I want a bf thats just as traumatized as me but most mens trauma amounts to getting rejected a few times in high school

lol listen to that laundry list of bullshit emotional problems. You sound like a chick.

I'm gay but I want a depressed gf that will want me to come over and cuddle her at night and only wants sex on rate occasions.

I'm literally so autistic that I bash my head into the wall until I stop crying because that's how my father used to discipline me before he passed

Same. I feel bad about the shit I did on grindr. I was a virgin and felt lonely and tired of being khhv at 23. Sucked a fat 18yos smelly dick. Got fucked by a guy and didn't even get his name and he wasn't that attractive like in his pic that was obviously taken a few years back when he was in hs in retrospect.

Look at all you losers responding to this retarded bait. You feel stupid jow? Gonna cry? Gonna piss your pants? Or maybe shit and cum?

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I'm a sensitive fuck. I wish I'd just die.

My mother and father are both abusive and have mental illness, but my father was far more violent so we left when I was a kid. Now I just endure the slow burning insanity of my mother. Finding somebody who has problems does not necessarily mean that youll click better with them, if anything, thats just your way of not actively dealing with your own problems. You likely believe that if you meet someone who is just as damaged as you, that you wont actually have to change and improve as a person since the other person is fucked. However, men are far more proactive and solution oriented and tend to try sorting out their lives. Plus, the value of a man is often based on how he deals with and overcomes problems, so he is bound to fix himself eventually, which will cause you to feel alienated from him because you want to wallow in your own pity forever and drag him down with you rather than fix yourself. Even if you dont immediately feel alienated from him when he fixes himself, youll probably become aware that his value has increased by virtue of solving his own problems, which will cause you to spiral out thinking that he will leave you for somebody better. However, men are usually loyal to a fault and he wont plan to leave you until you spiral out and make things awful, making it all into a self fulfilling prophecy type ordeal. Fix yourself first you fool.

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darn i think im gonna cry now

Almost the same situation here, except with the parents' genders reversed. And no drug addiction just yet.

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I'm gonna be that faggot who one ups:
-almost drowned and got ready to die
-almost died to deadly disease, bad enough docs were surprised i didn't
-almost killed by several people
-almost killed by high voltage cause retard coworker - luckily muscle spasm got me knocked away, 50% you keep hanging on and rip

Still not traumatized. I think it's all in your head. You don't choose what happens but you choose how you react to it. Bit of a Buddhist approach.

its all in my head that someone broke into my house to rob the place and nearly killed me?

Raped 3 times when I was 12, my only girlfriend ever was emotionally abusive, someone killed themselves and made me it was my fault which made me think I had blood on my hands for years.

What up OP?

Just find a guy who's been cheated on once. Shouldn't be hard. That's par for the course these days. Oh, is your feeble roastie mind confused as to why?

>Cuckoldry is the male equivalent of rape.

In both cases the victim does not consent. In both cases the primary reproductive investment is stolen from the victim. Any man can rape any woman; any woman can cuck any man; the reverse for both cases is not true. If anyone wants to argue with this, I'd love to BTFO you.

>made me it was my fault which made me think I had blood on my hands for years.
Ah that's a tough one, that must have really screwed you up in inside

kek fucking bullshit
you were probably emotionally abusive to her because of your parents

Sorry, swallowed a word, I meant made me think it was my fault

>Sorry, swallowed a word, I meant made me think it was my fault
Yeah I got that when I read it

>i want a bf thats just as traumatized as me but most mens trauma amounts to getting rejected a few times in high school
post traumas

It's in your head how you react/evaluate. Literally second sentence after what you quoted. Example given - amp up security if location is shit or decide you got unlucky and leave it be but don't obsess over it.

And yeah, it screwed me up, but over time I realized it wasn't my fault and stopped beating myself up for it.

i mean if you want actual advice on how to find a prospective bf, here's some stuff i've noticed:
1. most traumatized guys don't outwardly display it
2. most reflect that stuff inward
3. this results in horrific self-confidence
4. this can result in furthering observation 1: they don't want to be seen as a bother to others and further take out their anger inwardly.
this could very well factor into why guys kill themselves with seemingly no explanation whatsoever more often than women. i'm not making any value judgements on the male vs female coping mechanism, just legitimate patterns i've noticed. hopefully this comes in handy in some capacity.

