>be me >always been tall and skinny af but still fit enough to work hard and not be a lazy sack of bones and shit >try working out occasionally but never have discipline to eat right or get a dedicated workout routine >rewind to a month ago >gf breaks up with me (said the "spark" and her feelings had faded, we tried to work it out, it didn't work) >be sad >drink away feelings for a couple weeks >get angry >get PISSED >do some simple calisthenics for the first time in at least a year >start running again >waitthisfeelsgood.jpg >keep doing mild workouts/runs >research diets, strength training, workout routines >actually commit and get gym membership >starting tomorrow
Fuck that bitch. I'm gonna improve myself and show her what she could be missing.
I'm finally fucking doing it after years. Time to get shit done and actually improve myself, I'm sick and tired of looking like a lanky weak shit stain. Time to work out, get fit, get better mentally and become a MAN instead of looking like a skinny weak pathetic fuck.
Use her to start. But your hatred will not sustain the required drive to reach the goal.
Brandon White
Channel your hate into your squats. It's the only way to succeed.
Parker Mitchell
If you're still jerking off (especially to her memories), you're won't make any gains and will only be at 1/4 your biophysical power.
Isaiah Cruz
FUCK YOU'RE RIGHT
But sacrifices must be made in the name of holy gains. No more beating my meat.
Christian Edwards
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and have been on a fitness journey ever since. I’ve dropped 20 pounds and gained muscle at the same time. I wanna be a fucking sick cunt and leave her in the fucking past where she belongs.
Logan Murphy
start today
Cooper Long
>wojak >Motivation high blogpost >Crying over women
Fuck off, ngmi
Dylan Davis
>Be me 3+ months ago >decide to buy bench with built in spotting thingies >start lifting to failure >go from 150lb x5 to 225lb x5 >jerk off 21+ times a week
So you are saying that if I wasn't jerking off I would have gained 4x the bench numbers?
Lincoln Howard
>spark Lmao. Modern relationships everyone. That's what happens when people mistake sexual desire for affection lol
Jaxson Cook
Affection is caused by sexual desire dumbass.
When a chick wants to fuck other dudes they stop being affectionate.
Lucas Robinson
Good shit. Alter your foundation for motivation quickly, though, or you will falter and end up worse than when you started.
Evan Hill
My point exactly, either women are incapable of feeling "love" aka affection that is separate from just sexual desire and the need to have sex, or all women are whores, which one is it so I can go have sex
Benjamin Russell
That's because love isn't real.
If you aren't in a culture that pushes for lifetime marriages, chastity and monogamy you won't have the type of one person for me for the rest of my life type relationship.
But honestly that's a good thing, human beings weren't made to stay with the same person for more than a year or so.
Samuel James
>reddit spacing >cuckoldry Pottery
Oliver Cruz
>Starting tomorrow Ngmi
Evan Gomez
>reddit spacing It's normal to put spaces in between paragraphs if you aren't an illiterate.
Lucas Ross
>reddit cope Lmao
Brandon Turner
Love exists user. You just need to meet the right girl AND be her right guy, most people get lazy.
Cameron Cook
Yeah man it's all about the good feels in the moment. And when you stop feeling good leaving the people around you and finding new ones to keep feeling good feelings.
My point exactly. Human beings are hardwired to stay together for about the length of time it takes to reach full term pregnancy.
When you don't have a kid with someone and are around them that long there is an extremely steep dropoff in the amount of satisfaction you can feel in a relationship with them, the sexual drive will be non-existent and you will have to work very hard to not get on each-others nerves, it isn't worth it and its time to move on at that point.
Jaxson Perry
You're the product of divorced parents, aren't you?
Oliver Watson
>gonna get gainz >started running >researching stuff >gonna get gym membershit
being COMITTED is not enough bro, if you were really mad, if you were that determined, you would speak in past tense step up
James Miller
>product of divorced parents Yup. The way culture is going lifelong marriage will never exist again.
Jonathan Gutierrez
Lmao. Delusional. You realize you only think that because you're mentally damaged from your parents being divorced, right?
Evan Clark
My parents divorced after I was already out of the house and had already had a few serious live in relationships.
