Is having a oneitis the most powerful motivator to lift?

jesus bro you hit me where it hurts

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no it means you're a fucking faggot and/or underage

Getting a oneitis made me start training and diet 2 month ago. If she never came along then I would still be drinking beer every night and ordering pizza. She has moved on already of course and is sleeping with loads of other guys but at least if I keep going I wont be a fatfuck when the next oneitis that comes along.

Turbo incel
Super incel
Incel
Incel

why ya gotta do me like that on my birthday bro

>you'll never have her look up at you
>because you're a manlet

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>having an oneitis
how can someone have such low self-respect?

>it’s another Jow Forums thread
Why can’t these faggots go away?
None of them even lift

kek

>None of them even lift
My chest is stronger than your legs.
Prove me wrong.

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This

Post body

>those fatceps

nice so you can bench you're own bodyweight
*squeak squeak*

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Don't play stupid, a lot of Jow Forums has seen my body by now.
People even pretend to be me.
You still need to post a lift bigger than a 4pl8 floor press first.

>shit talks on Jow Forums
>can't prove he squats or deadlifts more than 4pl8s
Yikes.

Same here
No

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my oneitis has inspired me to actually start a trade instead of just working pointless temp jobs and spend all my money on travel
I didn't even care about owning my own home or moving out of my parents or getting a real career before her
I will be the man, for myself, but she was the inspiration

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Oh right you’re that fat incel who's obsessed with his waifu, just use a trip code already
>tfw you bulk on nothing but McDonald’s
You’re like a pale big lenny or even fatter vasiliy alexev

Iván?

>can't even deadlift 4pl8s
I bet I can lose 25lbs of bodyweight faster than you can put on 25lbs on your bench.

fuck you man

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>le gym maxed incel meme.jpeg
As much as I hate that meme and my hatred for said meme gets mogged by my hatred of the people who made it, it describes you pretty well

Inflammation of the one?

>Be alone for 5 years
>Start lifting randomly
>lose a shitton of weight
>start socializing more
>meet friend I haven't seen in years
>realize that I should've asked her out then
>get severe onetis for her
>no strength to lift, no strength to work, barely able to move
>power trough this shit for a month, working out every day through pain just because I gotta
>onetis subsides
>feel good again
Fuck no, it's the biggest gains goblin I've ever encountered personally.

>Tfw she's 6'0 and you're 5'4
Going to make it though, I ain't no beta.
If I can make it you goobers can too.

Just make sure you can princess carry her when needed and DO NOT bump her head against a door frame.

I have had like 50 women at age 32 so no. Women ain't shit. Focus on getting paid and getting fitter and stronger. The rest will come but you must be very disciplined and strong-willed.

>my oneitis doesn't even think about me
>no one does
>tfw 34 year old khv
what do?

>thinks I'm gym-maxxed
Wow you must be really small, it explains why you don't post body.
I spend more time commuting to work than I do in the gym.

>tfw my One messaged this morning with "I love you" and a string of magical little emojis

Use your muscle wizard powers. Duh.

But you are an incel, I would have said gym maxed virgin because that’s how the memes are supposed to work but you unironicly are one
Have sex

Fake and gay

in what realm is this scenario difficult for you to believe?

fuck you

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Oh no please no

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>implying these aren't just your projections
Lift weights or don't bother posting on Jow Forums

this is no place for happy people

>no you
I’m not the fatass dating a voice in my head

Is it wrong that I respect you for this? 11 years.

No you're the dyel that's bringing down Jow Forums with your abhorrent posting and overall bad vibes.

r/incelswholift seems like a better place for (You)
You’re fat as fuck and delusional, it’s hard not to make fun of you. Do you think people wouldn’t mock Chris Chan or Nicholas fedorov if he were buff?

You can't make fun of somebody till you post your body and actually be better than thrm.
You've done neither.
You're just venting your frustrations out at me.
Take your own advice and spend more time away from Jow Forums.
Waifu-posters will always be better than you if you don't change.

Incel cope
>fatties and twinks who couldn’t get laid and made their own girlfriends being better than anything
Kek

Give up on your crusade, user.
I'm not giving you attention anymore.

>tfw like a qt filipina girl from work
>tfw perfect ass, hips and beautiful legs all visible from her leggings
>good personality, laughs at my jokes and looks incredible without makeup

I want to fuck her so bad bros

>I’m gonna run away but act like I won
Gonna jack off some more, fatty?

Well seeing as you frequent Jow Forums, your chances drastically go down

No you shouldn't lift for reasons other than because you enjoy it and want to be fitter and healthier. Because if it's for someone else you will never enjoy or be passionate about it so what's the point

Oneitis will wreck your life, and you will 100% deserve it for being a bitch.

t. Oneitis wrecked my life, and I 100% deserved it for being a bitch.

