Sunday Night/Memorial Day Fitness Feels

>summer is finally kicking in for me to show my beach body

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This is good advice

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utterly based

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I'm 20 khv autistic too from Toronto. I have a difficult time making friends as well. I'm also skelly. I'm currently inOttawa but I've been lookign for someone like me to try and get each other's shit together. IF you wanna add me on discord we can try and keep each other in check, set goals etc.

It's all so tiresome

I don't really like crowds. I went downtown for New Year's with my brother and it was pretty lame. Not much for apehoop either pretty boring sport desu.

Just worked chest/triceps

Getting wine drunk with my qt gf watching the office while Jow Forumsposting

We decided that we wanna move to Colorado at the end of this year because Philly is a watermelon-American infested shithole.

Lookin at Indeed and Zillow getting myself hype.

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I’m lonely. I have few friends and most of them I have lost due to getting blackout drunk. I’ve cooled it on drinking so much but I’m thinking about going out solo to a bar near my house just to talk to someone. It’s also been over three months and I’m still not over my ex. I feel like I lost a shot at true happiness. On the good side I saw my abs poking out for the first time ever. I’ve never seen them before and every time I walk by my mirror it makes me a little happier.

I'm 21, going into senior year with a 5 month girlfriend. I'm starting to kinda not physically enjoy her. What do? It's getting to the pretty serious phase in our lives and I'm an attractive fellow, wouldn't worry about finding another mate

Listen man, I agree. I hate the sport but New Years is nothing compared to whats been goin on downtown during these games. I much prefer hockey or football but Leafs are out and the NFL season is over. Go just to peoplewatch, even.

And like I said in the post before, I'm in a similar situation as you so if you wanna connnect over discord and try to gain weight together lmk. my tag is fudiscord#7391. Consider it bro.

>spent this past semester in one of the healthiest relationships I've ever had
>we have to spend the first 2 months of the summer long distance because of various internships/family trips
>tfw distance is what killed my last long term relationship
>we're both confident that we can make it work easily enough but in the back of my mind I'm constantly fighting old feels
How do I navigate this successfully bros? None of the Jow Forums defeatist shit, I don't need to hear about how it never works or how she's going to bang Chad or whatever else, I've been on the site long enough to already harbor those insecurities by myself. I just want to know how actual normal people make it work, and then maybe if I try that we'll make it through the couple of months before my personal shit has time to mess something up.

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Get friends before a significant other. Ik it's hard, but having a strong base in your life with friends is a foundation of confidence that can proceed to you dating life. Don't focus on girls, but on building friendships...which are awkward to start but goodluck bro

Hey that's *my* watermelon-American infested shithole, fuck off. At least the music scene's good.

Im a fucking fool and tried (and failed miserably) to get my ex back last night
It's been a month and I still miss the little things like when we would go to sleep and she'd rest her head on my shoulder, or the smell of her hair. Fuck id even give up sex until marriage for her, but, it won't ever happen. I fucked it all up

The antithesis of reddit. Nice

>tried to get my ex back last night

It's a fools errand, friend. You broke up for a reason

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Go into a trade. Meet some bros and go to the bar together. We take out the autistic engineers at my job even. Good money and good guys all looking out for each other unless it's a shit hole of a shop

Yeah, won't work unless you were the person who broke up with them

I don't use discord but I'll consider your advice. Tomorrow I am going to a sports bar to watch the Stanley Cup Finals so I'll see how that goes too.

The best thing you can do is exude trust and confidence in her as a partner. Women love that shit. Insecure partners are the most annoying thing in the world. Obviously you set some basic ground rules tho.

went out yesterday to go see a band and there were a bunch of really hot girls there. one of them in particular was a solid 10/10 in my book and I couldnt even approach to talk to her because I have no fucking clue how to talk to people. I thought it was just the fact that I couldnt approach women but cant even hold a conversation with a cab driver.
I know its all practice but I dont have friends to go out with and do this type of shit, all they want to do is eat and hang out at someones house for a couple hours each week and thats it.

None of these fucks get laid ever and then they go complaining that they want more sex or a gf or whatever. I dont really like them too much but I cant seem to make friends to change this aspect of my life. Ill try joining a gym maybe and see if I can get together with a group of guys to go out to clubs and stuff.

Oh Ive also been talking to a girl I matched with who had a pic of herself in a bikini and even though her face wasnt much she had a nice body. Talking to her today I tell her I like the way she looks in a bikini and she tells me that the picture is from long ago and that I might not be "buying the expected merchandise". Why the FUCK would you use it in your profile then you silly bitch? and then she says that "im not one of those girls who weigh like 2 kg, I like going out and drinking and eating".

