This might be the most important post you read here, if you are ready.
We are all born alphas.
Fun, care-free and happy with core-confidence where everyone was our friend and life was seen beautiful and exiting. We had courage to adventure and days were spend exploring and laughing while we all wanted to astronauts. We were full of marvel and energy.
Just remove the negative energy and victimized-unworthy self-image you created from your childhoods traumatic experiences where you lost that connection to your self-esteem and created an ego to compensate your natural state of presence and self-esteem.
Only to find brief situational confidence from cool clothes, money, approval ect. Instead of feeling that good all the time. That feeling we get from hanging around our friends/family or that euforia of being in love SHOULD BE OUR UNCONDITIONAL NATURAL STATE OF BEING ALL THE TIME.
And when you feel like that its pretty easy to be alpha and crush it in life.
Maybe you were bullied, maybe your parents were abusive, maybe you just felt alone and ugly all the time unlike the people on TV.
You have to understand that we all go through that. Thats why this society is build on escapism and addictions.
The worst you feel, the easier its to sell you stuff you dont need.
Instead of having hapiness, confidence and presence all the time, coming withing, we pay money to have it 5 minutes and literally poison ourselves just to talk to girls.
Until you really allow yourself to experience and LET GO those original traumatic feelings instead of escaping, repressing, expressing and suppressing them all the time, they will always linger in your subconscious mind and determine the rest of your life.
If you feel like beta and life dont seem fun, light and easy, then there is work to do. Listen Power of now by Echart Tolle with open mind until you get it and then learn to let go of negative feelings.Until you do this process, you will always feel stress and be unhappy.