So I'm in a lab group with 2 girls about 6 years younger than me (I went to uni late) They're really good friends and knew each other for like a year before I met them.
I have both their numbers and flirt with them both but I'm trying to get with the blonde one, the other is an asian that is cute but not my type and fairly sure she has a bf. How do I ask the blonde if she wants to hookup or should I ask the asian one if she's single? Pls help pic related
"Would you like to have a coffee or something later?"
Its not that hard.
Waste of trips I swear, and coffee gives me the shits
its just an example you autist. Food,drinks, even just lunch works
>muh "let's grab coffee"
Unless he's Chad they'll think he's asking as "a friend", just two friends drinking coffee nothing else going on.
And as soon as he makes obvious what he's looking for she'll go: "OMG user, I thought we were friends!! You deceived me!!".
Believe me...if you're not Chad stop trying to pick chicks like in the movies.
You fail to comprehend I don't have the time to go out unless it's a guaranteed thing which is why I'm wondering how I can do that
you fail to understand a girl isn't going to fuck you if you can't at least pretend you have the time for her. How do you think this works? Hey let's go fuck. But i have to hurry i got a class to catch. Do you have an condome?
I will make time for her if there is romantic interest from her otherwise I'm moving on, maybe if you were older you would understand the pressure of trying to find a partner like I am
Unless you have already put yourself in the friend zone, it is really obvious that asking to go get coffee is a sign of attraction.
>maybe if you were older you would understand the pressure of trying to find a partner like I am
If youre under so much pressure then why cant you make any time for them? What about if there is interest do you suddenly get more time?
If you have been flirting with her like you said, then the next step is to get her alone e.g. a date and talk to her and see if shes interested. If you want make it explicitly clear that its a date and if she goes along then theres interest. Maybe if you were older you would understand how this works.
Can you just leave you're only stating what I already know
then whats the point in this fucking thread just do it already you pussy do you want to be a wizard
I know I'm going to get shit for this but I have a body count of 26 women not including traps/mtf and couples that I have fucked. I'm not wizard material anymore but I have issues in getting dates
Go out for drinks after lab, get her drunk and then have your way. Tell her you are well connected and she will be too embarrassed and young to make a case.
So NO one thinks it's a good idea to ask her Asian friend if she's single then before I make my moves?
>hook up with a girl six years younger than him
Ew.
Honestly OP you sound pretty disgusting if I'm being perfectly honest with you. Might want to try reddit
Only ask if the other girl isnt interested
otherwise you might end up with both interested and making it complicated
Also you said you liked the blonde better and Asian wasnt your type so why bother
No it's difficult to understand what I meant, I mean ask the Asian girl (because she's friends with the blonde) if the blonde one is single, just a little reconnaissance
Neither will be interested in OP. He sounds like a total creep.
oh in that case sure, but bring it up casually at least. Or straight up ask the blonde something like what you doing at the weekend, usually if theyre not single they mention a boyfriend at this point unless theyre scumbags
Yeah I'll do that everyone is calling me a creep I am only pursuing the blonde one damn
I was gonna say youre not that much of a creep but you are posting about these girls on Jow Forums so I take it back.