If you don't want to have kids there is no reason to get married.
Your idealistic family unit is a dated concept.
Dylan Wilson
>If you don't want to have kids Mental illness, typically caused by endless brainwashing by popular media.
>Your idealistic family unit is a dated concept Lmfao. What a soi thing to say. Go be a cuck if you like, faggot.
Catch 22, if I had a kid I wouldn't have time to consume media.
You claim the media is at fault. I'm not disputing that, I however don't view it as a negative thing like you do because I'm not brainwashed into thinking lifelong marriages are worthwhile.
Jace Roberts
Yes
Josiah Adams
You are wrong. Jumps in serum levels of testosterone that would trigger growth can not be obtained by simply abstaining from masturbating.
Not to mention the physical act of masturbating literally maintains your gains.
Skipping breakfast increases your test levels 100x more than not jerking off will.
John Martinez
idk about all that biology jibber jabber but when I get the urge to wank it I turn that into productive energy. Helps me get things done and the urge passes.
Ethan Roberts
I don't need to get things done. I work 6 hour shifts and I'm single. There is plenty of time for masturbation.
Sebastian Garcia
>if I had a kid I wouldn't have time to consume media Wrong another lie you were brainwashed into thinking. I bet you also think each kid costs like 800k to raise. You have plenty of time for personal time or hobbies with kids and kids are not very expensive.
>I'm not brainwashed into thinking lifelong marriages are worthwhile. >this level of nihilistic retardation Yeah, building a life together with your spouse and living a loving lifelong partnership isn't worthwhile. How fucking stupid are you.
Jaxon Edwards
Feeding a kid alone would fucking wreck my budget, let alone clothing them and buying them toys and shit.
>plenty of time for personal time or hobbies Bullshit. You gonna just dump taking care of the kids onto your spouse? When they are super young you don't even get to sleep.
Aaron Long
>Feeding a kid alone would fucking wreck my budget Formula is not expensive and they breast feed at first, then later they just eat what you do, just in tiny portions. You also have dual incomes, you and your spouse.
>let alone clothing them and buying them toys and shit Consignment sales or goodwill if you're that desperate.
>You gonna just dump taking care of the kids onto your spouse ??? They sleep a lot, you can do whatever you want. You can lift while they play 10 ft away etc.
>When they are super young you don't even get to sleep. Nah, you get plenty of sleep. Listen man, I get you're delusional and have had you head filled with lies, but get some fucking balls instead of making excuses.
Jason Myers
Brehs. I accidently opened my memories map and saw me and my ex. I got this fury in me and this heat in my chest and face. I suddenly feel adrenaline and power. Is it really possible to lift the pain away? Im not sure if I wanna cry or lift right now. I need get the fuck on.
Is that an uncensored female nipple on my blue board?
Evan Stewart
I'm not delusional dude, I would rather have that time and money to myself.
If you don't have to support a family you don't have to work 40 hours a week or more and that directly translates into basically having free time to fuck around doing nothing all day.
That kind of freedom doesn't exist with a spouse and kids. I know you think its some ballsy manly normal thing to do but I'm literally telling you that you are succumbing to a biological urge and sacrificing yourself.
Austin Taylor
>love >right woman >right guy
holy fuck youre one massive bluepilled retard
Alexander Stewart
>tfw completely ghosted her on social media >accidentally see her beautiful ig profile pic while looking up another user
MAYBE IF I LIFT MORE THE REGRET WILL GO AWAY
Landon Lopez
>hedonism is the only thing that matters >why sacrifice? why not just watch anime all day, work 20 hours a week, have no extra money and be a total fucking loser lmao You are all fucked up. I hope you get out the mess your in.
You've got the right idea but the wrong execution.
Work only in the winter, with some spring and fall. Basically get a factory job once the weather is shitty. Decent enough pay with as much overtime as they offer.
Save and pinch pennies and just be a general degenerate. Stay home, spend no money, eat cheap. Then quit soon as you have a decent allowance for all the months till shitty weather again.
Spend all the warm months doing whatever you want within your monthly allowance. I'd suggest going to some country where your money is worth more. People think you're rich because you take months long vacations when really you just starve yourself all winter and work like a slave.
