List your red flags for the opposite sex. NO listing height, weight, income, etc. only real red flags.
Red Flags for women: >says mean things about people she calls her friends >overspends >obsessed with appearances >no typical adult skills (can't cook, can't sew a button, can't throw a punch, can't fix a sink/toilet or crack in the wall) >addicted to instagram
Red flags for men: >raises his voice to me >yells at video games >punches the wall or breaks objects when angry >acts derisively toward me/my interests >jokes always at other peoples expense >feels comfortable saying nigger, faggot, kike, etc. in every day conversation >calls himself redpilled (only bluepilled people do this) >watches youtubers religiously (such as pewdiepie) >thinks comfy games like sdv, animal crossing, farming simulator, etc. aren't "real games" >only plays fps or EA sports
>raises his voice to me >yells at video games >punches the wall or breaks objects when angry
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Jace Morales
if the content of this thread constitutes an interest of yours i'm sorry to say i feel compelled to deride it op
Landon Taylor
No, red flags are what you should avoid in a partner.
that makes me fucking dry.
Gabriel Williams
Red flags for women: >Tattoos >Single at 25 and beyond >Multi-colored hair >Loves traveling >Watches Netflix >Male friends >Liberal >Has picture with Black children >Has dated non-White people >Doesn't want kids >Doesn't have a relationship with father/family >Child of divorce/had out of wedlock
Cameron Powell
I don't want kids but I don't see it as a red flag.
Thread reminder that red flags are different from deal breakers.
Jackson Reed
Agree on everything. A perfect example of every one of my significant others, me and all my male friends. You really only need 1 of these for something to probably be quite fucked up with you.
Jacob Gomez
>feels comfortable saying nigger, faggot, kike, etc. in every day conversation I'd say these things in every day conversation with my friends, but not with strangers or acquaintances
Connor Smith
I don't believe in legacies or carrying on what was "left to me", and I have great concern for the future. If I didn't care about it I would probably have gotten married out of high school and had kids and lived an uneducated lower class life.
Brayden Taylor
>>Loves traveling What? The others are just you being a conservative shit head but what's wrong with traveling?
Julian Perry
>can't no true scotsman muh vidya >it's fine if he does it to any other form of media
all i do is play vidya i dont know about any of this shit
Ayden Davis
Nothing wrong with traveling per se. But when girls are into traveling, especially college educated women, it means they're into the fast life -- nomadic and not being tied down. It means they're looking for quick, exotic flings with foreign men or that they'd like to take advantage of other men to support the excursion. Travel is expensive -- women are getting the funds from somewhere.
The lower class woman with children and acts as a caring mother and wife is infinitely more valuable than a childless 31 year old with a sociology degree making 45K a year.
Josiah Young
>all she does is play video games
Michael Evans
I would literally kill for a vidya obsessed gf tho
Isaiah Lopez
>all she does is play life sim video games
Ryan James
It's lazy to have children and hope one of them becomes a doctor. If you want to see more doctors in the world, become one yourself.
Elijah Rogers
I just noticed I am still posting with my name from the other thread If you haven't checked it out, it's good fun
I wouldn't mind one either, to be honest, though I don't actually play that much myself. I was just making fun of .
Nathan Lopez
i don't. i also have a job : (
Brody King
I read both of the posts but didn't process that you were making fun of the other one. I'm a bit slow sometimes.
Ian Bennett
False premise: A loving mother doesn't have children so that she can benefit financially. That's disgusting. She has children because it is within her nature to produce and also to create a legacy -- to create a family, which is the fundamental unit of civilized societies. A mothers love would push her children to do better than she could.
Mason Williams
Then there are no loving mothers. If you watch forensic files and a young woman dies, her parents lament the loss of potential grandchildren who don't exist, over the loss of their own child, who very much existed and died a horrible death.
Robert Price
But are you open to different, non-virtual experiences?
Easton Taylor
i live on a farm so i am outside a lot.
Cameron Garcia
Pretty on point OP.
Enjoy your PTSD.