>tfw want to heal and support a broken man
>but feel like i'd be too normie for him
>only ((emotionally)) abused by a parent

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What about healing and supporting a lonely man femanon

OP, you've got the genders reversed

Why do you want someone as fucked up as you? All you'll do is take on each other's problems. Being scarred from previous trauma doesn't mean you're more patient and understanding either. Sure you can be, but you can also be super guarded and closed off. You're better off finding a guy with a big heart who will love and accept you because he's got the emotional energy and maturity to do so, regardless of his past.

i meant my oneitis, sorry i didn't make that clear.

This thread sucks.
I just want a qt girl that I can love and support but pic related is why I'll always be single. I'm not even that much of a drag, but I am enough that girls pick up on it.

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I kind of feel the same way, but not just trauma I need someone who is as cynical and as ruined by the internet as I am. I find it hard to relate to the innocence of people who didnt grow up watching wierd porn and videos of people being dismembered.

this is the most judaic post I have ever read
I can smell your semitic self loathing through time and space

That's a powerful feeling, OP. I know it well. Rarely is there a man who had trauma growing up and they are very unrelatable. Seems like the only men who experienced trauma are gay men and obviously I can't date them.

As if traumatized you mean experienced violence?yeah ivr been there and done that. I am extremely hateful person and will probably kill hundreds one day so ypu wont like me.

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You don't want anything more complicated than a billied kid from hs. There might be some nasty ASPD asshole in process, who seems like the best broken goods for you, but he'll end up convincing you that you're a worthless piece of shit, who can't even raise a son right.

I like to shift the point so many times it creates a circle.

it's a hard knock life user

>women's trauma
lmao

This. Men are so emotionally weak it's flabbergasting.

I don't hate men by any degree, despite the fact that, with a few exceptions, all my of greatest tormenters and abusers were men. I still have the emotional fortitude to recognise that all men aren't monsters just because some are.

Most men on the other hand, are absolutely pathetic. Elliot Rodger never approached a woman (check out the Mumkey Jones' reviews or read his personal account). Elliot just stood around waiting for women to approach him because he had a nice car. Then, when nothing fucking happened, he decided to murder a bunch of women. Men on this board get rejected a couple of times in high school, or get let on, and they fucking REEEE at an entire gender consisting of billions of individuals.

It's just astounding how emotional compromised the people on this board are. They can't even order pizza on the phone.

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Post kik user, I have a somewhat similar story

>all my of greatest tormenters and abusers

Hm, you might actually be female.

There's a double thing here. One is that women who call people "abusers" tend to have just as few actual incidents to report as your average incel does. There's a general feeling of having been "abused," just as a miasma of "rejection" lays over the incel. The only difference there is that you think it's real when it's happening to you.

The other thing is, in order to be abused or tormented in the way women suggest, you have to be in a relationship first. Women complain that the water tastes bad, men ask to have any water at all. As to which is worse, who knows.

I had a rather Kafkaesque experience of several years of gaslighting. I spent several years in isolation and paranoia trying to untangle it all. TBD

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Why do you come to r9k to make fun of robots?

Both men and women are emotionally weak. Their weaknesses simply manifest in different ways.

Emotionally weak men -> Just fucking give up on everything, REEE about it, stay incel, etc.

Emotionally weak women -> Just fucking give up on everything and fall back to using their tits/ass/pussy to make men give them everything they want.

>the false accusation meme
Dude, there's a video of me when I was 6 being fondled by a friend of my dad's which is shared between pedophiles online, please spare me your lame rhetoric.

>be in a relationship first
Actually, in addition to what I was discussion above, I was mostly thinking about parental abuse, street crime, and school bullying.

Your post basically validates my point. Here I am thinking about being targetted as a child, and all you're preoccupied with is romantic rejections and Chad giving your oneitis the back of his hand while he fucks her under the bleachers. You melodramatic pedants aren't in the same universe I am.

I've been on Jow Forums for years, so I visit Jow Forums occasionally although it is far from my main board.

The vast majority of users here are boring, insipid love struck mouth-breathers (literally, see:mewing). Every once in awhile though (usually in the 30+ threads) you get someone who is terribly insightful and interesting. People like that make it worth while. I also like the /creativity/ generals. Post my stuff there sometimes.

I also like to greentext sex stories here to masturbate, but lately people have been posting "REEEE NORMIE" instead of getting off like they used to in the good old days. It is pretty funny when I LARP as a someone who gets laid and am met with a litany of wanna be Hanmibal Lecters trying to trigger and paychoanalyse me over stories that have no resemblance to my real life.