What the fuck is wrong with women? honest question. I mean its not like gyms and dieting are a secret but these fat fucks always have to lamest fucking excuses. Its never an honest answer as in "Im lazy".

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Nah, i've gotten girls back that have dumped me. It still ends in a trainwreck.

I'll preface this with "im fucking retarded" but here goes

>gf cheats on me
>dumps me
>year passes, I don't find better because of my own failures, despite me dating within days of our break up that really pisses her off
>we get back together due to me
>eventually buy a house together
>within 9 months she cheats on me again, i leave and she 8 months later usurps 90% of my friends to side with her

Never re-date, ever. Take my retardation as experience

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I was really making progress in this building up a few new friends but I ruined it by getting drunk and making an ass out of myself. I do have a new group I’m breaking into but the dude blew me off yesterday to hang with his circle and I don’t want to come off clingy or some shit. It really is hard making life long friends. I don’t have a single person I can call right now who would drop everything to help me out right now.

What kinds of rules do you think are really worth laying down? I kind of want to discuss drug use and make sure neither of us get seriously fucked up while we're apart, just to ensure "dangerous" situations are minimized. Writing it out though I don't know if bringing something like that up would be too insecure or overbearing.

how hard is it to get a basic ass data entry or office monkey jesus fucking christ

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if your s/o gets fucked up around members of the opposite sex the battle is already over

*job

Do both of you commonly use? If not I wouldnt even bring it up. If shes smart and at least somewhat emotionally competent you shouldnt need to really sit down and talk about the rules. Basic ones should pretty much be implied like no one on one shit with the opposite sex or getting super fucked up around weird people

It's definitely nothing frequent or serious enough to be worth the worry, I'm definitely just overthinking at this point.

>tfw I get to wake up early tomorrow, go to the gym and not be rushed to go to work after.
>feelsgoodman

I'm in a little bit of a dilemma guys.
>Shooting pool with bros
>6/10 approaches me and tells me she thinks I'm really handsome
>Touches my arm, asks for my number
>Been texting, going pretty well
>She seems very interested, think I could fuck on the first date if I play my cards right
>But I am a khv
I'm so nervous bros. Its a good kind of nervous, I really just want to have sex already and get it out of the way since I'm 21 years old and I feel like the longer I wait the more disadvantaged I am. But I also am a good looking guy, I could definitely do better than a 6/10 if I applied myself. Should I just pull the trigger already? Is losing your virginity that big a deal?

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The "status" of being a virgin is fucking pointless and nobody really cares, but it could be a good experience for you regardless. There's no reason holding out for your 10/10 perfect dream waifu if by the time you run into her, you still have no social or sexual skills and instantly spill your spaghetti. Learn a thing or two, see how far this thing goes I'd say

Just told my very Christian and conservative parents that me and the GF are getting an apartment together.
We are both 25.
I knew they would disapprove. Mom cried a lot. Dad quoted a lot of scripture. Both told me I was cutting corners and they think I'm doing the wrong thing and did I ever believe in the scripture and so on. Told me I should just marry her if im willing to make a commitment like living together.
Makes it so much worse that they weren't angry, just sad and dissappointed.

Both my older brothers and their wives approved and weren't surprised. The y saw the signs.

Shit sucks. I hate letting my parents down. Mom almost never cries.

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Just have a fun time with her. Go see if she wants to play pool then after like two hours see if she wants to watch a movie at your house or some stupid shit.

^this

Could have spent the whole 4 day weekend grilling with my family instead i have to show up to work today on Sunday. Its an 8hour drive away, I don’t feel like partying with friends from home i just wanna chill at the house and visit my moms grave

Thanks brahs, that is honestly how I feel. A lot of my friends have told me not to do it, but they're also the same guys that tell me I'm a loser with women so I feel like they're just trying to keep me down for their own sake.

that fucking blows my man. I feel your pain because my parents were the same with my brother when he did the same. but you gotta think of the future. they may be mad right now, but down the line, I'm sure you'll find your decision worth it.

go shoot your shot, friend.

go for it man, i lost my virginity at 22 by doing this

Don’t worry about what other people think and do what you want to do. This isn’t a hard set rule because sometimes people who really care about you are looking out for you like telling you not get back with your cheating ex or whatever. Having a good time with some average girl and banging her? Why the fuck not

>Sex life with gf has declined over our 2 year relationship to about once every 2 weeks
>Sometimes will go to sleepover at her place, initiate sex and get turned down so I just leave and go home instead as it would just be sexually frustrating to stay
>Get told that I make her feel objectified

How do I respond to this feel?

i've been told this before as well, if she doesn't want sex something is up

Sometimes the penis knows what the mind does not. Can't explain it, just works like that sometimes.