Aiden Ward
Yeah, because Forensic Files is all women. Second, what you described yields no inference that said grandparents are upset because they will not be able to financially benefit from grandchildren. Rather, they're upset that their daughter will never be able to experience family live, and that they will never have the opportunity to have grandchildren -- which means their legacy has exhausted. Assuming no other children.
Lincoln Davis
That's a disgusting thing to mourn when a real live person has been killed.
Aaron Scott
>Single at 25 and beyond Just say 25 and beyond because if they aren't single they're not available.
William Cook
Not gonna scroll down and not say yee haw to that cat
Chase Morgan
The point is that the girl's parents are not grandparents. They care about their legacy more than their kids.
John Bennett
living on a farm sounds pretty fun tbdesu. i kinda wish i had been born into that life is your job on the farm too or is that unrelated
Christopher Gomez
unrelated to the farm. I am a cartoonist.
Sebastian Lopez
Is a biological construct. Until the need for survival exists self-interest is the primary motivation of all people.
Jason Cook
Hey OP, are you enjoying The Sims 4?
Michael Wood
red flags for women >browses social media in public >doesn't want to have kids >ideological >disloyal or many boyfriends >bad hygiene and bad awareness >talks about suicide or depression all the time
green flags >loyal >likes to talk >enjoys simple things >likes to be feminine as long as its for me >has interests or hobbies and wants to share them with me as i share mine with them >is alright with either being a homebody or going out for shenanigans
Brandon Bennett
how did you get into cartooning? would you be willing to post some you've made here
Adrian Wilson
Another green flag for a woman is not caring what others think of them, but this is rare.
Michael Jones
>my gf never responded back It hurts
Christian Taylor
You're again assuming that those are the only thing that the grandparents are morning. People can be upset about multiple things. Like, these aren't mutually exclusive ideas.
Landon Wright
red flags in girls: >has casual sex with men >doesn't wear sunscreen >owns a dog >identifies as socialist >identifies as conservative >fat
red flags in dudes: >has casual sex. >doesn't wear sunscreen >owns a dog >identifies as socialist >identifies as conservative >fat >"anti-SJW"/"race realist" >has anger issues >has ever been violent >yells when it's not necessary >too insecure to go out and buy tampons for a gf/sister >has no female friends >financially dependent on parents past age 25 >plays violent video games >watches kinky porn >has a bad relationship with his mother >doesn't own a tailored suit >has never left the US >has significant student or consumer debt >too stubborn to see a psychiatrist and take meds >has "broken up" with more than one therapist >hates cats
a lot of red flags in men aren't so bad in women because women are more psychologically flexible and open to new experiences
Connor Butler
This was definitely written by a girl, because some of the red flags are fucking insane.
Easton Richardson
>too insecure to go out and buy tampons for a gf/sister I don't understand this. What is there to be insecure about?
Andrew Price
>hates cats >anti-SJW
Spotted the tranny
Nathaniel Nelson
Masculine qualities are good in a girl because it takes personal depth to go beyond the stereotypical behaviour of the group that one belongs to. It however, is not always good in a man, one of these examples is when it takes the form of mindless brutism like getting angry at irrelevant things and being unable to control ones anger, because its just an exaggeration of already existing qualities you have. It does not take any personal depth to become a caricature of yourself.
Ayden Robinson
>doesn't own a tailored suit
Also why are you obsessed with sunscreen
Luke Taylor
>Also why are you obsessed with sunscreen Holy shit I didn't notice that This was written by a fucking autist
Luis Powell
red flags for men: >watches anime >obsessed with beer >mommys boy >addicted to social media (its very feminine) >has a ''phone voice''/beta voice that he uses when trying to be polite >accepts when you offer to pay
Ian Morris
>doesn't wear sunscreen
What did they mean by this?
Isaiah Thomas
>accepts when you offer to pay I fucking hate women. WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU OFFER IF YOU DON'T MEAN IT
Luis Jackson
It's a test to see if you think we're worth paying for.
Jason Perez
No one is worth paying for.
Gabriel Hughes
Why does love involve "tests" Can't you be honest with someone who you are trying to be in a relationship with?