Yeah, but having an emotional meltdown and drinking wine while crying into your cat is nowhere near as pathetic as driving a van into an old lady. At least in their greatest emotional distress, the average woman still has the emotional wherewithal to inflict her anguish upon herself rather than turn innocents into victims. Men have always been compelled to "take others with them".

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I don't use kik, do you have any other form of contact info?

I got sexually, physically and verbally abused throughout my entire childhood, also was severely neglected and was never allowed to leave the house by myself except to attend to school.
i now have severe PTSD and dissociative identity disorder (multiple personalities)
life is absolute shit and I want to die
but dont get your hopes up, fembot. Im a girl

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i wish i could abuse degenerate fem'bot's

what is dumber?
falling for the bait?
or bragging about how shit your life is?

Samefag. Anyway, twenty fucking bucks some idiot is going to be like "hurrrr post video" or some other shit that would have been shocking twenty years ago but is mundane now that I mentioned I'm a CSA survivor.

To continue blogposting at , there's an user I met on here, who's a man, who occasionally greentexts about his abuse at the hands of his aunt. We're pretty good friends and have met several times IRL. That's another good example. Amongst the idiots, some people here do make excellent, sympathetic company.

I was gonna object and say I'm not a degenerate, but I used to really be into femdom and am essentially a scalie so, yeah, iunno, do your best, I suppose.

>Men have always been compelled to "take others with them".

I know that you know women fuck up the lives of others just as much as anyone else.

I'm not disagreeing with your general idea that men are shitty emotionally anyway. Just for every shitty male child diddler out there, there's also a woman who beats her kids senseless and fucks them up forever.

I've been here years too; I post in the 30+ threads even though I'm basically a normie now. But my life was shit from age 14-32, so I get how people can feel.

Why do you make excuses for punching on people who're already on the floor?
Just don't come here if you can't resist your impulses.

>women fuck up lives just as much as men
If I wasn't on the train I'd make a variation on the "DESPITE BEING 13%" meme but with men because crime statistics say otherwise. Controlling for all other variables, men destroy far more lives than women.

>beat children versus diddling
(Citation needed). Regardless, I would much rather be beaten than sexually abused and filmed. Bruises heal. Photos on the internet are forever and are basically the reason I've lost several high profile jobs.

>literal oldfag
Nice.

My point is that the vast majority of you whining maggots who claim to be "on the floor" have a tummy ache and a pair functioning legs, whereas I had my legs cut off, the wound still putrid and dripping, and yet I'm still on my stumps.

Atleast you're showing your true colors, still no excuse to shit on the weak.

>weak
If you choose to be "weak", you're not actually weak, you're lazy and pathetic. The only thing crippling you is an indolent lifestyle with multitudes of distractions.

Well you may have not gotten OP's hopes up, but you sure did mine.

Oh well, you got MY hopes up now.

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Happy to help hope things go well for you.

can we be a threesome

Unfortunately I only participate in monogamous relationships.

I am traumatized from an abusive childhood step father and some other stuff. But I can't be a boyfriend, feels pretty bad

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Never date anyone crazier then yourself.

Ive never had a relationship so idk

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I haven't either, all though under specific circumstances I would like to try.

you haven't been with the two of us, lets all date each other

if you take care of me and dont mind my memory gaps, sure
same, to be honest

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my brother was held up at gunpoint, does that count as trauma?

You don't seem very traumatized by it which is refreshing. I think a lot of us have had hard things that scarred us happen, but I hate how whiney people can be here. You made me realize I have no idea why I come here.

That's perfect, if he won't accept our threesome then I guess we have to settle for just the two of us. What do you use to talk besides here?

We can have a threesome if i can just talk to you guys and not fuck lol. (i don't want to be a cuck, just friends)

NOW HE ONLY WANTS TO BE FRIENDS WITH US!? I thought we could all have something special together...(jk we can all chill)

JFK made it out so easy

Well bud I guess it's just you and me now.

what kinda vidya do you play then?

Random shit really nothing in particular anymore.

Same, I'm kinda bored though do you like snakes?

This is interesting, might lurk more to see the outcome. Also never seen a girl with that haircut be anything but a trama chick.

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Snakes are super unfairly treated all though every time i see one in the wild i shit my pants for a few seconds.

I agree. I have a ton of snakes actually, add me on discord we can talk there if you want. cymbal#4090

I'd feel really guilty because I would probably not talk much and only get on every few days.

I don't care man, nobody is expected to be friends forever online. It's your choice though

Trips of truth (checked).
Don't we all do that.
I barely even go on discord anymore.
meh.

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