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Sure, until you get her and everything is perfect for years. You get to talking about marriage, dreams, and starting a life together. And then one day she leaves and your left with nothing but a hole in your heart and a wish you could forget her and all the time you spent together.
Fuck you Emily, you whore

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Guys, I have oneitis again, but this time I think it's justified. She is just so amazing. It's not just her looks, which are a given, but her confidence, how hard she tries in everything. And how she pushes the people around her to be better too. She genuinely is an amazing person. She is cute and knows how to have fun, is super into the things that she into (mostly sports), but also super open to all sorts of other things, whenever someone approaches her with a new interest or skill, whether it is music, anime, or even a new clique of people, whatever, she goes all in to try and understand, if anything it probably intimidates others in how genuinely interested she is in you when she is with you. And to top it all off, she genuinely goes out of her way to spend time with and help disabled people out with their disabilities. I mean, who unironically does that.

She is fucking amazing bros.

is this a new ratirl emote?

I used to grapple with these very same feels. Coupled by the fact I once had her, and she once did all those things. But she left me. I was ruined for months.
despite that, today I am stronger, smarter, and better in every way because of the pain I experienced. Now I lift regularly, maintain a good diet, have a good job, and smash tinder thots weekly. Life is good.

delet

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>loading an old Martini
Based and Zulu-pilled.

these posts dont hurt me anymore

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>used to have pic related saved for years as a reminder of what I want in life
>finally got together with oneitis and she did exactly that when she got back from vacation once
>my most vivid memory of the relationship was that moment
>after 2 shitty tinder rebounds and 1 crazy chick, start lifting.
>been almost 3 years since we broke up

You're goddamn right it's a motivator. I will never be that vulnerable again.

If someone wants to pursue a relationship with me, they will talk to me first.

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Too bad she'll never love you

Why lift if she wont love me?

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Why lift if she loves you

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After a few years I knew it was going nowhere with my oneitis, so I deleted her off my socials and confessed over the phone. I needed the outright rejection for my own sanity. It's been just over a year and I haven't felt any type of way about any girl since.

I broke up with my oneitis that I’ve dated for 5 years nov 18’ and I still feel like she’s right by my side. I can’t let her go bros

>I broke up with my oneitis
why?

It started feeling stale. But it was because I was going through some tough shit in my life and I had a way of taking some bad energy out on her. She isn’t completely innocent either but I wasn’t the best bf. If I hadn’t broken up, it wouldn’t gone nowhere. Now it’s 50/50 whether I get back with her. But at least I have the choice now instead of it getting worse back then

Idk about motivation. I just made lifting a habit. I go to the gym and lift every alternate day despite of the other shit going on in my life so it's the only constant.
> Oneitis
I don't have any friends and have never been on a date (20 yo) so I have no interactions with girls outside work or college. I have had a *crush* on a girl for more than a year now but have never spoken to her. I fantasize holding hands with her sometimes but that's about it. Don't know if that's a oneitis if it doesn't prevent you from talking to other girls.
I don't know much about motivation but I think if you are having trouble making it to the gym you should work on discipline instead- make lifting a habit at a set time just like sleeping when it's nightime even when you aren't tired.

>having a oneitis
>having OCD
You are mentally ill. Seek professional help.

>you had her look up to you
>you have heard her say to you alone, before going to sleep together
>she messaged me yesterday
>already going out with another girl
i dont know what to make of this lads

>tfw have gf but still filled with loneliness because I can never be myself, only the idealized lie I present to her.
>tfw knowing who I actually am is unlovable

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>first gf left me for confronting her about lying to me
>said I was "abusive" for doing it
>not even 2 weeks after leaving me, she was chasing the gym Chad
>it's been 5 months since then
>can't trust another girl or even bare to open up to anybody else in anyway anymore
>only thing I have going for me right now is good progress at the gym
>other than that, I hate my fucking job and can't find the discipline to study so that I can go to university next year
>when I do get Jow Forums, I doubt I'll be able to bond with a girl again
>will probably just make a game of playing multiple girls at once

I feel empty.

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stay strong

cringe

The fuck is that from

Sure... if you're a faggot.

My oneitis just makes me depressed and deprives me of the dopamine I need to go all out in my workouts. I could have had her but I fucked up and now I have nothing to show for it.

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>could have had her but I fucked up and now I have nothing to show for it.
same I think but I still have hope
I feel that she just looks at me sadly now though

Yep it’s the same for me. She definitely liked me at one point but there was no opportunity for me to initiate things in person so I just waited and now I don’t think she cares.

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>That pic
That type of relationship doesn't exist

i mean it makes me feel dead inside and then i lift to try and escape that feeling for a little while so maybe

That's the most powerful motivator towards becoming a pathetic beta male. Do that if thats your goal i guess.

coping butthurt incel

>tfw only 2" taller than her
>she'll never say "You're a big guy"

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Idec about cunny at this point I just want a loving partner to be intimate with. Sit on sofa watching movies with and going on cutesy dates.

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You sound like a kid who just learned what an insult means

Is oneitis a stage you simply grow out of, but everyone experiences it?