Being a dominant female is hell. Despite what Jow Forums says, 99% of guys aren't into femdom IRL...

Being a dominant female is hell. Despite what Jow Forums says, 99% of guys aren't into femdom IRL. Jow Forums doesn't represent the general population so most normie guys are into being dominant and choking/hitting/spanking girls, making them suck their cocks, etc. Every time I try to even casually bring up the topic of femdom to a guy outside of here, he calls me a creep and says he isn't into that shit at all, then proceeds to tell me how he's going to dom me. I've had one or two guys straight up tell me they'll "pretend" to be into it for me, but I was like, yeah no.
Where can I find a cute subby bf who's fairly normal outwardly and not in the local BDSM sex dungeon community?

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Post tits or get off this board you whore

i like being extremely rough with girls but i also like when they do it to me
i've had gfs before, just been so touch-starved for the past 5 years that i would let a woman beat me pretty badly just to get a cuddle or two

>Where can I find a cute subby bf who's fairly normal outwardly and not in the local BDSM sex dungeon community?
probably all around you but you ignore them because they're not chad.

>Where can I find a cute subby bf who's fairly normal outwardly and not in the local BDSM sex dungeon community?
Jow Forums

I don't think I've ever met a dominant woman who didn't equate dom with just being randomly mean to you.

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This must be a copy pasta

>cute
>outwardly normal
>Jow Forums
all three is not possible

What does outwardly normal mean?

I'm pretty shy but not a complete weirdo.

I think OP meant acts normal enough in public

Where can i find a girl that is genuinely into femdom?

80% chances of larping fagoot
18% chances of hambeast or/and REALLY ugly girl
2% of a good looking roastie wanting to find someone to play her fetich, but since all roasties wants chad and chad is manly and dominant as fuck that will never happen

What are you?

Rize is so sexual... In the very first episode when she jumped out of the locker with her gun I could not stop myself from masturbating, the sight of her released something within me and I couldn't control it.

Are you exclusively dominant--i.e., does vanilla sex turn you off?

You do realise you can have vanilla sex where the female is in control, right?

Obviously, but I meant in the traditional sense with a man being in control. Stop being pedantic.

I can tell you they exist, I'm one of them but I'm taken.

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>Cute
I'd say I'm kinda cute, been told I'm around an 8/10 by 2 different girls, but I think I'm closer to average
>Sub
Yup 100%
>normal outwards
Somewhat quiet but yeah
>not in the local bdsm sex dungeon community
Wasn't aware this was a thing
Too bad you aren't an actual girl, would have worked out well.

so what you're saying is, i can lay on the bed like a starfish and do nothing, and you're going to aggressively suck and ride my dick, as well as "make me" eat you out or something?
maybe i'm getting the wrong idea here, why is this bad.

>where can i find a normie who has mommy issues
>posts this on Jow Forums
how about you just go to the board dedicated to this exact kind of degeneracy

This is obviously some bitter dude letting out his frustration on this shitheap of a forum.

Femdom is the most ridiculous shit ever. I'm a skinny femme manlet, but if the average female tried to dom me I would laugh in her face.

Despite never working out I'm probably way stronger than her, way bigger than her, and let's be honest way smarter than her. Why would I submit to someone who has absolutely no power over me?

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Wow, you really showed us. Look at this tough guy over here!

I'm NOT a tough guy, that was the entire point of my post, I'm probably bottom 10% of males in terms of toughness.

I want to be dominated and I'm more attracted to women, but women just aren't capable of being dominant so I mostly go for guys.

>women just aren't capable of being dominant
Nice stereotype. Oh shit, I'm on r9k; it's nothing but stereotypes.

Aside from female athletes/weight lifters/roid users, I don't think a woman could dominate me let alone the average man.

bump on tiny off-chance of things happening

you fail to take into account that girls aren't trustworthy and guys won't just tell you possibly embarrassing things

Yikes... you must be one butt-ugly woman.

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guys go out

You can dominate me anyday. Having a dominant gf who keeps me in chastity would be like heaven.

>being female is hell
if you can't find a man into domination, you aren't even trying
at all
not even one little bit
try unlocking your door and stay outside for five minutes

That implies OP is either not cute or not outwardly normal too. She should date on her level, then.

>way stronger than her, way bigger than her, and let's be honest way smarter than her.
Those are exactly what makes dominating you so rewarding.

pls be at least bi

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where do you even live?
middle of nowhere?

>into femdom
>have met dom girls IRL
>thought I was submissive
>turns out I'm just a masochist

It's an unbelievably frustrating feeling.

>cute
>subby
>fairly normal
WTF are you doing here?

I'm a virgin. What is the difference?

Just lie and pretend to be normal then start beating the shit out of him, if he retaliates or calls the police just lie your ass off.

"Submissive" means you're turned on by following the lead of your partner and doing what they say in bed. "Masochist" means you're turned on by being hurt and humiliated. There's obviously a lot of overlap, but it's not 100%. If a girl wants to "dominate" me by taking the lead, telling me what to do, and being physically rough, it doesn't turn me on because it doesn't feel degrading. What I want are things like being put on a leash and made to lick a girl's feet while she spits on me and insults me, and if the domination doesn't align with my specific turn-ons then I don't enjoy it.

It may sound like splitting hairs, but the main thrill for an actual submissive is following the other person's orders in-and-of-itself, regardless of what they may be. If my specific turn-ons aren't being fulfilled I don't enjoy it. The flipside of this is that while I've met a fair number of dominant girls, I've met exactly zero sadistic girls who like doing the kind of things I want done to me.

Interesting, thanks. It makes me wonder which one would I be.

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Honestly from your description starting the thread. I'm the perfect guy for you. I'm an extreme sub and only wanting to be dominated truly. Also I actually have an average to attractive appearance. I'm fairly normal but I'm into some weird things that you'd probably be okay with since you get on this board after all. Sadly I may be a bit too old for you as I'm in my late 20s almost 30 years old. But don't let that fool you, I could easily pass as a 20 year old.

>I'm cute
>I'm fairly normal

Sorry I'm not a sub OP, You'll find one someday!

Switch relationships are the best OP I love being dommed but also domming, fuck being singular