How's your home?

My home isn't good. It was rundown when I moved in. My family never cares for it. I have the only clean room in the house. I think there is mold the air is heavy. Also it always smells like smoke. From cigarettes and from weed. I do not do either.
We don't have an oven. I bought a miniature fridge with a freezer part and a microwave. That's how I survive.
We also have flies all the time. It is crazy. There's always at least 6 even now in winter. I don't know why they enjoy living like this.
Pic is the shower.

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And here my mom insists on coming over to clean my place every 2 weeks. Luxury for me, shitty for you. Sorry OP.

My mom is a hoarder. We have cooking stuff such as stove, oven, microwave, utensils, cookware, fridge, etc. Dust everywhere. Can't sit on couch. Can't put stuff on kitchen table unless you clear a spot. Have to push stuff around on stove to get clear burner. My room is the only clean room in the place. I know when I move out, it will be consumed by the hoard but I can't control it.

I would kill to move out to be honest.
My grandfather stores all his tacky shit here. His dogs and cats pee and pop everywhere upstairs. I never leave my room other than use bathroom.
My sister is the main problem. She has 2 kids 2 and 3 years old different dads lol but she never cleans up after them or herself. It is disgusting. I look forward to working over staying here.
My mother just lays in bed and watches tv when she doesn't work. It is weird she used to keep a clean house.
Pic is laundry room. Posted it earlier in another thread.

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After living with a mother with dementia who severely hoarded, I had to clean it up when she was put in a home.

The ceilings were covered in fly waste and I counted over 50 in the room she spent her time most in. After she left, the ceiling had to be cleaned of a brownish tint.

There was ingrained waste which had soiled in from her urinating on the floor, the stove and fridge didn't work and there was constantly flies everywhere. I had to clean out balls of flies.

If you do manage to remove the source of whatever is causing the mess, bleach your floor and ceilings

My grandfather Alzheimer's and dementia. An awful combination. He is terrible to be around. He mostly just all the time.
Oddly my sister is worse than him with the mess.

When my mother never took her medication it was impossible to exist in the house. One time, she screamed until I woke up at 4am just so she could have someone watch her take a piss.
She constantly screamed for attention and manipulated everything. She was unemployed ever since she came to this country and basically had children for welfare payments.

Still, it's taught me that ignoring mental health and genetics is dangerous

I absolutely hate living here. Everyone does there best to make it worse.
My grandfather should be in a home. He wakes everyone up and just does things to be a dick. Like keeping the AC off when people are here but turning it on when he is alone. He also insults everyone. I get called a useless fag daily. He'll make life hell until we buy him booze. He even insults the little kids.
I really hope I don't get this way. Nightmare. Although honestly I doubt I'll make it that far

As a mentally ill person, i'm never having kids, pls let this filthy genetics die.

On the bright side, you'll learn to persevere. The only way to escape is to put them into a care home or get an education and escape. If you don't get an education then you basically doing shit jobs with low pay and basically have to move back home if you lose your job.

Don't know if you live in freedom land but sometimes saving up some money and making a run for it is the best choice

Seems like most of your problems comes from being associated with people with mental illness.
Can't say I have it bad now, I lived as a neet for 5 years, I mainly took care of my little brothers while my mom and step dad worked.
After 5 years of working, I was planning to move out of the small trailer we lived on, but we sold the place we lived on, and used it as a down payment to buy a new home.
Me and my step dad convinced my mom to stop working. My mom does all the cooking/cleaning/laundry/etc.
I really enjoy it, All I do is work/college, and IF I have some spare time, I play some vidya.

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I am never having kids. Don't want them and I wouldn't be able to give them a good life.
My brother has 2 kids he never sees and my sister has 2 she is raising alone.
I'm not a preserving guy. I've been on the edge for a long time. I've thought about and planned suicide a lot.
I work full time at a gas station now. Can't live alone and don't know anyone for a roommate. I'm supposed to become shift lead in July which I'm hoping is enough pay to rent a home. I'm not sure if I can. My credit is fucked from hospital bills.
My only real plan is to save up as much as I can and move in with a friend I met on here in Virginia. I'm in Colorado. It is dumb for that to be my plan I know. But I like and trust him. Supposed to be visiting him in March.
Honestly without that I doubt make it far. Everything is really weighing me down.

Unable to hold a easy job. Just overnight at a gas station. I'm not sure if I would be happy if I lived alone. I hope I would be.
Do you plan on living there after you graduate? Sounds nice.

Dumb dumb dumb. Idiot.
I am able.
I am able to hold an east job.
Sorry.

Mine looks pretty bad aswell. I'm kinda waiting for my dad to die to start fixing the whole thing. He doesn't care and seems to enjoy living in what it looks like a combat zone building. When I suggest something like
>hey we should paint these walls
Or
>you should start using an ash litter so you can stop dropping the filters on the fucking floor
He tries to say something """funny""" and completely ignore the suggestion. Fucking cunt

Why do you think he is content living like that?
I don't even want this house. Which is good since he refuses to put it in someone else's name. It will be taken by IRS most likely.
Only bad thing is I will lose home.

He cares more about building my sister's home than our own. I mean, I keep most of my complaints to myself because I'm a neet and eat three times a day thanks to him but come on man, there is no need to be a dirty fuck just because you can. He told me he is proud of his behavior because there is no woman to tell him to shave or to clean... this house was made by my great grandparent so this will be my home in the future. I wouldn't want my hypothetical kids to live like this.

That's odd.
Could you fix the house up with out him?

I try and keep it looking ok, but im not a naturally tidy person, plus I just adopted a rescue dog that was kept in a shed her whole life so I'm cleaning up a lot of piss. I'm pretty immune to it by now, luckily I have hardwood floors.
I mean things are untidy, especially clothes and linens. As i don't really have any furniture to store them in. But I'm not living in filth either I suppose. Just a little grubby because I have dogs and don;t want to spend my entire day wiping mud of the floor and hairs off the furniture. I just do it once at the end of the day.
I had a friend who lived in almost hoarder levels of filth, I can understand how it just piles up and gets on top of you when you are depressed, and I really enjoyed helping her sort it. it's always something I've tried to maintain some pride in even in my darkest times. "I might be a useless fuckup who doesnt leave the house but at least its relatively pleasant to be here"

Yes, I have some experience doing that kind of stuff. Most things function as intended thankfully. Things to fix are mostly aesthetic and then just try to keep it clean.

also should add its a relatively old house ( 60's prefab) And I don't pay much for it but it has some general tattyness in the finish, I need to replace the shower, the bathroom wallpaper is peeling off. The floor has paint on it from the last cunts who had the place. and a bit of a mildew/condensation problem in winter. Just can't really afford to do much with it

When the bipolar kicks in

Dog pee isn't that bad. Relatively easy to clean. and I understand not wanting to clean daily.
I am q neat freak with my room. If I don't I'll be swarmed with bugs.
There's a room upstairs that the cats sprayed in. The carpet has like pee syrup. Disgusting.
Why don't you fix it up while your dad builds your sisters home?
Sounds nice honestly.
As long as there isn't a huge problem.