Ryan Miller
Red flags for women >Isn't a real woman (Trannies are mentally ill) >Dyed Hair >tattoos >piercings aside from the traditional ear ones >lack of a Hymen/loss of virginity >claims to not want a family/kids >dresses in slutty, skimpy, tight, or otherwise revealing clothes in public or around anyone but her partner >posts nude pics online or sends nudes to anyone but a committed partner >seeks validation through posting pics social media, soc, or other places where thirsty cucks spew compliments at every bitch that posts >Bipolar, Borderline, Schizophrenia, sociopathy, psychopathy, basically any mental illness I can't relate to I guess >lack of common interests >doesn't like my friends >all or a majority of her friends are male >leftist (if she can't be reasoned out of it, as I once was.) >extremely career oriented (it's not bad if she wants to work and make some money, hell great if she went through uni without being brainwashed and can get a good job for a little while, but I'd rather her duties be as a homemaker and to be a mother)
Did I miss anything? Probably but I think this is a long enough list for me to list outright
Brody Young
You could just, yknow, be up front
and women wonder why men can't deal with them
Landon Carter
If you meet a woman you really like and want to impress you'd pay for her meal, ticket, taxi ride, whatever. It's natural for masculine men.
Dating and seduction is a bit of a game, don't deny that.
Lincoln Gutierrez
These are decent I like dyed hair, but it's a red flag because the kind of people who dye their hair are often shitty. I'd totally be down with getting my gf to dye her hair after we are already in a relationship. I don't care about virginity, as long as they aren't a whore. If they lost their virginity in an actual relationship I'm ok with it. Majority of friends being male is more of a yellow flag imo I'd be ok with her being on the left as long as she isn't a radical
Luke Scott
>Dating and seduction is a bit of a game, don't deny that. Why is it a fucking game. That's retarded. If I found out that some bitch was "testing" me I'd instantly leave her. I'm not gonna date some manipulative bitch who will probably stab me in my sleep if she dreams that I cheated on her.
Juan Sanders
If I wanted a game I'd hop on my PC and play one, I want a family.
People who treat dating as a game will always end up bitter and alone when they're older.
Christian Miller
This. If they treat dating as a "game" then they are obviously a whore who isn't actually looking for love, but for fun
Jayden Foster
No. It's demeaning.
Wyatt Morris
yea understandable, but I'm still pretty young (21) so dating an 18 year old virgin and waiting for marriage is still pretty practical as far as I'm concerned. Not just practical, but preferable.
That said the one huge red flag I forgot is if she's over 25. If a woman is still alone by 25 her biological clock starts ticking ever so louder (the next milestone is 28) as she has failed to secure a mate, and so she will change her behavior and act not like herself until a kid is put in her, at which point her behavior will revert to the reason she was single at 25. That said, be sure to put a baby in your girl before she's 28, because if you don't impregnate your gf by that point she will subconsciously think you're infertile and her biological clock will urge her to seek other genetic content (ie, causing what may have previously been a good girl to cheat because the ticking of her biological clock against time)
Benjamin Thomas
Biological clocks aren't real. People know if they want kids or not by puberty.
Jordan Brooks
t. 18yo male who thinks they don't want kids
Leo Martin
Normal men ENJOY paying for women they like. It makes them feel masculine and makes the woman feel feminine.
You want a family, you will have to provide. If you can't even pay for her meal it shows what you'll be like for the rest of the relationship, stingy. You're supposed to show that you can take care of a female.
Just remember that normal men have no problem with this, and think about how beta it is to reject something that has been FOREVER.. Men have always brought gifts to women they wanted to woo.
Jonathan Hernandez
You're going to be alone forever with that kind of shitty personality.
I'd be ok with paying, but I don't want the girl offering to pay and then getting pissed when I accept. If I can't even trust what she's fucking saying, how am I supposed to love her?
Henry Cruz
I'm 24 and not a male and I know I don't want kids, and have known since actually before puberty.
