Besides the extreme outliers...

Too bad those goals and aspirations are all shallow and pointless as fuck

do you not see what the issue is here? jesus.

My gf is in med school studying to become a doctor. It seems insane to think of that as shallow and pointless.

its not about how you see them, its about how they see you. 6'5 chad white or its over. simple

That's your own voice speaking, not someone else. Keep that in mind.

If you are trying to compete with ultra chads for the same girl, chances are you're looking at girls out of your league.

you're all gunna die. ultimately it's pointless. just do what you must. but trying to achieve greatness will either cause you to lose your soul or become delusional insane always posting positive philosophical quotes on facebook in the hopes they change your lie of a reality.

>on Jow Forums
>has gf
Either LARP or leave, retard

She's the amazing smart beautiful virgin gf that most people only dream about, too. Posting here is a guilty pleasure of mine and I fully agree that I should stop.

>Besides the extreme outliers
you lost?

you talk about how stupid it is to achieve greatness, yet look at all of you only going for the 1%

I know what you mean bro, posting on /v/ is my guilty pleasure. My dad works for Nintendo and I get to play all the new games a year before they come out. Goku will be in Smash.

A "doctor" eh?
A "gf" eh?
>seems legit

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Part of the reason I post here is because I have low self-esteem, and seeing all the people who don't believe my life always makes me feel better.

Yeah, only if the dude I marry has good enough genes to pass on and makes more money than I will

Which is no one on this board, including you

everybody wants better. everybody wants more. it's the craving that destroys. this world is a fuck up we live longer have so called 'better' lives but everyone is miserable and the suicide rates are skyrocketing, go figure, we fucked up.
so ambitions are lies. fate is the ultimate decider, and God controls your fate.

successful people are lucky, yet they think it was all them. how ignorant when the rest majority of humanity is living in boxes covered in human shit to stay warm in the winter.
it's all a consumerist lie. go be a doctor if you think you were born for it, if you truly want to help others, then do it, because that might be your fate.
lots of doctors are shit doctors doing it just for the money. and the patients suffer for it. but whatever it's not my business this is a fallen world.

how do i do that
originalililililiil

If you didn't have, at least, one GF during teenage years, or before turning 21, it's not really worth it to try that anymore.
Most, if not almost all, women care too much for their social status, so when they are teenagers, they are hell-bent into getting experience with men, it's more ingrained in their biology than in some men. Other teen boys are also so hell-bent into losing their virginity and having, at least, one GF, due to peer pressure.

In my case, I neither go peer-pressured nor felt challenged by anyone, or follow anyone else's example.
I don't have siblings, or chilhood friends, I had some crushes but never got beyond that. After HS, I became even more shut in, former HS classmates stopped talking with me, etc.
I also was an edgy moron.

Assuming you're still living with a parent, you still have it in you to get out into the world.

You bring up the virginity thing, and ya, i'm pretty dumbfounded by it too. Sex isn't that great, especially when everyone is hyping it up so much.

Do what ya gotta do user, sometimes your own thoughts and self-isolation is what is needed to eventually figure out what you really want out of life. Never give up on yourself, you've got this.

nah man when you get older girls value you more, well i mean first of all you know more, have more life experience and hopefully a job or somehow you are independent, and if not that then atleast you are more manly, and not a little clueless fuccboi who doesn't know what they want anymore.

alot of guys find gf later in life. everybody is different.
experience when ur a kid or teenager is pointless and just corrupts your dignity. it only matters when it's the real deal,serious and not just fucking around because you don't know any better.

all women will cheat because they are emotional thinkers. fuck that shit.

its more like they don't believe how inept you must be to squander a life in which your'e given everything on this board

My med school gf was my first and I met her when I was 23. She thought I had plenty of girlfriends just because I'm naturally laid back and good at acting confident (despite actually having low self-esteem). Whether or not you had a prior gf is basically irrelevant, the only thing that matters is if you know how to carry yourself in a way that girls find attractive. Having sex or even dating a girl won't automatically help with that.

No one cares about your personal experience or how she's a med student. That's what's truly irrelevant.

but we are all seeing the world through our own personal experiences. and when you realize this you will realize listening to people's experiences is all we have.

My life is crazy. I start getting suicidal thoughts when I think about how many things miraculously fell into my lap that I just wasted. Like the fact that I turned a 7k crypto investment into 380k and then lost 240k of it when I was 22.

I can get behind that, but trying to convince everyone that you have a girlfriend is pointless to this thread. Say what you need to say and stop pressing the same thing over 5+ posts.

This. You have to wait until they are 45 before they finally have a reality check. Men can have them in their teens. Women have to ride the cock carousel AND still hold out another 15 years after that before finally understanding what embracing reality truly means.

Each of my posts had a different point. was refuting the idea that you need a GF by 21 or it's over.

>Read a book
that is literally the most baiting sentence ever invented. it's just so pretentious and dumb that it gives me an aneurism to even read it
Then again most women do not have aspirations and goals, and even more do not reach emotional maturity until they have a kid.
I am working on my own mental stability, and I fail to see how a woman would improve the life of anyone unless it's one of the few that are truly self sufficient and mature enough to not need you and therefore not want you. Until you become someone mature enough to attract that kind of person you should avoid any other woman, as they will only bring pain and unstability

Thanks for bringing up a few good criticisms. But i'd argue against the part that women 'do not have goals' and that this notion is by far the largest hurdle (bar maturity) that the majority on this board face.

My dad lost his virginity at 12. His father kinda forced him to do so. It was a pretty common practice back then, fathers wouldn't allow faggotry in their sons.

Sex probably isn't that great. I agree that porn, movies, series, anime and even videogames, hype it probably too much.

I'm 31yo, so I doubt that I'm beyond redemption.

I know stuff that is boring for most people. I'm a fucking geek. I also have a shitty job that borderlines slavery, no car.
I do look manly enough, at least, to not being into faggotry.
I tried to make my move on a girl my age a couple of years ago. I didn't work out, but I also think that I dodged a bullet there. That girl had some issues.

I don't self loathe now what op?

>league
Can't choose who I'm attracted to
"Just lower your standards lmao" is fucking dumb advice

I think the correct way to go about it is "they don't have clear goals" just as most males don't have clear goals either

There are only two goals women should have
>being the best wife they can be
>being the best mother they can be
Anything else they can do is irrelevant because men do it better.

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The average girl has inherent value and has experience positive feedback their entire lives
It's hard to care about anything when you know that no one cares about you.
There is no reason, the purpose of life is to reproduce.