I'm in a tough spot here. I'm 27 and I havent had sex or even went out with a girl since high-school 10 years ago...

OP cropped or censor her face out of the photo. She is probably sending her pics to other dudes on the internet. It's really no big deal if nobody can identify her.

Also, I'd advise AGAINST sending her nudes. Just be like, "you'll have to see it in person ;)".

Never send nude pictures. Once it's out there it doesnt disappear

>OP cropped or censor her face out of the photo.
OP, crop or censor her face out of the photo*

Sorry typo

Here is it. I'm so unsure. Am I a bad guy

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OK sent it. Also Thanks since she has my face pick it's a bigger deal if I sent a nude. But other than that we are strangers to each other.

No, OP. You aren't a bad guy. She's really big, if you aren't attracted to her then don't waste your time. I feel mean saying it but when you let yourself go like that you lose your human shape. I think you can probably find someone more compatible. If you like big tits and think you can get off from that then she might be okay. But yeah, I think most women that big will have slightly smelly pussy at the best and rank pussy at the worst.

That's pretty big, dude. Do you really want your first time to be with that? I'll be honest with you, I used to have really bad OCD autism about my virginity. I could have lost it to so many fat landwhales. I had to wait until I was 23 to lose it to a skinny Asian girl and it was totally worth it. Your angst over virginity will just get replaced with disgust.

You have options, dude. You might want to look into Eastern Europe or Asia for a girlfriend.

Yeah, don't send nudes. You never know if it's a catfish. I doubt it, but you never know. Good luck on whatever you plan to do.

Also, before I forget. Having sex with somebody that you don't love is pretty awful. It's gonna feel like masturbation but your dick will be inside a warm hole. It's gonna be even shittier if you're not even sexually attracted to her.

Thanks man your comment makes me feel better. It's just a nice feeling knowing a girl is dtf with me. Her face looks way cuter in her earlier snap chat filtered pics...
Im a bad guy though. I'm too fucking nice kept leading her on. Now she thinks I want to fuck her because I keep acting. I'm in too deep it feels.
And I agree. I'm more of a ass, legs guy. And yes when you're larger you do lose that human shape. I wouldn't mind a thicc girl but this might be next level after thicc.

I feel like I should take it since I'm desperate for touch. But I don't want to feel shame after.

I think you'll probably feel pretty sad afterwards if you go through with it. I'm sorry OP. :(

Yes she is larger than I expected. Her earlier photos made her seem thicc but not fat. I've neverrrr jerked to to fat women. Thicc older milfs is the largest I've gotten off to but they had curves and shape.

You guys have been so helpful. I decided to just not do it. Also I had sex several times with my hs girlfriend but like I said that was back in 2008-09. I'm just touch starved. But I'm not ugly...
OK I've made a decision. How do I just stop all this no on sense. Ghost her?

Don't do it if you think you'll have regrets. Because you will have regrets.
>I'm in too deep it feels.
You're not obligated to fuck her dude. Nobody is entitled to your dick, even if you're a virgin.

That's a good point. I really didn't think about that. The nice thing would be the intimate human touch I never get. But she is large and idk how well that is going to work.

It's crazy I never had a girl so dtf with me. And of course it happens to be an obese women. Wtf

Ghosting is shitty and immature. Just say, "I'm too afraid to meet somebody from Reddit. I'm glad that you find me attractive, but I'm scared to meet an internet stranger IRL".

It's a soft blow and it doesn't leave her hanging.

Hahaha I did make it sound like I had to fuck her didn't I. Man I'm a mess. Just the thought of a women being sexually attracted to me has made me hornier than I have been in awhile. But not turned on by her actually appearance though.

Oh well. Maybe I should actually try dating sites. I met this girl on reddit so I wasn't even trying to find a date. Also I'm not a virgin but it's been so long I might as well be a born again virgin lol

Are you even putting yourself out there dude? Like go on Tinder, and pay for Tinder plus. Just let your profile sit for two weeks, and pay to see who liked you. Even cold-approaching women at bars would probably be more fruitful than what you're doing now.

If you so desperately want human touch, you gotta get yourself out there. Women won't come to you. That's the sexual fallacy of men.

Because of her weight? Probably right.

Okay but... I just got really into the act. I pretend to be really turned on by her for the thrill of it and I liked getting pics and boosting her confidence. She told me she was surprised I still talked to her earlier today when she sent me that pic on posted on her.

Oh also she is currently married but they are seperated until they figure their marriage out. Whatever the hell that all really means.

You need to put yourself out there, dude. Women like you even if you are obese. Even fat women can be picky, so it's not because she's of lower quality.

Go out and find somebody. Next time you're at the mall or store, and you see a cute girl. You might as well go up to her and be like "hey, you're pretty cute". Yeah, you might get rejected or called a creep but so what? Millions of Indian dudes sexually harass women and nothing bad happens to them. You gotta respect them for putting themselves out there.

The rejection is gonna hurt at first, but you need to rub it off. Just remember, that you're not a virgin and some woman find you attractive. The problem is only 10% of women will probably be willing to let you fuck them. Women find the majority of men disgusting, but they all have a different idea of what "disgusting" is so you need to keep rolling the dice homie.

>had sex and went out with girls in high school
Get the fuck out Chad

Women will like you even if they are obese, they can still be picky*** typo lmao

Don't sleep with a woman who is still officially married. That smells like bad news.

Im not even trying one bit. I know it's my own fault I'm in this situation. I had terrible social anxiety after hifhscgool. It's better now but imaging myself meeting attractive women just freaks me out because I have no skills in that department.
I think next weekend I will take the offer to go to the damn Barnes and Noble with my friend who says that's a great place to pick up girls. I gotta do something.

I posted a pic of a girl I was talking to on tinder and her roommate found out and posted in the thread. It was a pretty funny experience to be honest and nobody believed it.

I was a cute emo boy. Emo girls liked me.
Now I'm a baby faced receding hairline can't grow strong facial hair and lonely. I'm no Chad.
When I first had sex at 16 we didn't have condom and used a...DVD wrapper and were like well fuck this won't work and didn't try for a bit after lmao

I hate to encourage bad behaviors, but you should try alcohol and Valerian root when you're using Tinder. I also have social anxiety, and I have a big fear of rejection. When I take Valerian root, it calms me down. I take like 6 pills before I go on Tinder and I'm able to converse without anxiety.

If you still have massive anxiety despite taking Valerian root, then use alcohol.

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You need to start using rogaine, finasteride, and Ketoconazole 1% shampoo to prevent yourself from becoming a baldcel. There are people on Reddit who did this when their hair started to fall out at 20, and they are in their late 30s and they still have hair.
reddit.com/r/tressless/

Ya her being married weirds me out.
All great advice. I went to the mall last weekend. I was in awe at how many cute 29 somethings were walking around. It was torture. Was like having a juicy burger in front of you when your starving.
I never even thought to say something to them. Because they are strangers. If I told them they were cute I'd have to back it up with more small talk if she didn't immediatly reject me. But I understand it's all skill and if I don't even try not I will be a lost cause and won't get anywhere.
I glad I made this thread and got insight. Jow Forums really does have some genuine people on here.

The first time you approach a girl at the mall. You will be rejected. You will make a major ass out of yourself. You will feel humiliated and emasculated. But guess what? You will realize that the world didn't come crashing down on you. Some girl that you'll never see again thinks you're a weirdo. It's no big deal. You know how many creeps have hit on her in the past? You will be mild.