Imagine if they knew you posted on 4channel

Tell her sex is important to a relationship and ask why she doesnt want it anymore. A lot of women are insane and think way too much about the act and how they look during or whatever so if shes gained weight that could be a factor too

>during the week
>work from 6 to 17 for minimum wage
>all my free time is spent on Jow Forums or video games
>weekend
>spend 2 days inside my room alternating between video games, Jow Forums and masturbation
I cant take living like this anymore. How do i get out of this life? I honestly think im close to reaching a breakpoint where ill either go insane or kill myself

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>College shuts cafeteria for the weekend
>I don't have a car and the nearest town is 6 miles away
>say fuck it, grab my backpack and start walking there anyway
>Some guy who works for the dean of students sees me and pulls up
>"Hey man you need a ride?"
>Wow how nice of him
>Explain the situation in the car, I'm walking out to town on the back road to a restaurant and maybe do some grocery shopping while I'm there
>He gets agitated
>REFUSES to take me to the restaurant
>Insists I go to a fast food place instead because he has a meeting somewhere else he needs to get to in an hour
>I ask why on earth he can't just drop me off
>"Well user I don't want you walking between college and town"
>Tell him it's fine, I've done it before
>"No user I don't feel comfortable with it, I know you want a restaurant but you're just gonna have to settle for a fast food place, I can't sit down and eat with you"
>Can't say anything against this since he just drove me all the way out to town out of the goodness of his heart
>Get a single chicken burger and leave
>On the way back this fucker ORDERS me not to walk out to town ever again
>Says I should order delivery, aka even worse, junkier fast food/pizza instead until the cafeteria reopens
>Leave for my dorm in silence
I walked out to town to get groceries the next day anyway. Fuck him, I'm a fucking adult, I don't work for him, he can't fucking tell me what to do like that

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The music scene is wherever you have Spotify.

Also 21, also going into senior year with a gf of 5 months, but I've got the opposite problem. I'm really into her and every time I start searching for grad schools, I get kind of sad. Why did we do this to ourselves in such a serious transition year, bro

as nice as he was initially i'd tell him to fuck off at that point

I have met one fat guy who admitted it was because he was lazy, and admitted that he drank too much beer and junk food, etc. but even then he tried to pass it off with "I don't have time to exercise and plan diets", which even though he was a busy man is clearly false.

I have to learn how to wash my cloths and pay rent in the next month

Same. Hoping that joining the AF next year will save me from this hell. I just want to be a normie.

If she’s not having sex with you there is something seriously wrong in the relationship. I’m not saying she’s cheating on you but look for signs and trust your gut. If you feel like something is wrong you are probably right

If you havent gotten you 10/10 yet then you are not going to. Go 6/10 then upgrade

join the military / move / take a leap of faith.
that's how I escaped this pattern

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You enlisted?

Been really depressed lately thinking about all the recent deaths that have been happening where I live. I work for the fire department around here and we run EMS as well. I’ve had the liberty to see all the deaths. It’s been pretty unsettling seeing someone you know dead and their families absolutely distraught and losing their shit. Then I’m supposed to go home and not think about that shit? Yeah, right.

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>Fight for the zog machine
Nice

Yeah, been working for the coast guard for 7 years, been all over the world, worked on ships, done counter cartel operations, now i'm doing search and rescue, it's been a hell of a ride.

Idk man, I guess it's part of growing up. This is a weird time

you should probably specify that you went into the coast guard, boot camp and the military bases abroad are depressing as all hell

That was the pint of me saying "it won't work unless you were the one breaking up". If she cheated = she was never worth it nor/or she was into you. If she broke up with you = she thought she could do better. Build up your self respect and become an alpha that doesn't seek anyone else's approval

That's true, I have a beautiful beach front apartment in California, the other branches can be a fucking BUUUUUUUMMMMEEEERRRR

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Dude stick through it. People, especially guys are a little weird with starting new friendships/starting new groups. But bro keep trying you got this

Cringe

>unemployed
>no friends
>money running out
>no hopes or dreams

I try not to think about it

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I lost my virginity at 23. All I did was copy what I saw in porn and the girl came a few times (and many more times on other hook ups). YMMV, but try that out.

Just realizing I don't have someone to talk to on a regular basis after breaking up with my gf. I liked her but she was too damn clingy and needy. I told her multiple times she needed to work with me on this and I even tried to be more understanding myself but she never tried to change. Ever. After a month and a half of going back and forth on wanting to break up and then canceling out at the last second, I finally pulled the plug yesterday as I just couldn't deal with it any more. Suck man.

Just finished my second year at a technology uni with a 4.0. I have a solid internship this summer as a software engineer. Im starting to get swole, giving me more social confidence. Things are starting to look up for me.

Came from a poor, shitty home life, got expelled from my first high school, was addicted to drugs and mindless sex for a while, used to feel sorry for myself. It just seems crazy to me how far i have come so far.

