way before you do but it being at an age where it will probably be impossible to find anyone ever again then go ahead.

>This, older women treat younger men
And when I say older women I mean not necessarily someone who is in their 50s(although that helps too, because most women of that age don't find men of their age attractive at all), but someone who is much older than you specifically, I tried to hit it off with a woman 7 years older than me and he thought it was really weird, but when women much older than me learn I date someone of their age, they are not surprised and even expect me to commit fully to a relationship.
Age gap is a powerful tool, people think it's over when you hit 30, but it's probably a prime age to get a late teen big titty goth gf.

Most of the people here don't have the option because they socially awkward teenagers that haven't yet grown into themselves. It's a completely different story once they reach their mid or late twenties and can now date the younger women that would have ignored them a few years earlier. Those with especially bad genetics should still be able to date women in their late twenties or early thirties at this point, assuming they are employed and not obese, while OP's hypothetical wife would be almost 50.
>37 isn't too late for her to have children either
37 is too late for a lot of women to have children and they have a great risk of having health issues if they do succeed.
Yes goy, ignore millions of years of sexual selection and entrap yourself in a relationship with an old lady just to get laid. Ignore the fact that the most successful relationships happen with people that have few sexual partners.

I'd see a shrink for your mommy issues. The fact that you're trying to justify this is laughable. You have to have a pretty high IQ to waste your youth robbing the crypt, right?
See above.
>Where the fuck do you think you are?
The same place I've frequented for a decade, only the users have been replaced by people without any real problems and act like they are robots because they are awkward teenagers that haven't yet had sex, like a huge percentage of the population at that age.

It's an absolutely terrible idea, she's already out of range to have kids with, and her sex value will dry up in only a few years as well.
I don't know the girl, but by that age she's probably had enough partners or commitments that she's killed her ability to pair bond with you anyways, if you really like her I don't see the harm in dating but it just seems like a lost cause for an actual marriage.

Yes. My mom was 19 when she married my dad, who was 38 at the time, so it's a similar age gap. They really did love each other, but it ultimately didn't work out, because my dad had grown up, and my mom still wasn't quite ready to, as much as she thought she was. Spend your youth on being you, and if you need that intimacy, find someone else who is doing the same. If you still want to marry this woman in a few years, go for it

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>an age where it will probably be impossible to find anyone ever again then go ahead.
I don't think that's the case, you just gotta apply your skills learned from loli hentai on someone legally adult.

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And yes im phone posting. This board is only worth my time when I'm taking a shit. That's what I think of you all.

>just to get laid.
>hurr if there are no kids sucking life out of you and if you don't have to go out of your way to impress a woman there can be no love

>Ignore the fact that the most successful relationships happen with people that have few sexual partners.
A 50yo from a conservative background probably had less partners than a modern young girl.
Case in point - my 50yo fwb who lost virginity at 17 because her bf insisted on it and my ex 22yo thot who lost it at 15 and allowed me to finger her on the day we met.

>I'd see a shrink for your mommy issues
There is nothing wrong with wanting admiration from women, as it happens it either takes her being much younger or much older than you.

>I've frequented for a decade, only the users have been replaced by people without any real problems and act like they are robots
So you are a robot? See a shrink unironically.

Yes and no. If you only want one or two kids and you're okay with one of them having down syndrome and can afford it, then it's fine.
I'd say maybe no because women start having sex before puberty so she has at least twice as many sexual partners as her age and statistically you're likely to catch an STD, and you're also competing with 70 other guys from varying backgrounds from economic to just being kind of jail bird shit heads that want to knock your teeth out. She's going to cheat on you with someone she's been with, or a new guy if it's even possible for her to find one she's going to be interested in a new guy since she's had so many she wouldn't think it's possible to find another one.
At 37 most single moms I know usually have fucked enough guys they could get enough money to start a business and actually be financially okay. If you're supporting her you probably fucked up pretty bad.

>women start having sex before puberty
blackpillers are getting more delusional each day. no, most women don't have sex before they are 10-11.
>so she has at least twice as many sexual partners as her age
for someone who constantly whines that things used to be better in the past you sure don't take into account that 35+ people are from less sexually liberated generation.

>hurr if there are no kids sucking life out of you and if you don't have to go out of your way to impress a woman there can be no love
I never stated he had to have kids, only the option would effectively be off the table. He also has a year or two at most to decide instead of the next 15 years.

Old women don't have the ability to pair bond as well as young women, it's not just because of the numbers of partners but because they loss their attractiveness to 95% of men and will always think that their partner is subpar, which is indeed true. Women will always resent subpar men.
>A 50yo from a conservative background probably had less partners than a modern young girl.
No. Someone dating a 20 year old at age 50 is likely a promiscuous whore, regardless of political views. I hate to tell you this but she isn't dating you because of your personality, only your youth.
>my 50yo fwb who lost virginity at 17 because her bf insisted on it and my ex 22yo thot who lost it at 15
What are you talking about? Total number sexual partners is what matters. If she gave away her virginity because someone insisted, she gives out easy sex when men insist as well.
>There is nothing wrong with wanting admiration from women, as it happens it either takes her being much younger or much older than you.
Terrible strawman because we're not talking about admiration. Just own up to your weird fetish, Christ.
>So you are a robot? See a shrink unironically.
It is ironic that you feel you could judge anyone when you're dating a living corpse. You should remember this conversation, and when I tried to reason with you, for when she dies in the next twenty years.