Jackson Martin
Women
>Uses virgin as an insult >Does nothing and expects me or other men to support her in life >Hates men >Doesn't have a job/doesn't plan to be a housewife >Posts on social media a lot >Has a lot of male friends outside of the internet >Won't let me look at her text conversations
Men ((I'm not gay but I guess I'll do this as well?)
>Bad hygiene >Is into cuckholding of any kind >Hates women >Orbits to any capacity
Would you like to not have kids but still be romantically involved with me?
Christopher Gutierrez
If women can test men then men can test women as well. For me if the girl doesn't at least make an attempt to offer to pay then thats a red flag. I don't want a girl who just sucks my money away like a leech. I want a woman who is capable of providing for me as much as I can for her and even if she may not be able to financially I want to at least see her attempt to.
Christopher Stewart
Obective red-flags for grillz
High waisted shorts Dyed hair Piercings Tattoos (Only one small one that is meaningful is passable if personality is up to standards) If they speak in new gen-slang saying such immature terms like "lit" "senpai" smfh" "thot" "on fleek" "queen" "yas" Talks in deep voice Talks in high pitched voice like a hooker/baby Has no sense of hygiene Dresses in slutty, tight, edgy, loose or weird fashion Goth girls/emos (Universally known for daddy issues, cutters and demons in the closet) Hipster girls (Universally annoying, pretentious, awful style, usually don't shower often or lack true ambitions, bad taste in music or annoying about good taste, thick glasses) Country girls (They are used to fucking chad's brother, so avoid at all costs unless you want to pretend to be her brother) Too edgy/trying too hard to be cool Trying too hard to pander to trivial social rights issues (SJW/too leftist) Too right-wing (Obnoxious) Hair that's too short Hair that's too long Has any social media besides facebook (Even that is still a negative point in 2019) Has ever taken nude photos likes cats Eats too much/too little Uses Tinder Goes on Jow Forums
Bentley Clark
How bout you make like a transvestite and kill your self
Blake Richardson
Wrong, I went from not wanting kids to wanting kids after I turned 20
My issue isn't paying or being masculine, my issue is thots playing stupid games like this. Wife material wouldn't offer to pay, she would simply understand her place and let the man pay.
Ryan Cook
Why are you so mad at OP?
Angel Price
>>feels comfortable saying nigger, faggot, kike, etc. in every day conversation You live a life of self-inflicted imprisonment and it makes me sick. To constrain something as simple as your own vocabulary is anathema to personal freedom
Gabriel Price
>only plays fps or EA sports i thought this said esports for a sec. i don't meet any of your redflags but i pretty much only play competitive games like starcraft
Liam Morales
*faints from not saying nigger*
Caleb Rivera
It's not about being racist or not being racist. It's about actually feeling discomfort from saying a word. I can not imagine being uneasy about vibrating my throat in a certain manner. The idea of resenting the ability and freedom to do something is frankly disgusting to me.
Gavin Sullivan
>It however, is not always good in a man, one of these examples is when it takes the form of mindless brutism like getting angry at irrelevant things and being unable to control ones anger, because its just an exaggeration of already existing qualities you have. I find it funny when people say not liking it when a man acts like a woman is misogyny. No, hon, it's because a man is strong enough to break shit and injure people if he acts like a woman.
Alexander Lewis
>thigh or chest tattoo >can't cook >high score on snapchat >going nowhere in life / shit not together >materialistic >sjw >narcissist >drug use
Ian Wilson
libertarians can suck me off through my jean shorts.
Kayden Wood
Why not skip the whole dating/dinner charade and just become an honest whore?
Parker Torres
I hate it when guys yell or act like manchildren. All the professional older guys are way out of my league though.
Michael Gutierrez
My beliefs go beyond politics. It is simply a matter of being human. It is what separates man from beast.
Hudson Phillips
>It's natural for masculine men. Remember! When anyone tells you to "man up" they are almost always asking you to act against your own best interests (and usually in a way that benefits them).
Parker Wright
red flags for men: >has an "obsession" with marvel movies >tries to separate me from my friends or family >insults me or anyone i care about, especially if they explain it away as "banter" >laziness >neet >doesn't like to read