He's probably concerned that something will happen to you, like getting smashed into by a car, and the school might be liable for not providing food access.

Life sucks when your ugly, I try to think about other things and fill my time with hobbies but I at the end of the day when I see a good looking couple my facade just falls apart. I'm a KHV. The only time I find any peace is when I'm asleep.

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>just turned 24
>no prospects, dead end wagie warehouse job
>no education after hs
Honestly contemplating on joining the military, but I don't even know what I'd want to do, what I'd go to school for, fuck I don't even know what I COULD do.

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Why would you define your life by things you have no control over? Unironically a great tool I use is from Jason Genova. When I get down and get all self critical about some immutable feature I just yell WHOOOOOOOOOO CAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARES

Haven't seen my boyfriend in about a week. It's made me feel like shit emotionally. Decided to work out for 2hrs on my rest day today. Beat my old mile time of 6:15 and got down to 5:55. I'm an ex-fatty so this is new. Joining the Marines Reserves during college to possibly shift into active duty afterwards. Hoping I can get something out of this life.

Had a very eye opening experience regarding a Co worker and (crazy) women in general. Went from feeling confident to less than dirt and back to mildly good about myself over the span of 2 days.
I can't wait to starty new job in August and leave this shit show

i've actually got an interview tomorrow bros, its a mid year christmas fucking miracle

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Well sure he's concerned, but that doesn't mean he can order me not to do it, even if an accident would mean a liability to the school. Plus other members of the faculty know I walk to town occasionally and there's never been any problems.

Stuck in routine, addicted to planning rather than doing. Apathy rolling in as life plans fall apart due to forces outside my control (being dicked around by my graduate faculty's bueracracy),mysterious lump appeared by penis, fuck guys it's starting to spiral

Save a brap for me please

>addicted to planning rather than doing.
desu I didn't think this was real until you posted it and I definitely see it. I'm having trouble being interested in lifting since I started, whereas when I was figuring out what program I wanted to start and what accessories to add I was gungho

I met someone and I dont really know what she is doing or trying to do however she is trying to get in my head I think. I dont know how to deal with this right now but I have a plan and I think this will work. She is trying to get in my head and I wont let this happen again especially with someone else not worth my time. Wish I knew what she meant by doing these things do... this chick is trying to get my attention and I wont give it to her (I have learned from previous encounter now)

Don’t join the military unless you’re ready for a serious life change. You’ll be in for a rude awakening

>Don’t join the military unless you’re ready for a serious life change. You’ll be in for a rude awakening
I understand, but as it is right now I'm doing nothing. It feels like my only chance to have some actual guidance that'll lead me to a legitimate career that doesn't involve being a slave in a factory for the next 40 years.

I'm trying to figure out what to do with my girlfriend over the summer. I still feel awkward around her sometimes and it took me a while to comfortably have physical contact with her, because until now I assumed all girls thought I was gross and wouldn't want to touch me or be near me so I would avoid them to be as nice as possible. My girlfriend has mentioned that she has a pool so I think she probably wants us to go swimming at some point, I'm not sure if I'm comfortable enough to be shirtless around her. Seeing each other like this would probably help us be more comfortable around each other since she's never seen me without my shirt of and I've never seen her legs (she's shy and self conscious; always wears jackets and jeans)

I guess my goal for this summer is to learn some self discipline and become more comfortable around my girlfriend and grow our relationship now that we have more time to spend with each other.

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A few weeks ago I saw a girl I have feelings for and she said hi to me and asked me how I'm doing but instead of telling her everything I wanted to (thanks for caring about me, I probably won't ever see you again but it's been fun, you mean a lot to me, etc) all I managed to get out was the usual "Oh uhh hi", "I'm okay I guess", "How's it going" while barely managing to control my nervous shaking even though I was literally on PCP and a bit buzzed off alcohol at the time.
I've always been socially awkward but until that day I didn't realize I probably have a legitimate problem, jesus that was bad. How many years until I manage to throw that out of my memories?

If only all whiteoid s had this mentality they would nt be going extinct. Alas they are cucked into oblivion

>Friday night
>feel overwhelmed, batteries ran out in my phone, work tablet, headphones, even my fucking hoodie
>feel like my own battery is running low
>call up a friend, spend the entire weekend at his place getting high/drunk, talking shit, watching movies and youtube on his home movie theater
>feel happy and charged today
Overall I'm quite good, man.

Actually what you said is better that what you intended. Never say shit like 'thanks for caring about me, I probably won't ever see you again but it's been fun, you mean a lot to me' unless you're about to jump off a bridge, mate. And even then don't tell that shit to girls, say it to your mom. Fucking hell.